Most of u have been sayin' that its too early for me to get married at dis age but what i think is its better to get married rather than wait for da right age n keep increasin' my 'sin count' (i.e. by talkin, meetin n so on)

Well, I'm originally an Indian but was born n spent a lot more than half of my life in Saudi Arabia n brother TAJ i'm aware of those rules which r followed there but as far as I think just liking/loving some1 shudnt b considered as somethin' wrong unless n untill u do wrong or u think wrong. If the guy makes a girl date around with him n asks her to go on the wrong path then in that case the parents shudn't agree with he girl's choice..... even yhe parents ought b understandin' n they simply can't reject a guy just cuz he made their daughter fall in love with him, it cant b his fault cuz the decision of liking the guy n acceptin' him entirely depends on the girl!

In every relationship its the trust n mutual understandin' between two people that counts more n OF ALL THE TRUST ON ALLAH to carry out a successful relationship!
I've been listening since years that "love marriages are never successful" but I completely disagree with it 'cuz in the case of hurtin' parents n gettin' married the marriages rnt successful but in my case I want my parents to happily agree with my choice. I've known this guy since i was 15 n I know what type of a person he is n hope even my parents agree with my choice...

I seriously don't prefer dating thats why i wanna get married early...
1 more favour from you people.... include me in ur prayers!

thankin' you all!
simple girl!

Firstly,
Thanks a lot to all you people who are adivicing me according to Islam!

And brother AhmedBahgat, i'll b really thankful to you if u write the verse as well or atleast the verse no. in the quran...

n abt others who've been askin me da game plan... well, people over his side includin' is parents r cool with evrythin' n r ready to call my parents to have a talk regardin' our marriage but da problem is with ma side 'cuz never in our family these so called love marriages have been promoted... im really scared to disscuss this with my parents as 1st of all my mum is still angry with me...
the guy whom i love i ready to marry me now but i hesitate a li'll to disscuss dis prob with my parents as he still gotta yr to get over with his studies n inshallah get a job...

n yea... i gotta ask u ppl somethin' more.... well, since i talk to this guy without my mum's knowledge, in a way i'm betrayin' her but besides is betrayin parent a sin in islam?
but i know i'm true to myself as i dont spk nethin rubbish n even Allah knows all this

1 more question...
since i've broken oath... am i supposed to pay kaffarah? bu i dont earn anythin' so in this case what am i supposed to do... wait till i earn somethin?

Hello Everbody!
well.... i'm new to the group n have read some other posts where i've found that some of u give a good advice keeping the religion in mind...
i'm a (sunni) muslim girl whoz in love with a guy whoz muslim as well, i havnt done nethin wrong exept for speakin to him on the phone n meetin' a few times n even whn i meet him allhamdulillah i stay in my limits... my actual problem is that my parents are strictly against all this stuff which has been considered as haram in islam (in my case keeping any kinda contact with a na-mehram) a few days before my mother came to know abt me n was really depressed n even started crying saying that ive betrayed her n said she wundt let this continue n will get me married as soon as possible without even letting me to continue my studies... i dint know what to do so i took the quran in my hand n asked her to forgive me n promised her that i wont continue this again n wont even b in any kinda contact with the guy.... almost month n a half has passed by now n my mom is still angry with me, she isnt spkin to me properly... i feel really hurt for all this n the only person with whom i can disscuss my problems is that guy whom i really love so i went against the promise i made n mailed him a few times, phoned him 2ice n met him 1ce.... whnever i mailed him or called him or met him the only thought kept going in my head was "am i doing wrong, will Allah get angry with me" n now, i simply donno what to do, i've been repenting for all the so called sins i've done... my friends have been sayin that i've done a big sin by going for all this again though swearing on the quran.... some times i feel i've done all wrong but on the other hand i even get this feelin that my 'niyyah' is clean...
is it wrong with what all i'm doing after taking a promise keepin quran in my hand? shudnt i b going for all this n wait till i get married to him (inshallah)? am i betrayin' my parents? is it wrong to keep any kinda conacts with a na-mehram?
I really want you people to advice me keepin the religion in mind.

thank you!