Salam sis,
I also wish you the very best!
I revert 1990 and I did also wear a scarves even if I disliked it (.
I did also argue alot with my husband and it finally led to divorce.
I also have 5 kids D
Where in the middle east are u living?
Take Care!
Sis Maria
may allah show right path to all of us
may allah show a right path to all of us.
to wear scarf is not so much difficult , as u r projecting . my mother takes ( chador) a long piece to cover the hair and wrap around the body.
but my sis wear hijab ( that covers the face) sometime they says that they feel difficulty specially in the summer .......... but never says it like a big issue........... because it is to wear when u go outside ur home ..........
and my sister think that they get more respect and people show sobre behav with them than those who dont observe pardah.
the purpose of my msg is that to wear scarf is not so cumbersome as u r saying.
it seems the matter of person like and dislike.
take care