Salaam Nour,
I quote the text from the root list pertaining to kh-m-r
Kha-Miim-Ra = cover/conceal/veil, becoming changed/altered from a former state/condition, mixed/mingled/incorporated/blended, intoxication/wine/grapes, make-up, any intoxicating thing that clouds/obscures the intellect, come upon secretly/unexpectedly, crowding of people, odour of perfume, women's head cover, man's turban, a covering, something fermented/matured.
khamr n.fem. 2219, 590, 591, 1236, 1241, 4715
khumur n. masc. pl. 2431
...and let them draw/set/cast (walyadribna) with their veils/covers (bikhumurihinna) over (AAala) their breasts/bosom (juyoobihinna)...
Lane gives some examples ?the dwelling was hidden by the trees?, ?he concealed his testimony?, "She (a woman) applied KhaMaRat as a linament, to beautify her complexion.".
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From the very wording of the Qur'an the mention of the khumur is too casual. It is like saying "don't make a fuss of it, just throw over the bossom anything you may have at hand (as opposed to cut and sew a particular piece of garment for the purpose)", thereby the imprecise general use of the cover, which is a general term.
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My experience is that the insistence on the hijab has made societies where it is imposed by social pressure more hypocritical and less virtuous. It is not an hommage paid to God, who does not need that kind of hommages, but a subservience to social pressures. Do you think God is angry with women? Angrier than with men? Do you think God considers women a danger? God says in sura 4.1 reverence God... and reverence the wombs... If the hiyabis were more interested in reverencing th wombs than in their little obssessions moral would be better served. The second part of aya 24.31 is there to warn women from being exploited for their looks and to warn them from exploiting their looks themselves. It is not there to blame them for their looks nor to make them submit to a special tax because of their looks. God is loving with women in the Qur'an, tender and considerate. God does not blame women. But the list of all the subversion of holy revelations perpetrated by men to put down women is too lengthy to even attempt to make a summary. 24.31 has been turned into a jungle in order to extract from it something far from what the peace of mind of the women requires and that God provided for them.
Salaam,
It takes a very patient person to listen to someone's questions and arguments. So thank you again for being patient.
I understand the frustration people feel with the discussion over this topic. Unfortunately a woman's body is still political and economic grounds which is the reason why it is continually debated about. But I'm really not trying to find the ultimate truth which all women should follow, I'm just trying to find what to believe in and what to practice. It is hard thinking outside of your social situation and questioning something which everyone takes as a given fact that bares to questioning.
That being said, I enjoy the sermons because they help me balance the weight of the mainstream social discourses. I think I comprehend your perspective, I will keep mulling it over in my head until I make up my mind. Thank you for the source, it is really helpful. If anyone has any other sources, please send them my way. I'm constantly seeking knowledge and the more the better.
Thanks again!