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In Need of Prayers--- Facing Divorce

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    Al_Araf
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    Salam arnab. I quote from the main page of this website "This website has been created for all people who have a desire to allow God into their lives and follow His path alone..."

    The presumption is, when a person posts on a forum for followers of Allah and his path, that posts in this forum are related to the path of Allah. Therefore when replying to a poster it is correct to presume the post relates to the path of Allah. Consequently my response was regarding rights accorded by Allah.

    Until I see any other stated reason for the creation of this website, I will respect the statement of the website creator and respect their wishes. It is disrespectful to the website creator to use their website for other reasons. Immigration law and grief counselling are not mentioned and I wont get involved in it on this website. You have invented the moderator issue. I have not made such a claim. Please refrain from false accusations.

    If a person makes a post, that Allah has defined as the comment of a kafir, munafiq, or mushrik, I provide the statement of Allah, that they are kafir, munafiq or mushrik. Allah does a lot more than disrespect kafirs, munafiqs, and mushriqs. Allah condemns them to jahannum and aazab. I walk in Allahs light, Allah has no respect for them, I dont either. Allah is my Lord.

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      unknownuser
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      Salam Al Araf,

      You have invented the moderator issue. I have not made such a claim. Please refrain from false accusations.

      Here was my quote "Not only are you NOT a moderator but you are also a new member."

      BOTH of those statements are CORRECT.

      Please tell me which one you believe to be false. hmm

      And they were not accusations. An accusation is defined as "a charge of wrong doing." I made no such charge in that statement.

      Arnab

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        Al_Araf
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        Salam arnab. I come to this website to share what Allah has blessed me with of his wisdom. Some people read what I post and it assists them. Others get annoyed when they are reminded. Neither of the two responses is unusual. Sometimes I read posts and I am informed. I have read your posts, often you assist readers with a thorough dissertation on the actual meaning of the words used in the wahi/revelations. I commend your good work.

        You are correct that I am not a moderator and I am a new member. I was posting because I saw other new members posting on the forum. Do I need to be a moderator or apprentice to post in this forum?

        Allah is mighty wise.

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          Elke
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          Salaam el araf,

          i believe you do what is right in your eyes. Regardless of the fact that your / mine / our interpretations can be discussed and that we might never come to a common understanding , may be you should also take into account verses as

          An-Nisaa - 4.36
          And serve Allah . Ascribe no thing as partner unto Him . ( Show ) kindness unto parents , and unto near kindred , and orphans , and the needy , and into the neighbor who is of kin ( unto you ) and the neighbor who is not of kin and the fellow traveler and the wayfarer and those that depend on you. Lo! Allah loveth not such as are proud and boastful

          lk

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            Al_Araf
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            Salam Elke. 4136 Serve Allah, join not any partners with Him; and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need, neighbours who are near, neighbours who are strangers, the companion by your side, the wayfarer, and what your right hands possess For Allah loves not the arrogant, the vainglorious.

            What better good is there, than to repeat Allahs words. What better good is there than to turn people away from jahannum and aazab. If Allah is harsh and blunt when it comes to certain issues, it behoves me to conveys Allahs harsh and blunt word, for if I convey anything else I would be a deceiver, which I am not.

            If you find my repetition of Allah's word arrogant or vainglorious, maybe listening to Allah's word is not for you. You waste your time on discussing me. Discussing me is an avoidance strategy. Discuss the word of Allah. If the word of Allah is difficult for you to swallow, Allah has already said, dont ask questions about things that will trouble you if they are answered.

            Allah is the knower.

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              Dotty
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              Salam arnab. I quote from the main page of this website "This website has been created for all people who have a desire to allow God into their lives and follow His path alone..."

              The presumption is, when a person posts on a forum for followers of Allah and his path, that posts in this forum are related to the path of Allah. Therefore when replying to a poster it is correct to presume the post relates to the path of Allah. Consequently my response was regarding rights accorded by Allah.

              Until I see any other stated reason for the creation of this website, I will respect the statement of the website creator and respect their wishes. It is disrespectful to the website creator to use their website for other reasons. Immigration law and grief counselling are not mentioned and I wont get involved in it on this website. You have invented the moderator issue. I have not made such a claim. Please refrain from false accusations.

              If a person makes a post, that Allah has defined as the comment of a kafir, munafiq, or mushrik, I provide the statement of Allah, that they are kafir, munafiq or mushrik. Allah does a lot more than disrespect kafirs, munafiqs, and mushriqs. Allah condemns them to jahannum and aazab. I walk in Allahs light, Allah has no respect for them, I dont either. Allah is my Lord.

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                Elke
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                If you find my repetition of Allah's word arrogant or vainglorious, maybe listening to Allah's word is not for you. You waste your time on discussing me. Discussing me is an avoidance strategy. Discuss the word of Allah. If the word of Allah is difficult for you to swallow, Allah has already said, dont ask questions about things that will trouble you if they are answered.

                Allah is the knower.

                Salam al araf,

                its your interpretation of these words that are difficult to swallow for me, as well as your way of conveying the message. but is is true, i do waste my time

                lk

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                  huruf
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                  Never mind the " 'jahanam' is my favourite word" diet we are bound to get at least for the moment, I trust that sister Ibelieveinitonly can be helped as much as possible and that she finds a way for her problems and her life. May God help her.

                  Salaam

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                    aq
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                    hi and salam, i am a woman like yourself and a 'muslim' by heart. first of all, we can not fight with what Allah has ordained for us. coming to your issue... do u know what 'love' means??? it is the second name of sacrifice, respect (although sometimes one has to let that go a little bit!), belief, sincerity, compassion.... all in all... love means WANTING each other and WANTING to cope with each other, help each other and honour each other esp in trying times. lastly.. its a TWO WAY street. read what i have written patiently and attentively and ask yourself... is your love all of the above? if yes... or even no.. just be patient and wait for the right moment to arrive when you can ACT IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION... for that wisdom... only ASK ALLAH. and He will answer you... but ONLY if you want to hear Him out... peace and prayers... aq.

                    As Salaam Alaikum,
                    I am really in need of prayers.

                    My husband is saying that we divorcing and I do not want to. I would just really like to work our problems out before it is too late. I even told him about he must wait 4 months to even come to that decision, but he doesn't seem to care at the moment. I am very scared because I love this man so mcuh.

                    If you all could please pray for me I'd really appreciate it.

                    I love this man with all of my heart and he is just someone that I care about so much.

                    Please pray for me.

                    thank you

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