I am amazed the way you explained it? If your mother is very ill and critical condition, then first thing you have to do is to resort for doctors to look after her well and leave it to GOD to do the rest?rather than posing question here in the forum? Death of a person cannot be avoided? In the first place why you worry for a living person about her funeral? It?s bizarre for me?How do you know that you won?t die before her? Whatever the condition may be no one starts to speak of death before it actually falls on any one..
You could have asked this as a general question rather than pointing to your mom who is living? I feel it is really nonsensical ?
Any how brother / Sister? There are no barriers constituted by God for a dead body (NO ISLAMIC WAY and there is no such thing called Islamic way in anything according to quran)? With some one?s death the chapter is closed? That?s why God has not applied any rule over a dead body? Any culture and way you do it is fine? rather than involve things calling it a religious way? there is no such way in God?s Order? You burry it, cremate it, or whatever the way available in this modern life, do it? no harm for you or for her?But don?t ever even by mistake say that this is the way God ordered to do a funeral?. then you will be in trouble?
Explain to your Mom if possible that if I am alive I will do your funeral in the best way possible to me and not to soothe the society and their own faith, coz you are my mom.. And if you have any issues in doing it, just in case you are alive and she passes away take the corpse to a common cemetery and burry her by yourself and with someone?s help?
Burying is the only way shown to the first death on this earth (one of the sons of Adam) just coz the other son killed him and was not aware what to do to the dead body? Not coz that it is the God ordered way through a messenger? but just as a help through a crow to that idiot who murdered the brother....
Don?t take it a big issue, but instead make sure your mom is fully surrendered to your Lord so that would help her God Will?is the funeral important for you or the concern of your mom how she is gonna live after death..?
You will never find an answer to your question through quran coz it is not important in the eyes of God, what is important is what human perform while living and not after death?
Note don?t call yourself as quranist (what the heck quranist is) or no need of any mosque of quranist (or even any mosque) for someone to have the faith and live in this world?Masjid is not mosque btw?There is no such thing as quranist, just be surrendered to God and develop your soul on your own..
I know what you mean, but I knew the situation and we needed to plan. My mother ended up passing away two days after I made this question.
"But don?t ever even by mistake say that this is the way God ordered to do a funeral?. then you will be in trouble?"
Absolutely agreed. We have her funeral service successfully planned and I will personally speak some Quran verses for her as it was her request that it be spoken. Thus, avoiding the judgment of any Sunni cleric especially when I/we don't need their judgment. As I'm sure you know, the term "Quranist" simply means you follow only God, only the Quran, and no other book. I could use the term "Submitter" among other things.