POLYGAMY NOT THERE IN QURAN?
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So , once again, I would request you to, please take a break and do some serious studies for a few years, before you want to interpret God's law for Mankind.
peace
siki
Salaam siki
This is a learning forum, not Darul Iftaa'. No one is obliged to take anybody's interpretation.
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Salaam Samia.
According to yaseen fa is a conjuction; it is not a matter of conjugation. And he seems to be right because you also say it means then, so, consequently?
Sorry. I misread "conjunction" as "conjugation".
I looked up the term hamz?alif (it may be written differerently in Arabic). I learned that the alif is dropped when it is uttered as (i) like in the fankihu in 43. Is that the reason why yaseen writes it as fainkihu in order to stress the rule?
Depending on its meaning (according to the context) it may or may not have a GRAMMATICAL effect on the verb.
I would rather learn its effect in meaning than in GRAMMAR. Will you please explain the vocalization of the NKH in 2432 and 43? Would it be correct if the NKH in 43 were vocalized like the NKH in 2432 (Wa ankehu) instead of fainkihu?
The difference between the two verbs "unkaha" and "nakaha" is the hamza (the glottal stop) in the beginning. When they are in the imperative, they have the same form (unkih/unkihuu), both beginning with the glottal stop. The difference between the two glottal stops is that one is original (imperative of unkaha) and the other is not (imperative of nakaha). When not preceded by any word, i.e when both verbs are in the beginning of a senence, there's no difference between them. Only when they are preceded by a word or a preposition such as wa or fa, will they have different pronunciation and writing
(imperative of the verb nakaha and is pronounced fankihuu)
(imperative of the verb unkaha and is pronounced fa unkihuu)
You have to first decide what verb it is before you decide how it is written. Were the hamzas written before the diacritical signs? -
Samia, this is for you, if you kindly give your opinion
My understanding of this aya 4.3 had been the traditional, but I hadn't considered carefully before seeing it discussed in this forum. However, when I read the succession of ayas from the yaayuhannas on, everything seems to flow smoothly with injuctions for the welfare of the "nisaa'" addressed to the collectivity. However the interpretation of 4.3 as abruptly addressing males to then carry on addressing the "ayuhannas" just as before and in the same tone, seems to me to be disonnant and interrupting the line it is following. On the other hand the fact that a collectivity could be enjoined to marry its pupils for the general welfare does make sense, so much if the pupils are interpreted as nisaa'-vulnerable or as nisaa'-women. Even, taken in that way, you could even particularize and understand that some males of the "ayuhannas" marry some nisaa' of the ayuhannas.
Salaam
?Could it that part of aya 4.3, if understood as n-k-h, and someboy is marrying the women, in view of the general address and the plural throughout be taken to mean that one or several males could marry at one and the same time, one, two or three or four females without necessarily implying that any one of the male would marry more than one woman.
As I think we know, traditional law has not admitted the simultaneous marriage of more than one wife, only succesive addition of marriages. So is this so that here it is said that those who have a wife may add another, those who have two may add another, etc. or rather what I say in my previous paragraph, that it is not a matter of just one man marrying several, but of several males marrying one each, or could both possibilities be included?
I myself find that after a while of turning all this things in one's mind the mind becomes boggled. So please, no hurry, if it is not clear, just giver your honest relaxed opinion, unless of course you know straight away. Thanks
Salaam
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Salaam huruf
If the verse stops at two, three or four, of course it can imply that many would marry at the same time. The problem is that it continues to say immediately after "fa'in khiftum alla ta3diluu fawaahida if you fear not to be fair then one (feminine)", showing explicitly that the numbering is meant for the feminine gender.
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?when both verbs are in the beginning of a senence, there's no difference between them. (Samia)
They both have to be in the beginning because they are imperatives
An-Nisaa 3 fankihu.
Fankihu (fainkihu) ma taaba lekum mine?n nisaa?An-Noor 24 wa ankehu.
Wa ?nkehu?l ayaama minkum?Were the hamzas written before the diacritical signs?
Yes. Please see inkihu and ?nkihu above. My question is Would it be correct if the NKH in 43 were vocalized like the NKH in 2432; that is, would it be correct in grammar and meaning if the sentence in 43 began Wa ankehu ma taaba l?kum min??n nisaa??
Peace,
Hasan Akcay -
Salaam huruf
If the verse stops at two, three or four, of course it can imply that many would marry at the same time. The problem is that it continues to say immediately after "fa'in khiftum alla ta3diluu fawaahida if you fear not to be fair then one (feminine)", showing explicitly that the numbering is meant for the feminine gender.
That is clear, that it says one, but we are taking it also that it is n-k-h we are hipothesizing, so anyway the numbers would have to be feminine, also two and three and four, but what I mean is from where do we get that when it talks about one, two, three or four, it must be only one man man who marries all of them, two or three or four. Aren't we taking for granted that this ta3diluu it is between several wives that are married to the same man, when that is precisely what we are trying to determine? Are we sure it is not ta3diluu between several orphans or women in general, in the general context in which it is dealing with the situation. Because there is also this question of simultaneity.
In economical terms, if you feel that you cannot give their entitlement to the orphans, how can marrying the mother of the orphans or the grown up orphans yourself help you economically? First youhave to settle the 'ujur, then youhave to give to every orphan their dues. If you could not do that without marrying them, less still you can do it marrying them, since you would assume all the payments to them or to the mother and on top of it you would have to support them and pay 'ujur (for one, for two, for three, for four?). If I understand the ayuhannas as a collective, which must be, I may take it that if some of you marry some of them, in any number convenient, some other of you may be better able to afford looking after the the other orphans, because the burden would be better distributed. We must bear in mind that nothing is telling us that in this aya the "ayuhannas" has stopped including women.
I mean in principle and in general I had no quarrel with regulating actual poligamy when the social situation was such that it would be an improvement for the general and particular welfare, but this particular aya, which I, like most people, took before for granted that it meant having several wives, seems to me now not so clear that it means so. And if taken in that sense seems to me to not flow with the other ayas before and after.
Salaam
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As Salaamu Alaika siki,
Continue to express your feelings because that is all that he is doing also. You should also add huruf to this description. Both have turned all their attention to Samia to see if she can give them some hope from the arabic grammar that they may still have any valid point left. Unfortunately, she will not be able to. I am sure they are confused and disappointed because they know deep within themselves that all of their feelings and emotions about how polygyny is a harm to women are WRONG! (if they are to have faith in Allah and Al Quran). Let them be, they have left all reasonable discussion and acceptance of Quranic evidence if it proves their positions wrong.
As Salaamu Alaikum, peace
Brother Hassan !
peace be upon you.
I had stopped reasoning with you after realizing that you are too immature and illogical to have any conversation with , but was polite enough not to tell you, thinking that you might realize it yourself, but Imam is right, you can not be allowed a free ride. Because the erroneous theories produced by your faulty logic may mislead some beginners.
Now, let me be very straight with you, Your reasoning is consistently the poorest that I have ever come across in this forum, and your posts are a big distraction in a discussion, specially in this thread, which is about a very serious and delicate issue.
So , once again, I would request you to, please take a break and do some serious studies for a few years, before you want to interpret God's law for Mankind.
peace
siki
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Peace all,
Pardon my surprise because of Br. siki and Br. IQO's post. My learned brothers, just so that I understand what your understanding is about polygyny in the Book, what is (or are) the exact condition(s) when polygyny is allowed? There is apparently a very specific condition. Can you please tell in the simplest words that are possible for you what you understand of that specific condition (without quoting any verses for the moment)?
I would really appreciate it if you keep your reply specific and to the point, without any open-endedness.
Peace
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Salaams Sharp001,
You seemed to very judgemental in your "surprisedness". What exactly are you surprised about? And you made your point with your previous posts about behavior, and obviously didn't listen to any of the responses, but stop posting with this "I am so righteous" attitude. If you want to participate in the subject of the post, stop trying to judge and analize everyone posting and do some research and post some points of view.
But just to answer your question, the answer to it is already in my posts. The condition for polygyny is that the man thinks he can be fair to the women that he will marry. Of course the women that marry him have to agree to do so. As I pointed out in a previous post here, it seems to be no problem to Allah even if men marry more than one women simply because of their goodness/beauty.
As Salaamu Alaikum, peace
Peace all,
Pardon my surprise because of Br. siki and Br. IQO's post. My learned brothers, just so that I understand what your understanding is about polygyny in the Book, what is (or are) the exact condition(s) when polygyny is allowed? There is apparently a very specific condition. Can you please tell in the simplest words that are possible for you what you understand of that specific condition (without quoting any verses for the moment)?
I would really appreciate it if you keep your reply specific and to the point, without any open-endedness.
Peace
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Salaams Sharp001,
You seemed to very judgemental in your "surprisedness". What exactly are you surprised about? And you made your point with your previous posts about behavior, and obviously didn't listen to any of the responses, but stop posting with this "I am so righteous" attitude. If you want to participate in the subject of the post, stop trying to judge and analize everyone posting and do some research and post some points of view.
Salaam to you as well, Br. IQO,
I apologize if I sounded condescending in my post. I will heed to your advice and make a comprehensive study, as much as I am capable of, of all posts in this thread and then have a (hopefully) meaningful post next time.
But just to answer your question, the answer to it is already in my posts. The condition for polygyny is that the man thinks he can be fair to the women that he will marry. Of course the women that marry him have to agree to do so. As I pointed out in a previous post here, it seems to be no problem to Allah even if men marry more than one women simply because of their goodness/beauty.
As Salaamu Alaikum, peace
From you answer above, I assume that first underlined condition that you mentioned is from 43. Allow me to reproduce one of your posts in another thread in this reference
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If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.The first condition here is to those who have the guardianship over the orphan and their property. Clearly continuing from the previous ayat, fearing that you will not deal justly with the orphans is talking about when they have attained marriageable age and it is time to restore their property to them; therefore if the warning issued about properly restoring their property is something you fear doing correctly, another command is given.
What is the correlation to giving their property back when they attain the age of marriage and the command to marry two and three and four? All reason and logic clearly make this correlation to be speaking to the "men" that could then marry an orphan girl that has now reached marriageable age. If he fears that by marrying her he may transgress the bounds of restoring her property properly as Allah has instructed, then he should marry what is good to him from the women, two and three and four; women that would not obviously included the ones being discussed as a special group. Mothers of orphans is not a correct translation and only fits the needs of those who dislike what Allah has ordered. Also you can use marry or marry off, as many prefer to do in this ayat, and it doesn't change the clarity of what is being said; nor does using two or twos, etc. What is clear, is that "wa" after two and three, means "and, by or plus (as can be understood from arabic when using numbers)", and not "or". "Or" is "aw" as is also used in this same ayat to clearly distinguish between the two terms.
Here, those who would otherwise marry also an orphan girl that has not become marriagable age, are clearly commanded to marry TWO and THREE and FOUR. Notice this is a command, and it starts with TWO, not ONE. One is only given as an option to the conditional phrase of "if you fear you will not be just with them". So one is the exception to the command for men who fear they can cause injustice. The natural and normal marriage command in Al Quran is to marry two and three and four. I wont go into every detail here, because I am sure we will have to discuss it further.
(end Quote)Okay, so the first condition is that there be guardianship of orphan's property which I got from the first underlined selection above. Following which 43 mentions (from your post quoted above)
"If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four..."
Now the second underlined selection... you have assumed that the man (who obviously is the guardian of the orphan's wealth) wants to marry the orphan because of which he fears that he may not be able to remit to the orphan girl which is rightfully hers, therefore he should marry two, three and four. How did you arrive at that assumption that the man want to marry the orphan? If you are going to say that verse 46 mentions "orphans reaching age of marriage", then I'd say that it is just what it says, reaching the age of maturity and sound judgement. You said in your post
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This ayat is critical for understanding that the orphans talked about in ayat 2 are not children anymore, but are being spoken of as their previous condition of being orphan children, but now reaching the age of maturity in marriage and having sound judgement. Further instructions and clarifications of ayat 2 are specified here clearly.
(end Quote)So now, at this age (Balagha) the orphans are able to decide for themselves how to use their wealth and make their own life decisions. Apparently 46 just says that one should remit the orphan's rightful property back to them when there are of mature age. How one gets the understanding that the guardian had even before she reached the age of maturity decided to marry her himself and then realised at her maturity that he might not be fair to her with regard to remitting her rightful property is beyond me, for the moment. Please correct me if I have implied something wrong. English is not my first language.
For the third underlined selection, you seem to have overlooked that "those who would otherwise marry also an orphan girl that has not become marriagable age" are only those who have guardianship over the orphan's property, which you established as the first condition of the verse. Therefore, the command for the marriage to two, three and four are only limited to them and not the "natural and normal marriage command in Al Quran".
2432 says "Marry those among you who are single, and the virtuous ones among your male and female servants if they are in poverty, Allah will give them means out of His grace for Allah encompasseth all, and he knoweth all things." Tell me something. If I am reading this verse from a believing woman's point of view, who can she marry? Oh, I'm sorry... Ignore this question. I forgot that the translation that you accept for this verse is marry off and not just "marry".
Just to tell everybody here the reason for my surprise in my previous post, was that people are so quick to label others as judgmental, wrong, following their own desires, misinterpreting, misleading, corruptors, unknowledgable, baseless (and the list goes on) that they never even consider putting themselves under the "Criterion's" microscope and scrutinizing their own claims. My posts about behaviour remain as they are and I try my utmost to abide by them. But I couldn't help expressing my thoughts, when I saw that rather than respecting another person's understanding of the Book, people are ganging up on them just because they don't see eye-to-eye. I am sorry but I just don't understand this.
Peace
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?when both verbs are in the beginning of a senence, there's no difference between them. (Samia)
They both have to be in the beginning because they are imperatives
No, they do not have to. If there is a "fa" or a "wa" before them, they are not in the beginning of the sentence.
Verse 43 fankihuu does not carry a hamza. Therefore it is from the verb "nakaha". HHere the verse says Marry whomever accepts of women...
Verse 2432 fa unkihu carries a hamza. Therefore it is from verb "ankaha". The verse says Have the single and the righteous married (to your females). -
If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.
This translation is too self-contradictory to be taken seriously
(1)Marry women of your choice... Women are human beings like you. They also have feelings like you such as love, hate, need... And they have the right to make their choice just as you do. So if it just happens that you are not their choice and refuse to marry you, what becomes of the command "Marry the women of your choice"?
(2)women of your choice, Two or three or four... These are counting numbers, which do not correespond to the numbers God uses in the verse. He says masna aw sulaasa aw rubaa'a, as He does in Al-Faatir 1
All praise is due to God, Originator of the heavens and the earth, who makes the angels messengers with two wings or three wings or four wings -ajne3ate masnaa aw sulaasa aw rubaa'a.
God did not give an angel one wing first, another wing some units of time later, a third one still some time later... He gave each angel the set number of wings at one and the same time. That is what masnaa aw sulaasa aw rubaa'a mean. So a man who is told to NKH the nisaa', say, sulaasa is supposed to NKH all three of them at one and the same time. Can he do that?
(3)but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them)... The them is obviously other women than the orphans. In 46 God orders you to return the orphans' possessions to them. You have to obey God. After that the orphans are economically independent of you. It is none of their concern how many other women you marry. Neither is it your business what your old orphans do with their possessions and with their lives. So what is the fuss for?
If NKH means marry the women yourself all of this nonsense (or in tanveeer's words, illogic) is poured into God's Book despite the fact that no discrepancies can be found in it (482).
But if NKH means marry them each to another man, the discrepancies disappear
If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry off the women, who allow you, in twos or threes or fours; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (dependents) that your oaths possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from economic hardship.
Peace,
Hasan Akcay -
Sallam Samia. Pleaase remember what I have told you before I looked up the term hamz?alif. I learned that it is dropped when it is uttered as (i) like in the fankihu in 43.
The fankihu is actually fainkihu. In 43 there sure is a hamza in this sense.
Peace,
Hasan Akcay -
Sallam Samia. Pleaase remember what I have told you before I looked up the term hamzalif. I learned that it is dropped when it is uttered as (i) like in the fankihu in 43.
The fankihu is actually fainkihu. In 43 there sure is a hamza in this sense.
Peace,
Hasan AkcayI do not see a written hamza there.
(chapter 4)
(chapter 24)
These are the two verses from the same site www.holyquran.net. I underlined the two words (fankihu) and (wa unkihu)
The (fankihu) in chapter 4 does not have a hamza. The (wa unkihuu) in chapter 24 carries a hamza -
Sallam Samia. Pleaase remember what I have told you before I looked up the term hamzalif. I learned that it is dropped when it is uttered as (i) like in the fankihu in 43.
The fankihu is actually fainkihu. In 43 there sure is a hamza in this sense.
Peace,
Hasan AkcayI explained when the hamza is dropped in the case of verbs. It is not dropped in the verb of form IV (e.g UnKaHa) because it is part of it. It does not matter how it is pronounced, because how it is pronounced has nothing to do with the hamza itself, but with the vowel that accompanies it. And anyway, this is not how these verbs are differentiated when they are conjugated to the plural. There might be some differences in the vocalization, but these differences are due to the different conjugations, not to the pattern of the verb.
Here is how the two verbs are conjugated to the singular
past present imperative
NaKaHa yaNKiH aNKiH
UnKaHa yuNKiH ANKiH
(where the "A" is the hamza on the alif)and to the plural
NaKaHuu yaNKiHuun aNKiHuu
ANKaHuu YuNKiHuun ANKiHuu -
Firts, let me explain what I meant when I said that the verbs in 43 and 2432 have to be in the beginning because they are imperatives.
Impertatives are always in the beginning of the main clause rather than before the subordinate clause of a complex sentence like the ones in 43 and 2432.
I am aware that you know what is meant by the main clause and the subordinate clause in a complex sentence. But I have to tell about them in terms of 43 and 2432 in order to express myslef. So please allow me
In the sentence wa in hiftum... NKH ma taaba mine?n nisasa? wa in hiftum does only a subordination whereas NKH ma taaba lekum mine?n nisaa? conveys the message; so it is the main clause.
Please note that the imperative NKH is before the main clause because the main clause is actually the sentence itself you can not do without it. So the imperative form of the NKH is before the sentence in 43.
As for 2432, there is no need to explain its word order as the sentence begins with the imperative wa ankehu. So the imperative form of the NKH is before the sentence in 2432.
past present imperative
NaKaHa yaNKiH aNKiH
UnKaHa yuNKiH ANKiH
(where the "A" is the hamza on the alif)As far as I know, beore the verb NKh was vocalized in te 8th Century AD; that is, before the diacritical signs were added to it, the imperative forms of the NKH in 43 and 2432 were the same. The people who did the adding of the signs to the words decided that the NKH in 2432 be ?nkehu with hamza on the A; and the NKH in 43 be inkihu with the hamza below the A. Then the hamzalif (the alif with the hamza below it) was dropped, so the verb in 43 became fankihu.
It was those people?s personal choice rather than a divine decision that caused polygyny to appear in God?s religion.
Peace,
Hasan Akcay -
Sharp , Samia and House M.D !
Salam.
I am sorry to have busted my patience capsule.
This is a learning forum and every one is a learner (including me). I do not take an offence to anybody having a different opinion on an issue, provided he has acceptable reasons to justify that, we can always debate, and have a reasonable chance to take the conversation to some conclusion (and sometimes may be not)
Sharp! I have absolutely no problem with, you having a different understanding on polygyne , and i see that you have made some valid observations, regarding the interpretation of some relevent ayahs.
The problem with brother hassan is, that logic is totally missing from his responses, and hence a discussion can not progress with him on an issue. He Bogs down the thread by talking Greek and then everyone is trying to correct/teach him the very basics, and the irony is that he continues doing so with great confidence. Not only that, but when one makes an honest effort to correct/improve his knowledge/understanding, he vanishes, by saying that i don't want to converse with you anymore ??? If you, or any one else is interested , i can compile such a collection of his fallacious statements/arguments.
To cut it short, If he is a learner, then he must behave like one.
As for as my position regarding polygyne, I shall post that soon , and sincerely hope that we can build up a logical discussion , based on sound reasonning , in the light of the relevent commandments in the BOOK.
peace
siki
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Firts, let me explain what I meant when I said that the verbs in 43 and 2432 have to be in the beginning because they are imperatives.
I understood what you meant. I hope you understood what I said As long as there is a "wa" or a "fa" before the verb, the verb is not the first word.
As far as I know, beore the verb NKh was vocalized in te 8th Century AD; that is, before the diacritical signs were added to it, the imperative forms of the NKH in 43 and 2432 were the same. The people who did the adding of the signs to the words decided that the NKH in 2432 be ?nkehu with hamza on the A; and the NKH in 43 be inkihu with the hamza below the A. Then the hamzalif (the alif with the hamza below it) was dropped, so the verb in 43 became fankihu.
It was those people?s personal choice rather than a divine decision that caused polygyny to appear in God?s religion.
Then there was no need at all to discuss the hamza or to quote Yassein, since we both (you and me) are skeptical about vocalization. I did not care about it anyway since the result is the same No marrying women off in 43, since it does not fit with the rest of the verse, and I do not see how it will solve the problem of fearing to be unfair to orphans. This does not mean polygamy is not forbidden without justification. Just like eating pork or even eating a dead person they are forbidden, but you can eat them if you have nothing else to eat. Polygamy is allowed in one and only one condition that might not arise in a just and fair society where there is no fear of being unfair to the orphans.
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May be it could help if you read Yaseen?s article* and saw what makes him say the things which you reject. Here is his translation of the two verses of An-Nisaa
And if you fear that you can?t do justice to the orphans, then marry off the women (orphans) who have agreed with you, by two or by three or by four. But if you fear that you will be unfair in that too then only by one or what your right hand possessed, as this is better than getting into hardship (43).
And give the women their inheritance willingly but if they, of their own accord, remit any part to you, take it and enjoy it with right good cheer (44).
Peace,
Hasan Akcay
- http//www.geocities.com/yaseen_q/polygamy.html?20072