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I HAVE 19 KIDS!

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    SwedenMajidah
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    i asked my mother. she was up front and respect her for the honesty. she said i was her mistake..

    yea people do mistakes, they get unwanted syndroms like myself. i never lost the idea that i am born against my will. if i had the choice i'd want to be a wild cat... that is just my perspective since i am human and i don't know what a wild cat would want to be. i am not sure if that request is going to be accepted by Allah..why not make a soul then ask it, choose a body to fit in whether a human or an animal or a plant or jinn etc.. in the same keep the balance between each species...

    -peace. use condoms...

    Oh dear, but don't see yourself as a mistake, even if she says so. Prove to her that you are something special and then she will be ashamed that she thought of u as a mistake.

    Peace
    Maria

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      phoenix1
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      So what if Weinmar is a mistake. Many people are. What matters is not whether the parents choose to have the baby or not, but how they treat their child once it is born.

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        SwedenMajidah
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        Peace,

        well that is true, you'll should care well for a baby after give birth to it or leave it to someone who will care for it better than you.

        NO, and Weinmar is not a mistake I cannot accept that, If we think negatively then things will be negative so please think positive.

        Maria

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          weinmar
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          NO, and Weinmar is not a mistake I cannot accept that, If we think negatively then things will be negative so please think positive.

          Maria

          Why the denial? I mean she is nice with me of course. She is the number 1 love i receive.

          Just use condoms

          -peace

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            SwedenMajidah
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            No denial!!!! But it's just that I can feel that you are not truly happy about it deep deep inside of you.

            Yeah, I agree use condoms that's better than to have an unwanted child.

            Maria

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              weinmar
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              No denial!!!! But it's just that I can feel that you are not truly happy about it deep deep inside of you.

              Yeah, I agree use condoms that's better than to have an unwanted child.

              Maria

              Everyone would like to grow among unseparated parents. Otherwise the kid is a mess. Mom and Dad have different values.

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                SwedenMajidah
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                Peace,

                hmm me and the father of my kids are divorced.

                I hope my kids won't be a mess though '(

                Maria

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                  ImamQuranonly
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                  Salaams all,

                  Allah says in 41 that He created countless men and woman. I think we can certainly count the number that are alive today, although obviously not throughout all time.

                  I personally don't think overpopulation is the problem, I think that is what the enemy of mankind wants us to think and gives seemingly logical reasons for it.

                  I think our inability to properly use space and resources are the reason that over population seems to be a problem. The earth is HUGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE with much more space and resources that we haven't even uncovered or discovered yet. Once we learn to live in peace and harmony and to preserve the planet, we will find that this earth can accomodate billions if not trillions of more humans on it, Allah willing.

                  Just my two cents. peace

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                    Tay
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                    Peace IQO,

                    we will find that this earth can accomodate billions if not trillions of more humans on it, Allah willing

                    I pray this doesn't happen. It's hard enough as it is to find a little piece of nature that is devoid of human sound and garbage and mayhem. Very, very few civilizations know how to live in harmony with nature.

                    peace

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                      ImamQuranonly
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                      Peace IQO,

                      I pray this doesn't happen. It's hard enough as it is to find a little piece of nature that is devoid of human sound and garbage and mayhem. Very, very few civilizations know how to live in harmony with nature.

                      peace

                      Salaams Tay bro,

                      I truly understand what you are saying here. The problem to me is that we already have over 6 billion people on earth. Depopulation is not an option..that would mean killing people intentionally. Restricting the birth of kids is unislamic to me because it oppresses the most basic of human nature with a quota. We couldn't do it even if we wanted to, but even if we could, at that rate, we will still double, triple, quadruple and continue to grow in population over the next few hundred years or less. So the real only option is for our species to learn to live on earth without destroying it's natural resources. We have the technology to do this, we just need the governments of the world to have the will to do it, since the people don't seem to have it as a whole.

                      Either way, we are reaching a crossroads in our lives on earth. We will either learn to respect, preserve and nuture our earth; or we will be removed from it in mass numbers as someone else mentioned earlier.

                      Just my two cents. peace

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                        unknownuser
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                        Peace all,

                        Either way, we are reaching a crossroads in our lives on earth. We will either learn to respect, preserve and nuture our earth; or we will be removed from it in mass numbers as someone else mentioned earlier.

                        We might also be able to populate other planets and/or moons in the universe !

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                          Jack
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                          "Death is necessary for life"

                          Peace.

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                            ImamQuranonly
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                            Peace all,

                            We might also be able to populate other planets and/or moons in the universe !

                            Salaams Tanveer,

                            Yes, a very good idea and possibility, Allah willing. That is why it will be necessary for mankind to come together in the striving for all that is good and beneficial to mankind, with the concern for everything else on earth. Science and technology can only lead the way through unity and mutual care, concern and respect, Allah willing.

                            Let's pray it happens! pr

                            As Salaamu Alaikum, peace

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                              sakina08
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                              Peace.

                              I do not think God needs any help with population control via any form. Don't you notice all the natural disasters and deaths of so many humans at once? Perhaps, this is a form of population control entertwined with survival of the fittest (fittest in belief).

                              Sakina

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                                sakina08
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                                Salaams Tanveer,

                                Yes, a very good idea and possibility, Allah willing. That is why it will be necessary for mankind to come together in the striving for all that is good and beneficial to mankind, with the concern for everything else on earth. Science and technology can only lead the way through unity and mutual care, concern and respect, Allah willing.

                                Let's pray it happens! pr

                                As Salaamu Alaikum, peace

                                Peace,

                                IQO...you mentioned here that it is necessary for all mankind to come together and then said let's pray that happens. I refuse to pray for anyone who is not a believer instructed per quran (pray for the believers only), and certainly all mankind are not beleivers, how do you justify this blatent disregard for the quranic commandment? Why is it that you said ONLY SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY CAN LEAD THE WAY THROUGH UNITY AND MUTUAL CARE, CONCERN AND RESPECT? Shouldn't it be that only God can lead the way via any form he chooses if that be science or technology or whatnot....

                                Why do you mention Allah Willing? Why not say God Willing or InShaAllah? Why combine two different languages? Where is the logic in that?

                                Sakina

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                                  unknownuser
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                                  "Death is necessary for life"

                                  Peace.

                                  Yes and with the population crisis we'll be having soon, there'll be a lot of that going on.

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                                    FAR
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                                    Isn't this theory of "too many people on the planet" something from the Gog magog NWO folk who have their own desires (seeing no more than 500 million)?

                                    http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQitYbrZJgA

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                                      asubmitter
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                                      "The world can sustain a population ten times over, but cannot sustain man's greed." Gandhi

                                      Not exact words, but something to that effect

                                      And the human population in the next 200 years will be tens times what it is now. Start becoming conservative rather than extrovert, try to be content with your lot, rather than look for more. Because one day will come when hell is filled, and it will be asked of hell, have you had enough, and it will reply 'give me more'.

                                      Once you become capitalist, there is always the need to want more, to becoming bigger, to become richer, to become higher in the hierarchy, but people forget money is a test, money is a curse and money is a drug. You cannot buy happiness. Do not forsake the hereafter for this world, for this world is mere illusion compared to the after life. With you Lord is much greater reward, and with your Lord are the treasures.

                                      Well you might have it all but still want more
                                      There's law for the rich another for the poor
                                      There a golden key unlocks all the doors
                                      And the world is yours (Ian Brown, world is yours)

                                      Establish contact 5 times a day through the passage of the sun through dawn till night, and recite al fatiha, the key, while standing, bow down and prostrate, and bear witness that there is no other god besides God, He is one, and has no partner, whilst sitting, send salaaam to the two recording angels on your right and left. Make this your mantra for life, discipline yourself to prayer at the correct times, and establish contact with the key.

                                      No one possesses power except God

                                      Good place to find a method to prayer is www.submission.ws, there is a link on the side under 'religious duties'.

                                      peace

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