Hello and peace,
On the day of judgment people will not worry about anyone but themselves. In fact even when I had an emotional breakdown a few years ago I was only concerned/fearful for myself. Friends and family became insignificant(even my twin who has been my friend since my birth did not matter to me). Thats just the reality of what happens when you fear for your soul. The hereafter is just so much more important. Another example of how something can become insignificant is high school. I remember in high school every exam was important, your friends were as well. Yet looking back I barely talk to the people I used to know, the problems of high school also seem insignificant when compared to my current situation.
8033 So when the screaming shout comes.
8034 The Day when a person will run from his brother.
8035 And his mother and father.
8036 And his mate and children.
8037 For every person on that Day is a matter that concerns him.
8038 Faces on that Day which are openly displayed.
8039 Laughing and seeking good news.
8040 And faces on that Day with dust on them.
8041 Being burdened by remorse.
8042 Those are the rejecters, the wicked.
23101 So when the horn is blown, then there will be no kinship between them on that Day, nor will they ask for one another.
2925 And he said ?You have taken idols besides God in order to preserve some friendship among you in this worldly life. But then, on the Day of Resurrection, you will disown one another, and curse one another. Your destiny is Hell, and you will have no victors.
So like you worded it "your human consciousness" will no longer care about the earthly concerns.
Peace all
Well done;
I would like to add the following
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It is not fitting, for the prophet and those who believe, that they should pray for forgiveness for pagans, even though they be of kin, after it is clear to them that they are companions of the Fire. (9-113)
An Example
And Noah called upon his Lord and said "O my Lord! surely my son is of my family! and Thy promise is true and Thou art the Justest of Judges!" (45) He said "O Noah! he is not of thy family for his conduct is unrighteous. So ask not of Me that of which thou hast no knowledge! I give thee counsel, lest thou become one of the ignorant!" (46) Noah said "O my Lord! I do seek refuge with Thee from asking Thee for that of which I have no knowledge. And unless Thou forgive me and have Mercy on me, I should indeed be lost!" (11-47)
Thus, our love for God should exceed our love to anythig, including our kids.
and if we do not, then we are not true believers yet.
Peace