Thank you for that post. In fact we all know that there are good men that do not match the male authority scheme, who realise that their best quality is that of service to their family and their society, because service is the most spiritual grade that can be attained. But of course, when you are told that you are on top of the world it is hard to realise that the top of both worlds for a human being is service, and that whatever power one ever holds in his or her hands, it is blessed if it is used for service, but for damnation if it is to be served.
I have known that kind of men in my family and that is, I think the reason that I am not easily cheated into the male authority myth and trap. Males (and females too) gain authority and respect by serving, by being truthful, dedicated, courageous, not by saying you must obey because I am so and so.
Those faithful men attain to honour in this world and in the next. And they exist. No many, because men are not encouraged to such things, but they exist and are an honour for human kind.
You see, For the Truth, you learnt to be a feminist from a great woman, I have learnt it from a great man. Alhamdulil-lah and thank God their children bless them and God blessed them. Alhamdulil-lah
Well said I agree with you 100%.My Mother always told me when i was a younger a women was not met to be controlled a women was met to be loved for a men to say a women must be obedient to him have some masculinity issue and is something deeper then that also