Ya, I guess for marriage lol. and when I say believer, I mean like someone who believes in God, no matter what religion they may be. This one here just happens to be a Muslim beilever. Based on the 2 choices you described. I think would wait and hope God gives me a better choice in the future. Personally I look at marriage as the only "legal" pathway for a man and women to be together. And if you are looking to marry in order to please God, then you can only marry a believer. 6010 O you who believe, if the believing women come emigrating to you, then you shall test them. God is fully aware of their belief. Thus, if you establish that they are believers, then you shall not return them to the disbelievers. They are no longer lawful for them, nor are the disbelievers lawful for them. And return the dowries that were paid. And there is no sin upon you to marry them, if you have paid their dowries to them. And do not keep disbelieving wives, and ask back what dowries you paid. And let them ask back what dowries they had paid. Such is God's judgment; He judges between you. God is Knowledgeable, Wise. However even "disbelievers" marry nowadays which I find completely illogical (boyfriend/girlfriend thing is alot less stressful).