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men can praying God behind a woman ?

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    Edip_Yuksel
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    Well, i wouldn't let men pray behind women, or let women pray behind men, because they'd be tempted at watching the brother's or sister's butt. Who knows.

    I have prayed behind women, young and old, "beautiful" and "ugly", since 1999 in our small group in Tucson, and I have never entertained such thoughts, even once! Anyone who have such imagination during their prayers, their problem is not the butts of men and women leading the prayer, but it is their unnatural fear of opposite sex and their culture of segregating sexes in every aspect of their lives that turn their brain extremely sensitive to sexual fantasies. I think such scrupulousness by itself begets such disturbing ideas. It is a self-fulfilling paranoia.

    Peace,
    Edip

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      TAJ
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      Peace Edip,

      I have prayed behind women, young and old, "beautiful" and "ugly",

      It seems you were not concentrating on your prayers!

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        Jim19
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        Peace
        I have prayed behind a woman for 15 days and I never thought bad ideas , I think sunni people asking their wives for using Niquab and hidding hairs and the faces because they think only on sex , also for them Gopd is created women only for to have sex with , I'm sorry for these words, but those silly people let us to speak by this way ,how you see people who say woman is a devil ?
        Peace

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          TAJ
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          Peace J,

          how you see people who say woman is a devil ?

          I see them as perverts.

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            cosmicdancer
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            Sure Jim, but you don't need anyone to tell you....

            Peace lk

            That's right - don't let anyone tell you anything - you are free to make up your own mind about everything!

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              burhan
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              Peace Edip,

              It seems you were not concentrating on your prayers!

              It's good to be honest about yourself evey now and then.

              But seriously though most mosques are overcrowded, I don't think there would be any problem if the rows were suffciently spaced.

              In ruko the nose-butt distance is less than inch and then in sujood you have to contend with his/her feet, whilst being sandwiched by the people on both sides.

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                Edip_Yuksel
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                Peace Edip,
                It seems you were not concentrating on your prayers!

                Dear TAJ Okay, let me concede that this is one way of interpreting my response. Now, I expect you to think without trying to be a smart-alek, and understand my statement as it should be. Should I try to help you?

                Peace,
                Edip

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                  sahaba
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                  Why make silly jokes like that? Its quite obvious the how Edip meant that comment.

                  But anyway, enjoyed reading the thread.

                  Good post Br. Alen )

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                    unknownuser
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                    Peace Edip,
                    It seems you were not concentrating on your prayers!

                    Dear TAJ are we suppose to close our eyes in prayer? what's so wrong if we concentrate on prayer and see who is looking beautiful and who is ugly? After finishing the prayer you can even tell her that she is looking more beautiful today MashaAllah... I don't see anything wrong in that either. group

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                      huruf
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                      It must be awful for a man with homosexual tendencies or fantasies to be praying and have some other butts right by his nose. No wonder so many awful things happen...

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                        TAJ
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                        Dear TAJ are we suppose to close our eyes in prayer? what's so wrong if we concentrate on prayer and see who is looking beautiful and who is ugly? After finishing the prayer you can even tell her that she is looking more beautiful today MashaAllah... I don't see anything wrong in that either. group

                        "2430 Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty that will make for greater purity for them And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do. "

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                          Jim19
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                          "2430 Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty that will make for greater purity for them And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do. "

                          Peace

                          The believers are members of one family; you shall keep the peace within your family and reverence GOD, that you may attain mercy.
                          how I can think bad thoughts in the God's home, how we can to call someone who look at the women as a animal a believer, then if you've a psychic problem towards women why you don't use Niquab , also women sometimes in the street catches men .
                          I haven't problem for praying God behind a woman , the concentration in the prayer is an obligation sun
                          Peace

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