How Do You Deal With Family Pressure?
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Hi khalil,
I move out in 2 months but in the mean time I do have to deal with this.
if you need advice for the "meantime" it must really be tough ? Or is it a typo ;D
lk
ps i dealt with it by being me - moved out very young - and went far away - but this might not be the best way to go for everybody. So, my advice is BE YOURSELF even if it implicates kissing goats...
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Okay, this is how I do it
- I always say "yes." When my parents tell me to do something, I SAY I'll do it.
- I compromise. I go to the mosques on fridays (whenever I don't have school) so I can skip the other 34 prayers of the week.
- I try to avoid the topic, or my parents altogether. The latter isn't easy since we live in the same house.
If the conversation does turn that way, just don't say anything. Pretend to listen.
But I don't think the pressure on me is to the point of "absurd."
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wow I got an email from a girl I really like!!!!!!!!!
LOL....you guys are really funny sometimes. How topics go from one thing to the next trips me out. rotfl
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if you need advice for the "meantime" it must really be tough ? Or is it a typo ;D
lol. i crack me up.
ps i dealt with it by being me - moved out very young - and went far away - but this might not be the best way to go for everybody. So, my advice is BE YOURSELF even if it implicates kissing goats...
actually the whole problem is because I want to marry a goat, i feel wrong kissing without commitment. But my father said no son of my will marry a goat, you come from a heritage of proud indian/saskatchewan men. oh lk, what is a brother to do??
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- Did We not relieve your chest
- And take from you your load
- Which had put strain on your back?
- And We have raised your remembrance
- So with hardship comes ease.
- With hardship comes ease.
- So when you are done, then stand.
- And to your Lord you shall seek.
peace