Salam,

I'm here just to support your article. I am an unmarried Muslim woman of 36 yrs. I have lived my life as Allah's will untill I met someone by the end of 2013. I had a few boyfriends before and always broke up because they could not be together with me before getting into serious relationship. This was kind of hard 'cause they were really good people though they were not Muslims. With this last one, I started to search well internet and I found an article written by a Muslim scholar saying that Allah has never prohibited premarital sex.
Then I start to reconsider everything and I prayed a Nafil Namaz 2 rakat before our date. In the past also I did the same and there always been something happen and the date-to-be is always postponed or cancelled. However, this time, I prayed to Allah saying that if it is your will for me to be with him, so be it. Then on that very day, the date happened.
So, there is something that comes to my mind whatever the others say, it is between ourselves and Allah. He knows what is best for us and He only will decide if it should happen or not.
Well, I went a bit long. Anyway, I'm here to tell you that so long as it is not ''Hate'', God will is there.
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Zu