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    siki
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    Peace Phoenix

    Quraan doe not mention public sex.

    phoenix 1

    I agree with warner here, we have been careless in using this word public sex. Zina is not public sex, but an unauthorized sexual act , which while being committed is witnessed by 4 people. If a husband and wife are witnessed by 4 people , i don't think they would qualify for 100 lashes.

    peace
    siki

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      siki
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      Dear warner

      Adhaab' is general word for punishment , it could be any punishment . It could be 100 lashes as per 24-2 or even a confinement as per 4-15, when the proper charge of inter course cannot be proved and hence the women in 4-15 do not qualify as Zani. but is proved beyond doubt as lewd, and need restraining. When ever the accusation (sexual act) is proved by 4 witnesses, then it is most definitely the couple which has been witnessed, so see the next verse , 4-16 which calls them "Zanee".

      I agree, there are still holes in our understanding, and we need to plug them, we are inching forward and Inshall ah we shall be able to reach a better understanding.

      peace
      siki

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        siki
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        Peace Siki

        You must give credit to the eloquent and precise language of the Quran to convey the exact meaning of the verse without being too wordy.

        Let me try with an example

        1. There were no other witnesses to the theft other than Siki.

        2. Siki can not produce any other witness to the theft because he is the only witness.

        Which is better?
        Which is correct?

        Obviously Siki can not produce other witnesses since Siki is the only witness.

        Applying the same sworn testimonies formula for a sole witness ,other than your own spouse, why not ?

        peace

        siki

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          warner
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          Peace Siki

          Does 415 or 16 say Athaab.

          In the context of the verses in Chapter 24 from 241 to 26 you can understand it is connected to a single subject, albeit broad. And 241 to 10 are on the same subject and these are legal verses. Isn?t it common sense the athaab in 248 is connected to 242?

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            warner
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            Applying the same sworn testimonies formula for a sole witness ,other than your own spouse, why not ?

            peace

            siki

            Peace Siki

            I do not understand your point , can you please clarify.

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              siki
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              Peace warner

              I mean if there is a sole witness other than spouse, and he can solemnly affirm , then why doesn't that qualify her/him to be a zani ? why this exception? so i think swearing of spouse , does not make her/him Zani, and hence can not be given the punishment prescribed for "Zaneeis"

              peace

              siki

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                phoenix1
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                Sex in front of 4 or more people IS public sex. How is it any different?

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                  jonny_k
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                  Peace bro "phoenix",

                  Sex in front of 4 or more people IS public sex. How is it any different?

                  JK- 1) the Quran doesnt say that there have to be four simultaneous eye witnesses. One could be having sexual relations and witnessed firt by one, then a second, third and then fourth witness separetly and later they may all testify. So its not necessarily public. 2) four witnesses does NOT necessary mean direct eye witnesses of the event but could also be applied to indepenedent witnesses of DNA tests and/or other facts which solidly indicate that the event took place. GOD Bless!

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                    siki
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                    khizer

                    Ya, correct,,, construction of relevent verses accomodate such an understanding.

                    peace

                    siki

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                      warner
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                      Peace

                      There is nothing to refute JohnnyKs remark in the Quraan as far as I know

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                        TheNabi
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                        Peace

                        Why does Allah want 4 witnesses?

                        Otherwise they are liers in the eyes of God .

                        What if there are 3 witnesses who are telling the truth and they can?t find a fourth witness? 244 expects us to whip them 80 times??

                        It is a serious charge, so serious that God's curse is on the lier even if the guilty party does get off .

                        Are the lashes suppose to be severe or symbolic?

                        I'm not sure. I think they are to be held literally at first until further evidence clearly suggests otherwise. In any case God suggests you not let pity keep you fro your duty in the matter .

                        P.S. I also believe if you read further on in the following verses that you will see that the mumin are in a position where they are not adulters or adulteresses and thus do not have sexual relations in such ways and given the benefit of a doubt by their family, that is the community of believers . Other conditions are spoken of in these passages such as people seeking to incite such evil charges.

                        Joe

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                          Angel
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                          Cheers Joe.

                          24/13 Only if they produced four witnesses (you may believe them). If they fail to produce the witnesses, then they are, according to GOD, liars. - Khalifa translation

                          I can?t believe how absurd this is, if me X and Y saw Z committing adultery ~ and we grassed Z ~ but we can?t find a fourth witness ~ and Z?s spouse refused to believe us, then me X and Y get 80 lashes (!!) and Z is let off scott free?? I can?t even begin to think how irrational/unjust this is.

                          Adultery is a private matter, exposing the problem only gives people something to gossip about; and those nasty people that take pleasure from other people?s pain would just love something like that.

                          And exactly which puppet is gonna whip me, X and Y for telling the truth &?

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                            Angel
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                            Considering the wisdom of the Quran I find the above out of touch hypno, and certainly not something an all wise creator would command ???.

                            Would it be better to take the above metaphorically and not a literal commandment? tempt A metaphor reflecting the utter seriousness of the sin? tempt Or is that interpretation way too heretical or silly for some of you? >D

                            peace
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                              unknownuser
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                              Peace Be Upon You All

                              This is a very thought provoking thread, thank you sis Angel

                              I wonder if any of you have questioned why we hit each other violently in such an inhumane manner as getting whipped because someone disrupted the moral fabric of society.

                              I believe in keeping chaste because it is better for our souls and prevents any additional impure programs entering into our minds. It is what is prescribed for us and there is alot of wisdom in leading a chaste life.

                              My problem is similar to sis Angel in that it is seemingly barbaric to be wipping people for a sin committed. I would think entering into some therapuetic coaching to re-program the person back to a healthy state, perhaps some type of confinement, or obligation to do community work for a set period of time would serve the guilty couple better ...

                              People seem to be really hung up on the beauty of 4 witnesses to ensure that innocent people don't get wipped and I didn't see any discussion on why we're wipping people to begin with ...

                              As questioned by sis Angel in another thread, and I think very cleverly, how many of you would be able to actually carry this law out? How many of you would really be capable of wipping someone regardless of your stance on the crime was. To me adultery is a very grave wrong but I have a problem with the desensitization that occurs when we physically whip someone and justifying it as OK to physically harm another.

                              I know alot of egyptians and i know that the overwhelming majority of them would say that this is a very uncivilized and barbaric rule that should be substituted for something similar in severity but dissimilar in that nobody gets physically assaulted by another. In egypt the laws for adultery is jail time; although the laws are flawed in other ways. But the point is that perhaps we need to revisit the point of the commandment in a broader sense.

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                                TheNabi
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                                Peace

                                There is a way of dealing with adultery mentioned in the story of Joe. Check it out. I'll probably speak on it when given more time.

                                Joe

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                                  jonny_k
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                                  Peace sis "angel",

                                  1. The verse if for the protection of chaste women and that one dare not blame them without solid evidene. 2) "shuhadaa" does not necessarily mean four EYE witnesses but can refer to four independent lines of inquiry all suggesting/giving evidence tht the accused is guilty and in that sense each proof acts as a witness itself. GOD Bless!
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                                    unknownuser
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                                    Peace Boost, Angel, all,

                                    Sometimes I get frustrated that people are not careful with The God's words and assume something on their own and then write entire posts based on that assumption whereas it is nowhere to be found in The God's words.

                                    Where does it mention about severity of lashes ? brickwall

                                    If the severity is not mentioned, would that not be indicative of the public shaming aspect of the punishment ? !

                                    This has already been discussed here

                                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=13165.0

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                                      Roshan
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                                      Cheers Joe.

                                      Adultery is a private matter, exposing the problem only gives people something to gossip about; and those nasty people that take pleasure from other peoples pain would just love something like that.

                                      Peace Angel

                                      No, adultery is not a private matter. It can destroy families, lead to children outside of wedlock, single parent families. All sorts of bad things can result from sex outside of marriage. The family is the building block of society and without it you have a disjointed society with people functioning as individuals. There are so many reasons why it is crucial to deter people from adultery/fornication.

                                      Roshan

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                                        unknownuser
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                                        Peace Be Upon You bro Tanveer

                                        Is there mention in the verse of the punishment having to be in public?

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                                          warner
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                                          Peace be with you

                                          242 ?????..let not compassion move you in their case in a matter prescribed by Allah if ye believe in Allah and the Last Day and let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.

                                          The part of the verse quoted above says the punishment should not be mild.

                                          You can notice the word used in Arabic to describe the punishment is Azaab/torture.

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