Hi Riz.
I understand your problem, becuse there was a time when I felt the same way (back in the late 90's) I became an all-out aetheist.
I will give my humble opinion about prayer and Ramadan . I m only human and I may be wrong, but this is how I understand it.
- Prayer
We know that the word "salat" actually means "relation" literally. So , when you are doing "salat" it means you are making a relation with God. This general meaning doesn't have a ritualistic form. It can be done 1000 times each day if you want. Simply mumbling silent prayers or when in your car, or about to start your day's work, or in a certain dangerous situation, or faced with hardships....etc.... All this is considered as "salat" in its general meaning.
The second meaning is the one concluded from the term "Akimu AlSalat"
or "Ikamat al Salat". The word seems to indicate a regularity and organization of prayer. This is the ritualistic prayer that is performed on a regular basis, and in an orderly fashion at certain times of the day. This is the prayer that you have to perform what is known as "ablution" before doing it ( as opposed to the first kind - or the general prayer discussed previously- which can be done at anytime and does NOT require "ablution" ).
This second kind of prayer ( the ritualistic one ) is to be done, in my opinion, TWO times each day, and not more Dawn and Dusk. Simple as that. If you read the Quran carefully, you will find nearly a dozen verses that stress the importance of these two times.
etc... All these meanings indicate dawn and dusk.
Read Verse 58 of Surat Al-Nour. You will find God mentions explicitly two prayers Salat al Fajr ( Dawn ) and Salat al- Isha'a ( Dusk ). He also mestions but not as a time of prayer, but as a time of rest and sleep ( and possibly a state of undress requiring permission to enter by certain household members - a knock on the door please!!!. wink )
Nowhere is a Noon or middle prayer mentioned in the Quran. Also, the correct word for noon time is and not . The correct meaning of sunset time is GHOUROUB and NOT MAGHREB.
Hence, the phrase "Salat al-Maghreb" that people use is ridiculous and laughable from a linguistic point of view. Maghreb is a DIRECTION and NOT a time. The correct way to say it would be "Salat al Ghouroub." or more precisely "Salat al Isha'a" as God calls it.
Now some of you may ask " What is Salat al Wusta then?"
IMHO, I don't think it means middle prayer. If there was indeed a middle prayer, and one so important, why didn't God mention it in all those other verses ( with dawn and dusk???) I think what is meant here by Salat al Wusta is a ritualistic prayer that is neither too short, nor too long, but somewhere in between.
- Ramadan.
The word is actually derived from which means the sun-scorched or superheated earth. The word has the suffix and follows the rule of the example well known in the Arabic language
etc....
Ramadan in therefore a SUMMER month, and should ALWAYS come in the summer. The name is NOT islamic. It was known to the Arabs before the Quran. In fact the "Hijri" months ,as they are called, all have meanings which were derived from natural phenomena of the desert life. Because of the ignorance of the Arabs of later ages and their insisting of using a purely lunar calendar, without paying attention to the seasons, the names of these months became meaningless.
Example "Rabee' al Awwal " and " Rabee' al Thani " literally mean First Spring and Second Spring. Yet nowadays we see that these months sometimes come in winter and sometimes in summer and sometimes in automn ( LOL )
"Muharam" should be a month were people abstain from hunting wild mamals because it is their mating season. And we know that mating season is in springtime. Hence Muharam should ALWAYS come in the spring.
"Jamadi" is a time when the world is cold and nature is figuratively frozen or barren ( it is a winter month )
Believe me when I say this . The desert climate can be horribly cold in winter ( especially night time ) I live in Kuwait. I know what it's like!!
Al these "Hijri" months have meanings derived from the natural world. But becuse of the ignorance of man, look what they've done with the Islamic "Taqweem" It is ridiculous to the extreme.
IMHO. Ramadan is a whole MONTH. 30 days to be fasted during late summer of every year. " Ayyam Maadoudat " can mean 30 days . So what??? I dont' see the problem of fasting 30 days every year during a FIXED and unchaging time.
doesn't God say "... "
So it's OK to fast the whole month .
The importance is that Muslims learn WHEN this month is , and to quit their differences and bickering over moonsightings. They can't even agree on this simple thing.
How sad.