I'm okay with how the thread has gone so far because these are important micro-issues although it's not really moving toward the big picture here as I see it and would have hoped. As a sidenote, I'm hoping to start a Youtube channel soon where I can expound more on these issues for anyone interested.
I guess my intentions and hopes with this thread were to open up a broader discussion about crime, disobedience to authority, and punishment in the light of Quranic guidance. Not everyone here may be ready for that or interested in it and hence focus on more sub-points.
I'm not saying I'm not interested in talking about 434 or other specific verses and going case by case, I'm just saying that my intention and my method of drawing together different verses illustrative of principles is not to disregard the benefit or necessity of 'getting into the weeds' so to speak on particular issues, but more to highlight the interconnectedness and consistency of the Quran when it comes to overarching principles.
So I guess I'll just throw out there for anyone interested where I'm sort of headed here and see if anyone is following me.
When it comes to authority this is a general principle that needs to be addressed. This is partly why the most interesting and profound part of 434 for me is not 'idriboo' but rather 'but if they obey you,'. Because if the object or goal of whatever these 3 steps are is a degree (not absolute) of 'obedience', that has profound implications as a principle for how a marriage is supposed to work on the basis of Quranic principles. It implies that the real issue here is disobedience/disloyalty/dishonesty. In the case of Zina, what actual content of the act of Zina is warranting the punishment of lashes? is it the consequences? If we could negate what we perceive as the harm associated with Zina, would punishment for Zina no longer be just?
I would contend that a person who is punished for Zina is mainly punished not for the harm, or the consequences of the act but for the disloyalty and dishonesty in their heart. Punishment for disloyalty in this life is a small taste of the punishment in the hereafter for disloyalty to god. The one who falsely accuses one of Zina (how common are false rape accusations today?) is almost as severely punished, for the same primary reason The disloyalty and rebellion in their heart.
But these principles go beyond marriage they really apply to every institution in society. What sort of institutions would we create for governance at the level of a state, or at the level of a family, for guidance, and for enjoining good and forbidding evil, if we were to truly study and understand what the Quran has to say about how human beings work and how society ought to function?
Traditionally, the 'tent-pole' or the pillar of the family is the father and the institution of the family under the guidance of a father forms a microcosm of a state, with its own internal jurisprudence and punishment for crimes and transgressions.
Everyone knows this even in cases where people grew up without being spanked. You didn't do your homework or you got home late or you were disobeying your parents when they said to clean your room, and there was some response or accountability for that transgression, maybe you had to do extra chores, maybe you had to clean the dishes or whatever it may be.
The family has its own internal frameworks and constitutions as a self-sufficient, building block for all societies.
Now if we're going to understand authority generally we should look at an often misused verse for understanding the Quran's position on authority as it often relates to sunni arguments and justification for sunnah and hadith 459 the "obedience verse"
"O you who believe! Obey God and obey the Messenger and those in authority (uli al-amr) among you. And if you differ among yourselves concerning any matter, refer it to God and the Messenger, if you believe in God and the Last Day. That is better, and fairer in outcome."
Hamza Abdul Malik had a great point in one of his videos when he said Obey God and obey the messenger applied to the prophet Muhammad too. Prophet Muhammad had a messenger he had to obey, too. Jibreel. There's no good reason for believing that the prophet was exempt from this verse or that prophet Muhammad had to be obeyed in a special way different from any other prophet or messenger beyond his normal span of life and his natural role as leader and guide (as he himself was lead and guided by God) of a fledgling monotheist community.
My understanding is that in light of the Quran we are all free individual human beings who are able to enter into contracts and treaties at our own will and judgment, there is also an implicit social contract in a Quranically guided society just as there is in any society which establishes norms and expectations for behavior and custom. Such a society pre-emptively heavily invests in caring for the young and in socially beneficial policies, before, and sometimes without, asking or receiving any compensation for the societal cost of doing so upon those not yet ready, (children) or otherwise unable to pay back or contribute to society.
If we are to turn back on our heels or become of the munafiqun after entering contracts and treaties or enjoying the benefits of social prosperity of a Quranically guided society without giving back or fulfilling social contract, then we will of course come to meet the full force of breach of contract, which in certain cases can be severe.
Beyond that, any entity or institution which we are engaging is according to our free will, judgment and inclination. Whether it be a state or a marriage, we are able to abandon institutions and situations of subservience to authority insofar as those institutions have ceased to be righteous and internally consistent with their stated principles and values, and insofar as we proceed with Quranic principles in disengaging from these institutions.
I remember having discussions with my Sunni friends on the issue of emigration to a more religious, conservative society. I was told that it was more 'Islamic' or in alignment with the Sunnah to stay in a corrupt society and try to change it from within.
I wondered then why did prophet Muhammad peace be upon him leave with his followers to Medina? Why didn't he stay in Mecca and just be martyred while trying to change the society from within?
If we're supposed to obey authorities and obey governments regardless of their righteousness and merit as leaders, why didn't Muhammad obey the pagan authorities in mecca and do as the pagans did?
It seems too often that people prefer to rip singular verses out of context to support a singular, one-track argument-agenda that they've got going, than to holistically look at the whole book.
In the case of Sunnis/Shias or Christians justifying theocracy and other forms of authoritarianism, the Sunnis and Shias love 459 just as some of the Christians love Romans 13 1-2.
Despite the fact that in the Quran there's a verse that explicitly clarifies the matter
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O Prophet! Fear God, and do not obey the unbelievers and the hypocrites. God is Knowledgeable and Wise.
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And follow what is revealed to you from your Lord. God is fully aware of what you do.
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And put your trust in God. God is enough as a trustee.
and a contextual understanding of the life of Jesus and even of many of the early martyrs and saints of the church clearly demonstrates that they did not unquestioningly obey authority. When those authorities put them on the path of misguidance and idolatry, they rebelled. The early Christians were martyred for not bending the knee and sacrificing to the Roman emperor and the gospel narrative itself recounts Jesus ignoring/refusing to answer Herod, king of the jews. Was that in subjection to worldly authority?
So to try to loop this back to everyone's favorite topic here let's ask
Can a righteous authority physically discipline those subject to their jurisdiction physically?
Muslims must say yes. You can't fence-sit on corporeal punishment. If you're going to say no you're going to have to explain 242. 242 isn't even an option, it's a prescription and If you're going to say beating or other forms of corporeal punishment is bad, primitive, backward etc for transgressions and disobedience, then you're taking issue with what god has prescribed for us in the case of Zina.
From what I've seen on this forum in this and other threads, the whole discussion has been couched in terms of 'domestic violence' and 'wife beating' and 'abuse', to the extent of disingenuity and poor framing of the discussion.
The verse in question clearly isn't talking about a passionate, spontaneous violent outburst upon the whim of a man and I think that we can ALL agree that unjustified and unprovoked striking of anyone in any context is by definition wrong, and not sanctioned by Quran, and I think people on both sides want the verse to mean that for the purposes of their own arguments when it clearly does not and has never meant that, but rather describes a dispassionate, orderly step-based process.
The other reason the whole discussion is improperly framed is because 434 isn't 'the wife beating verse'. Whether or not it means strike/beat or not there is completely irrelevant insofar as the broader principles and intertextual context of Quran apply
There may not be an explicit "'wife beating" verse aside 434 if not interpreted as strike/hit/beat, but there's also no verse anywhere describing hitting/striking children as a method of discipline. Does that mean that Quranically guided parents cannot spank their children as a matter of forthrightness and guidance upon a way, because it is not there in the Quran as an explicit thing sanctioned verbatim?
Nor is it appropriate to say "well if he hits her, she can hit him back" for very simple logic.
Self-defense and retaliation is not valid in the case where you are lawfully receiving an earned (for your deeds and behavior), procedural punishment from a valid authority.
Otherwise, the one who is lashed for committing Zina should also be able to lash the one who lashed them, despite that they who punished the fornicator did not commit Zina themselves.
Now, you may be of the way of thinking that the way of a father is not to be a valid authority in the home, that it is not his part to set order and guidance in the home or punish anyone for doing anything. That is a view.
You may also be of the way of thinking that even if there is such a thing as a valid authority who can punish others for disobedience and transgression, it is better not to punish people with striking. Better it be by taking something away from them, going to the naughty chair, no more Xbox, no more freedom because you go to prison etc, there are many good parents who do not believe in smacking their kids, as an example, and many good kids have been raised without being spanked on a regular basis if at all.
434 actually concurs with this because it doesn't prescribe getting physical as the first option for anybody.
The first step in any disagreement or conflict is dialogue, which is the first prescription. The second prescription is leaving, leaving the situation permanently or temporarily, this is almost like taking something away from someone, the very last step is striking and It's actually like that with nearly everything in life in the real world. If you can't talk it out, it either becomes a situation where you have to leave it be, and get out of there, or it becomes a matter of asserting dominance.
From nowhere in Quran can we derive principles that would create systems and institutions which we have as an example in the Westminister system what's called a 'hung parliament. There's no prescribed deadlock between two absolutely equal parties to be found.
That's why the idea of assigning two absolutely equal judges, equally biased from their respective families, doesn't make sense. That's why there are unequal obligations in marriage and why the idea of a completely equal marriage which results in a deadlock when the husband and wife disagree, doesn't make sense.
It just facilitates bureaucracy, external dependency, and unnecessary complexity for what is simple and salat (assigned duty), and a blueprint for building civilization bottom-up from the individual, to the family, to the town, the community, the city, and the whole country. If the system doesn't scale all the way up the chain, at every level it's not a sustainable system for sustaining human life, I.E, broken families, demographic crisis, declining fertility etc etc.
It's also why we have to deal with different people, male and female, people from other nations and backgrounds and means, and why in another sense we all have our own path in life and don't fully belong to any party or faction on this earth, our home is in the next life.
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"Each of you chooses the direction to follow; you shall race towards righteousness. Wherever you may be, God will summon you all. God is Omnipotent. "
And why we all have our own communities and national customs
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"And for every Ummah (a community or a nation), there is a Messenger; when their Messenger comes, the matter will be judged between them with justice, and they will not be wronged".
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"Then we revealed to you this scripture, truthfully, confirming previous scriptures, and superseding them. You shall rule among them in accordance with God's revelations, and do not follow their wishes if they differ from the truth that came to you. For each of you, we have decreed laws and different rites. Had God willed, He could have made you one congregation. But He thus puts you to the test through the revelations He has given each of you. You shall compete in righteousness. To God is your final destiny - all of you - then He will inform you of everything you had disputed".
Whenever there's a deadlock the parties in that deadlock always have to adhere to parties or principles outside and above themselves and their institution, and if you're going to say that's authorities but those authorities are two in number and also completely equal, then those authorities will also have to defer to other authorities ad infinitum.
But I don't believe people really have a problem with authority, they're just uncomfortable with the idea of a patriarch, a father wielding authority in the context of his home concerning his family. When I see the attitudes and behaviors of the masses of western populations over the past 2 years, I see a people who have for the most part welcomed and applauded the assertive, strong hand of government coming in and deciding things in an incredibly decisive, swift, strong-handed manner.
If a father were to set rules for his family, that they are not to go out from the home but that they have a lawful reason, that if they do go out they must be back home by a certain time (curfew), that they are not authorized to leave the country or even the local government area, that they must take a privately produced American pharmaceutical product that this is not a discussion matter, we insist. I believe most people experiencing different degrees of moral outrage at 434 meaning to 'strike' or to 'beat' would put this behavior in a similar category of domestic violence extreme abusive-controlling-manipulative behavior. But do they wonder? I'm obviously riffing here but this is how I see it.
We don't see many people who genuinely dislike and disrepute authority, or the punishments and arbitration meted out by authority as a principle, we don't have to go back to Nazi-Germany or Stalinist Russia to see western populations getting on board with unbelievably rapid and piercing government overreach into personal lives with serious consequences for people not getting on board with the program straight away, or otherwise finding themselves on the wrong side of history.
People love authority and command when it agrees with them.
The indirectness, the over-litigation, and the hyper-institutionalization and hence factioning of justice and society haven't made us better people, more moral, more upright, more disciplined, more long-suffering than our forebears. What we have is a more dishonest, passive-aggressive society, where justice is either miscarried or unnecessarily delayed and complicated, and where people have issues with each other, even adult men, they would rather do underhanded, spiteful, and sabotage-like measures than simply have a direct confrontation defending their honor and be out with it.
The sorts of societies we live in partly come out of who and what we choose to trust and to what degree. I'm not saying put your faith in man, put your trust in God and his message. but if we're to have societies and institutions and civilizations, let's try to make sure we recognize what the basis for that is, what scales, and that we're not undermining it if we want it to stay around for posterity.