Assalamu alaikum mz,
Ok, here we go?.
You said
?I think you might point out that prayer is our attempt to improve our mind/spirit by seeking guidance and contact with God.
As for me, I find that this leads me to laziness and forgetfulness about why I am here and what I should be doing with this life.?
Yes actually I found it used to give me a sense of satisfaction/fulfilment even though I didn?t accomplish anything.
I can understand your viewpoint. Everyone needs to find their own way?don?t you think? What works for you doesn?t necessarily work for me and vice versa. That is fine with me. Although we have different views on this, I would never agree with anyone who tries to force someone else to follow their (sometimes) hard coded rituals of belief.
Why do we need to get in touch with the maker when he is always in contact with us and will help/give us when he sees fit or necessary or when we deserve his help and need it aswell.Surely he is guiding us aswell and more then that even sends messengers for greater guidance?
I envy you and I wish I could say that I always feel the same, but I find that I have often made mistakes and continue to make them in regards to my goals for spiritual improvement. I believe that more is required of us than to simply wait around in expectation of guidance. I believe that we must strive for success and not wait in expectation of it.
Isn?t it so, that he merely wishes us to advice/discuss other fellow beings to guide/be guided and help our fellow men/bretheren to betterment.
Have you ever done any teaching or counseling, or been in a professional group leadership position? If so, you might have found that advice and discussion are useful in this regard, but sometimes it is much better to lead people by example.
Love to hear your view about this bit.
Above? Done. Below, coming up next?.
You said
?QT 4101-102?
Now these ayah?s (to my understanding-and belief) are nothing at all to do with prayers as you might have also come across in the other topics here at free-minds, but simply the salaa is here to do with discussions/orders for the offensive taking place and to be safe they are told to shorten this and keep their arms for safety in case they where attacked until one party has received their orders and they have accepted.
I think you are coming back to your first point in the start of this thread. Do you think that when the Prophet led his men in salat and the mark that it was finished was because they had performed their prostrations, this meant that they were merely discussing their plans for coming battle? Let me argue against this by reinterpreting the ayahs in attempt to match your understanding of them. Here is 4101-102 with clarifying additions in parenthesis
And if you are on the offensive in the land, then there is no harm that you shorten the war counsels, if you fear that the disbelievers will try to attack you. The disbelievers are to you a clear enemy.
And if thou (Leader) are with them and hold the war counsel for them, then let a group from amongst them stand with you and let them bring their weapons; and when they have prostrated (to you Leader), then let them stand guard from behind; and let a group who has not yet heard the plan come and plan with you, and let them be wary and let them bring their weapons with them. The rejecters hope that you would neglect your weapons and goods so they can come upon you in one blow. There is no sin upon you if you are impeded (from making tactical plans) by rainfall, or (from planning long term strategy) if you are ill, that you keep from placing down your weapons. And be wary. God has prepared for the rejecters a humiliating retribution.
Is this what ayahs 101-102 mean to you? This is would certainly be an extraordinary reinterpretation of the Quran. If I thought this was what the ayahs meant, then I would want no part of it and would consider ?Quran is a warmongering text? crowd to be spot-on in their criticisms instead of merely being blind to the obvious truth of the message. Really, if you?re out and about with a military purpose, it seems like it would be a good idea to have war counsels, but if you?re at peace then you don?t need them at all. You would not have longer ones in peacetime and shorter ones in wartime. This startling reinterpretation also ignores the very next ayah
QT 4103
So when you are done with the contact-method, then remember God while standing, or sitting, or on your sides. When you are relieved, you shall hold the contact-method; the contact-method for the believers is a scheduled book.
I could not in good conscience substitute ?war counsels? or the equivalent for ?contact-method?, I believe and hope that you wouldn?t do that either. If there is solid proof in the Quran that salat means prayer in some contexts then I think the proof is these ayahs. They indicate very clearly that someone, who is almost certainly the Prophet but is not doubt the Leader, is to conduct a group activity recommended by God that would normally require leaving any weapons behind and that ends with the group making prostrations. Whatever sort of activity could that be? You don?t have to be a Muslim to guess the answer. What would happen if we gave the lines below to 100 people at random and let them fill in the blanks?
And if you are on the offensive in the land, then there is no harm that you shorten the _________, if you fear that the disbelievers will try to attack you. The disbelievers are to you a clear enemy.
And if thou are with them (your men) and hold the _________ for them, then let a group from amongst them stand with you and let them bring their weapons; and when they have prostrated, then let them stand guard from behind; and let a group who has not yet contacted come and contact with you, and let them be wary and let them bring their weapons with them. The rejecters hope that you would neglect your weapons and goods so they can come upon you in one blow. There is no sin upon you if you are impeded by rainfall, or if you are ill, that you keep from placing down your weapons. And be wary. God has prepared for the rejecters a humiliating retribution.
How many Muslim, Christian, Jew, Buddhist, Hindu, agnostic, or atheist people will fill in the blanks as anything other than ?prayer?. Not very many who don?t intend to attack the Quran I think.
I don?t speak or read Arabic yet, but I?m working on it. I do know that words in any language are defined and acquire new meanings based on the context in which they are used. According the W.M. Thackston, ?The first book written down in Arabic, and the one that has been responsible for not only for establishing Arabic as an important written language but also for maintaining the language and isolating it from external impetus to change, was the Koran?. (An Introduction to Koranic and Classical Arabic, Introduction, page 12) Accepting the Quran as one of the primary building blocks of Arabic, you should be able to point to a body of linguistic scholarship that supports your position that salat as it is used in the context of 4101-102 does not mean prayer. This does not require that it means prayer in every context, but it does here. I think a better way to state your position would be to demonstrate that prayer follows many different forms including recitation and meditation and does not necessarily mean ritual prayer and a certain number of rakats, but that it certainly can include such ritual methods.
You said
?I completely agree that group prayer isn't absolutely necessary, and I seldom feel the need to do so more than two or three times per week myself. In fact I'm lucky to go even once per week,
But when I do so, I feel more dedicated to my purpose and more on target with my goal,
So I think it would be better if I went more often. You are probably in a different place on your road and I'm sure you are moving in a way that feels right for you?
Good place to meet other people and have a feeling of sociable/loving nature it does make us feel good even though we accomplish nothing to my knowledge accept be polite and nice to others, and there is nothing wrong with that ? I suppose.
The things you mention are certainly good, but they really have nothing much to do with my general experience. I usually go to a service in the early afternoon, which people call ?thuhur?. I don?t much care what time it is or what direction we face, and I don?t think it?s important to agree on those points except that we manage to meet together in a reasonably organized way. Most people that show up are professional people. We don?t spend much time except for briefly before or after the service in idle chitchat, but instead get back to our relative work/offices. If I asked any of these people if they had come primarily to socialize, they would be insulted and rightly so. Unfortunately, it seems that your experience is different.
Of course if this helps to meet/achieve good results it?s a good thing but I can?t consider salaa = prayers, as Again Allah doesn?t require them and we don?t need to get in touch with him as he is looking out for me all of the 100% of the time as he has said and I merely need to be righteous for him to appreciate my services.
Prayer not required? Right, I think prayers are for us, not God. If you don?t need them, then you must be in good shape. You don?t mention faith or belief, but you seem to indicate it and so you might believe that faith is also necessary. Hopefully this is a component for you, otherwise what you are advocating is nothing more than standard Western enlightenment, liberal style do-gooding or enlightened self-interest. That?s not a bad thing; it just isn?t what I?d call an islam thing. Islam is for the individual and for the societal group.
I realize that we are straying from your original point, but I want to point out that group prayer and ritual prayer in Islam are not based on hadith, but on much older traditions that exist in similar and related forms throughout the world in Judaism for example. I?m not a ?hadithist?. I agree with some people here who do not think that the "hadith prayers" are necessarily the best ones, but I really don?t worry about it since I can make any prayer I want. Simply put, my opinion on hadiths is that some of them contradict each other and to accept those is to except illogic as a proof. Some of them are in clear contradiction of the Quran. We that believe that the Quran is from God should not accept something that contradicts it. This would again be illogical. Some hadith are nonsensical like the Zina Monkeys hadith. A nonsense story can have a special meaning that is revealed by study, ?Mulla Nasruddin? stories for example are sometimes used as instructional tools by Sufis, but are not regarded as Scripture. I think that Islam should make a thorough reassessment of these things and reshape itself around the Quran as God?s message, some hadiths as relevant guidance and historical documents, and many hadiths as apocryphal, but that simply won?t happen in a climate where ?fundamentalism? has put a clamp on open discussion, debate, and dissent.
Prayer, group prayer, meditation and various other methods of spiritual achievement can and should be separated from any enforced ritual (5 prayers), dress (hijab), or personal grooming (beard) requirements. I expect that we all know this one
- There is no compulsion in the Way; true direction is distinct from error. Whoever rejects evil, and believes in God, then he has grasped the most solid branch that will never break. God is Hearer, Knower.
I still consider myself to be in the early phase of direction in this Way. I have chosen to make a connection with others to help me by attending some group prayer and also by reading a lot of what gets posted on this and other websites?some like-minded and some not. It?s great that Free-Minds is a truly open forum of discussion about beliefs and practices. Looking at some related ?salat-does-not-equal-prayer? threads, I get the impression that some people here are trying force-feed others a Free-Minds Orthodox Doctrine. Surely that would be an unworthy self-contradiction for a site like this. I think it?s sad that someone like brother Hussein was driven away from this site by these kinds of attitudes. http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3361
?Salat does not equal 2-3-4 rakats? seems a much more sensible theory to me.
That?s all that I have to say on this topic. We must either agree, or agree to disagree.
God?s Peace.