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    Leoxyz
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    Zamakhshari says in his tafseer regarding "Udruboohunna" - and I quote

    "It must be a light beating that does not injure nor break her bones and must avoid the face."

    So if Ahmad Ali says he got his tafseer from Zamakhshari - then he seems to have got it badly wrong.

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    If this highlighted word is correctly transliterated and present in Some Zamakhshari's writing ,then most probably this word does not exist in Arabic according to my humble knowledge.
    Zamakhshari is and authority on arabic lexicon.

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      cosmicdancer
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      If this highlighted word is correctly transliterated and present in Some Zamakhshari's writing ,then most probably this word does not exist in Arabic according to my humble knowledge.
      Zamakhshari is and authority on arabic lexicon.

      I didn't understand that post?

      Did you read the quote I gave from Zamakhsharis Tafseer.

      His tafseer is one of my favourites. I have it right here and started a Phd on it back in 1985 and translated about a quater of it.

      It clearly explains this verse as meaning hitting - nothing else.

      I find it quite pathetic how many people can't face the truth.

      But good luck to all those who want to change "Hit" into "leave", "Have Sex" "dance a jig" "stand on one leg and say Ne Ne Ne!" or any other nonsense.

      I prefer to face the truth.

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        Leoxyz
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        I didn't understand that post?

        Did you read the quote I gave from Zamakhsharis Tafseer.

        His tafseer is one of my favourites. I have it right here and started a Phd on it back in 1985 and translated about a quater of it.

        It clearly explains this verse as meaning hitting - nothing else.

        I find it quite pathetic how many people can't face the truth.

        But good luck to all those who want to change "Hit" into "leave", "Have Sex" "dance a jig" "stand on one leg and say Ne Ne Ne!" or any other nonsense.

        I prefer to face the truth.

        )

        Dear
        I have said that the word "Udruboohunna" which you have used does not exist in arabic literature according to my very primitive knowledge.How can Zamakhshari use it?? .

        If it had been "Idhriboohunna" I would have accepted.You said in you introduction that you are qualified in arabic .

        You said

        For the next twenty eight years I was devout and committed to Islam. I completed a BA in Arabic and Islamic Studies at the University of *******, became President of the Islamic Society, was Amir of a Da?wah group and edited its magazine ? ?The *******? ? wrote four books for Muslims and spent fifteen years as a teacher at a Muslim school.

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          warner
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          Salaam

          The derivatives from the root daraba are used by interpreters, translators etc to mean beat, strike without giving a second thought. Please read the following link on the topic "2431 strike their feet or separating/parting their legs"
          to find one such example. What is interesting here is not only the meaning of the word is distorted but the accompanying fabricated story of Jahiliya women wearing little bells in their feet which makes a sound when they walk, to explain the misunderstood word and the verse.

          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=11995.0

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            warner
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            Peace

            According to my understanding using cross reference of nushuz the meaning can be assembling, gathering, coming together. Both 434 and 4128 uses this word.I think in 434 the word is used with the meaning where 2 or more wives get together (assembling, ganging up/teaming up) against their husband as in 663-5 and in 4128 the husband teams up with one wife neglecting the other. The continuity of this meaning is clear when we look at 4129.

            In 434 faced with the above circumstances if advising and deserting from the bed does not yield results the verse instructs the husband to separate the wives concerned wadribu_hunna/separate them). Its possible the 2 or more wives live in the same house or close proximity. So a physical separation or even any distance between the wives who are teaming up against the husband will reduce the collusion.

            Please add your thoughts.

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              unknownuser
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              The Word Da-ra-ba in quran http//www.faithfreedom.org/Articles/ArabChristian30907.htm

              I've read many articles presented by several well known interpreters/translators of the word idrib to mean beat/strike/smite and naturally by a few apologists (especially Quran aloners), but the link above tops them all; well defined, explained and fully detailed as per their contexts. Other than that, I've read number of ahadith proclaiming the same, including the historicity and nature of wife beating as a final resort. The "beating/striking/smiting" part is also evident in other parts of the Quran 812, 850, 474, 4727, to name a few.

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                cosmicdancer
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                Dear
                I have said that the word "Udruboohunna" which you have used does not exist in arabic literature according to my very primitive knowledge.How can Zamakhshari use it?? .

                If it had been "Idhriboohunna" I would have accepted.You said in you introduction that you are qualified in arabic .

                You said

                I do speak, read and write Arabic and have a 1st class honours degree in Arabic - thanks

                Please forgive me - it is not udruboohunna but as you say Idhriboohunna or with the waw wadriboohunna

                Now...

                Did you read what Zamakhshari said? (the guy Ahmad Ali apparently uses for his translation).

                "It must be a light beating that does not injure nor break her bones and must avoid the face."

                Why do you think all the scholars for 1400 years have clearly all agreed it says "hit them" ?

                And why is it only today that a handful of modern Muslims who find wife hitting a very uncomfortable thing to believe in - have suddenly discovered the real truth about what this passage means?

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                  Leoxyz
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                  OK - please forgive me - The verse in question - the bit where it says wadriboohunna... which some nasty people translate as; then hit them... is that OK?

                  Now...

                  Did you read what Zamakhshari said?

                  Dear
                  No problem .you are welcome.
                  I am not in debate with you about the meaning of this word.

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                    Navid
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                    I do speak, read and write Arabic and have a 1st class honours degree in Arabic - thanks

                    Please forgive me - it is not udruboohunna but as you say Idhriboohunna or with the waw wadriboohunna

                    Now...

                    Did you read what Zamakhshari said? (the guy Ahmad Ali apparently uses for his translation).

                    "It must be a light beating that does not injure nor break her bones and must avoid the face."

                    Why do you think all the scholars for 1400 years have clearly all agreed it says "hit them" ?

                    And why is it only today that a handful of modern Muslims who find wife hitting a very uncomfortable thing to believe in - have suddenly discovered the real truth about what this passage means?

                    You have a point, but the majority is not always right

                    Similar to the salat/zakat issue

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                      unknownuser
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                      Why do you think all the scholars for 1400 years have clearly all agreed it says "hit them" ?

                      And why is it only today that a handful of modern Muslims who find wife hitting a very uncomfortable thing to believe in - have suddenly discovered the real truth about what this passage means?

                      Same reason Christian scholars conformed to the idea of slavery and "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection? and Pope is the infallible proxy of God on earth. In addition, non conformance or even hinting at a new interpretation may get them killed.

                      Thus a line of parrots parroting other parrots due out of fear and personal gain.

                      Today people have the anonymity to speak their mind and research for themselves. Really makes no difference to me how many parrots in the world; important is that one is convinced and the verse makes perfect sense as?

                      434?.and those whom you fear their quarrel, so advise them and desert them in the place of lying down, and show them, so if they obeyed you, so do not transgress on them?

                      1424, 1445; 1675, 1676, 16112; 1832, 1845; 2435; 3028, 3058; 3678; 3927,3929; 4317; 5921; 6610, 6611

                      This is the ?example? deceptively/cleverly avoided by the Christian Arab in article. Most think women only use sex as tool to get what they want ? not true, it works both ways and women may enjoy it even more so. lol

                      People read the Qur?an in interpret in different ways to suite their agenda

                      Christian extremists, Hadithist fanatics, anti-Islamists, etc. are basically same?
                      1111 Perish the hands of the Father of Flame! Perish he!

                      1. Then will he be of those who believe, and enjoin patience, (constancy, and self-restraint), and enjoin deeds of kindness and compassion.

                      Peace

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                        cosmicdancer
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                        Same reason Christian scholars conformed to the idea of slavery and "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection? and Pope is the infallible proxy of God on earth. In addition, non conformance or even hinting at a new interpretation may get them killed.

                        Thus a line of parrots parroting other parrots due out of fear and personal gain.

                        Today people have the anonymity to speak their mind and research for themselves. Really makes no difference to me how many parrots in the world; important is that one is convinced and the verse makes perfect sense as?

                        434?.and those whom you fear their quarrel, so advise them and desert them in the place of lying down, and show them, so if they obeyed you, so do not transgress on them?

                        1424, 1445; 1675, 1676, 16112; 1832, 1845; 2435; 3028, 3058; 3678; 3927,3929; 4317; 5921; 6610, 6611

                        This is the ?example? deceptively/cleverly avoided by the Christian Arab in article. Most think women only use sex as tool to get what they want ? not true, it works both ways and women may enjoy it even more so. lol

                        People read the Qur?an in interpret in different ways to suite their agenda

                        Christian extremists, Hadithist fanatics, anti-Islamists, etc. are basically same?
                        1111 Perish the hands of the Father of Flame! Perish he!

                        1. Then will he be of those who believe, and enjoin patience, (constancy, and self-restraint), and enjoin deeds of kindness and compassion.

                        Peace

                        I completely agree that one should not simply parrot what many people have said a long time ago.

                        But nor does that mean I will try to convince myself of the absurd and ridiculous simply because the facts are too hard to bear.

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                          SwedenMajidah
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                          Peace,

                          I haven't any knowledge of Arabic(can read some) but I have heard that there are more than one meaning of a word so why can you not accept that for daraba?

                          Majidah

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                            cosmicdancer
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                            Peace,

                            I haven't any knowledge of Arabic(can read some) but I have heard that there are more than one meaning of a word so why can you not accept that for daraba?

                            Majidah

                            I cannot accept it because it is ridiculous.

                            Anyone who has studied Arabic and Islam knows that this verse means "Hit them" - apart from some very self-deluded individuals and their followers.

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                              AaRoN
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                              why is it ridiculous?

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                                CavemanDoctor
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                                I cannot accept it because it is ridiculous.

                                Anyone who has studied Arabic and Islam knows that this verse means "Hit them" - apart from some very self-deluded individuals and their followers.

                                Please go ahead and show us the other verses using the same root. Then tell us, what the root means in those verses.

                                Thanks.

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                                  cosmicdancer
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                                  Please go ahead and show us the other verses using the same root. Then tell us, what the root means in those verses.

                                  Thanks.

                                  Sorry, I'm not playing silly games.

                                  Believe what you want.

                                  It doesn't change the fact you are a deluded loony fringe.

                                  I have to admit I had no idea this site was a Qur'an only site.

                                  While I despise the literalists like the Wahhabis - frankly, they have more integrity than Qur'an only... ers lol

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                                    CavemanDoctor
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                                    Sorry, I'm not playing silly games.

                                    Believe what you want.

                                    It doesn't change the fact you are a deluded loony fringe.

                                    I have to admit I had no idea this site was a Qur'an only site.

                                    While I despise the literalists like the Wahhabis - frankly, they have more integrity than Qur'an only... ers lol

                                    So cross-referencing the root with other verses, to gain a clear understanding, is a "silly game?"

                                    Cool. You're welcome to leave the site, of course. It seems to genuinely disturb you. Why put yourself through that?

                                    Peace.

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                                      SwedenMajidah
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                                      I cannot accept it because it is ridiculous.

                                      Anyone who has studied Arabic and Islam knows that this verse means "Hit them" - apart from some very self-deluded individuals and their followers.

                                      Peace,

                                      Maybe it's ridiculous when you having in your back comments from Ahmad Ali as beat them lighty.

                                      If we only look at it from the only source(Quran) then I don't see it as ridiculous.

                                      If Quran is preaching peace, then I doubt alot that beating of wives are allowed.

                                      Majidah

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                                        Jack
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                                        Peace,

                                        Anyone who has studied Arabic and Islam knows that this verse means "Hit them" - apart from some very self-deluded individuals and their followers.

                                        So if the majority agrees with something, its the truth?! What kind of logic is that? You also don't mention the FACT that the same people who 'studied arabic and islam' WANT a particular meaning to hold on to silly fairy-tale hadeeths. I.E. Justifying hadeeth using quran (Backwards mentality)

                                        You are WANTING for quran to say 'beat' just so you have reasons to disbelieve in it, me I don't care what 'daraba' means, i am interested in the truth alone.

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                                          Elena
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                                          Peace

                                          I have asked a native Arabic speaker. He says 434 is not there but 4101 (??) and that the word being explained is "darb", the gerund (more "??&quot
                                          Then I went to ask the author of the article at webislam.com where the explanation about the amazing meaning and the Raghib mention are, but the forum is closed for holidays. I'll ask later, after their holidays time )

                                          Thanks for presenting that evidence. I wonder where they saw the link between the camel and the quran. Perhaps is there another part of Raghib's work where "daraba" is explained apart from the gerund explanation? If you find it, let me know.

                                          Dear sister/Alena
                                          I am happy that I am seeing some post with some references.That is appreciable.
                                          Look at my highlighted sentences.Now first part of your sentence about camel copulation is there ,but I am unable to find that "Raghib gives the exmple of aya 434.

                                          The actual aya is

                                          Raghib's Description is

                                          • } { } { } { } { } { } { . . } { } { } { } { } { } { } { } { . } { } { } { } { } { } { } { } { .

                                          . . .

                                          I am an non-arabic,I might have missed that aya (434) as an example in it.
                                          please just highlight that "example" and post it back.
                                          Thanks

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