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If for the Men there will be hooris,what will there be for women in Paradise?

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    huruf
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    The way of extracting meaning from the Quran on this subject and many others, always make me think of the French saying that goes

    L'amour c'est comme un auberge espagnol on y mange ce que l'on aporte.

    Love is like a Spanish inn, you eat there what you yourself bring with you.

    Or as Jesus is said to have said in the Gospel

    "It is not what goes into them what defiles men, but what goes out of them".

    And all the praise of virginity (archetype) and "ummy"(ness) archetype also) is about that. Do not bring with you any bagagge when you approach the Quran, be an unwritten page, an empty blackboard, have no past, have no knowledge... be empty, so that the quran may fill you to the brim. If you have something in yourself already, you will contaminate the Quran. We must be virgins so that we may know that which comes on to us in its full power.

    Of course, to be 100% virgin, illiterate, empty is impossible. But we must try our best at emptying as much as possible of our balast.

    When you come to think of it, those fantasys about as many partners for sexual orgies as you can handle in Paradise, are really funny. It is the kind of thing you would expect in some magazine comic.

    Salaam

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      The way of extracting meaning from the Quran on this subject and many others, always make me think of the French saying that goes

      L'amour c'est comme un auberge espagnol on y mange ce que l'on aporte.

      Love is like a Spanish inn, you eat there what you yourself bring with you.

      Or as Jesus is said to have said in the Gospel

      "It is not what goes into them what defiles men, but what goes out of them".

      And all the praise of virginity (archetype) and "ummy"(ness) archetype also) is about that. Do not bring with you any bagagge when you approach the Quran, be an unwritten page, an empty blackboard, have no past, have no knowledge... be empty, so that the quran may fill you to the brim. If you have something in yourself already, you will contaminate the Quran. We must be virgins so that we may know that which comes on to us in its full power.

      Of course, to be 100% virgin, illiterate, empty is impossible. But we must try our best at emptying as much as possible of our balast.

      When you come to think of it, those fantasys about as many partners for sexual orgies as you can handle in Paradise, are really funny. It is the kind of thing you would expect in some magazine comic.

      Salaam

      And who wrote those root the same ppls hadith followers why we cannot use common sensehmm

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        If women were offered hot sexy men in heaven would many of them become suicide bombers?

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          peace be upon you all,

          the descriptions of paradise are allegorical!, not literary...
          no reason to discuss this because only GOD knows what paradise is.
          just put your faith in GOD and trust Him.
          remember that GOD says in the quran that every beliver will be pleased with their reward in paradise!
          and, all your wishes will be fulfilled in paradise!
          what a great abode for the righteous

          yay

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            peace be upon you all,

            the descriptions of paradise are allegorical!, not literary...
            no reason to discuss this because only GOD knows what paradise is.
            just put your faith in GOD and trust Him.
            remember that GOD says in the quran that every beliver will be pleased with their reward in paradise!
            and, all your wishes will be fulfilled in paradise!
            what a great abode for the righteous

            yay

            Assalaam Alaikum

            Be you foremost (in seeking) Forgiveness from your Lord, and a Garden / Jannah, the width whereof is as the width of heaven and earth, prepared for those who believe in God and His apostles. that is the Grace of God, which He bestows on whom he pleases. and God is the Lord of Grace abounding.

            Paradise is in this world.....

            As to those who believe and work righteous deeds, they have, for their entertainment, the Gardens of Paradise / jannatu alfirdawsi,

            alfirdawsi fertile land, opulence, fruitful, prosperous

            For them are glad tidings, in the LIFE OF THE PRESENT and in the Hereafter; no change can there be in the words of Allah. This is indeed the supreme felicity.

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              belH
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              Salam
              I have seen several place that there will be houris(hours) which are extremely beautiful in Jannah..
              But it was never mentionned what will there be for women..
              If you could find anything about it please do tell me Inshah Allah

              Peace all
              There is nothing in Quran that shows rewards for Females, as were for Male (Hoor).
              Why is that?

              Because Humans, when entring Heaven or Hillfire will be Single Souls--The Male Soule and the Female Soul Will be Joined, as when first created (Adam Soul).

              (&#1633

              O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord Who created you from a single Soul; and from it (the Soul) He created his mate; and from them twain scattered (like seeds) countless men and women; fear Allah, through Whom ye demand your mutual (rights) and (reverence) the wombs (that bore you) for Allah ever watches over you.` (4-1)

              We will be resurrected as we were created, SINGLE SOUL

              (&#1639
              And when the souls are joined (81-7)

              (

              And your creation or your resurrection is in no wise but as an Single soul
              for Allah is He Who hears and sees (all things). (31-2

              Here are more verses

              (&#65279
              "And behold! ye come to Us Singls as We created you for the first time
              Ye have left behind you all (the favours) which We bestowed on you We see not with you your intercessors whom ye thought to be partners in your affairs so now all relations between you have been cut off, and your (pet) fancies have left you in the lurch!" (6-94)

              (&#65279
              And they will be marshalled before thy Lord in ranks, "Now have ye come to Us as We created you first
              aye, ye thought We shall not fulfil the appointment made to you to meet (Us)!" (18-4

              (&#65279
              The Day that we roll up the heavens like a scroll rolled up for books even as We produced the first Creation, so shall We return them (as they were before) a promise We have undertaken truly shall We fulfil it. (21-104)

              Can I conclude that Humans will not be Male and Female but one Complete Soul (not missing the Female Part or the Male Part) as was created in the beginning (the Creation of Adam Single Soul).
              If this is true, can we say that When God explained that Heaven ?In them will be (Maidens), chaste, restraining their glances, whom no man or Jinn before them has touched (55-56)? is because Humans (Male or Female) will be?.Males.

              In the following link, you will find my more details
              http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9596958.0

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                Peace all
                I would like to add

                the Two Souls will be, a Pair in a Single Body, as they were when creating ADAM. The Soul will be comfrtable as when were created.
                Now, can each Soul (Male and Female) in the one Body feels that they were rewarded due to their Good Deeds? Yes.
                But How? How can Soraya Nafs and "A" Nafs, if Soraya Nafs were to be joined by a Male Nafs that were named "A", enjoy or suffere in Heaven or Hellfire, in one Body? I can tell you that both will like, if in heaven, HOOR Eleain and the Jolman (The Kids); and in Hellfire, both will suffer the Fire.
                Salam

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                  Assalaam Alaikum

                  The FIRST and LAST Nature of human development is feminine

                  The term nafsin wahidtin / in Sura 4.1 & kanafsin wahidatin / in Sura 31.28 & an-nufoosu zuwwijat / in Sura 81.7 is all FEMININE.

                  The governance of the soul on the Day of Qiyamah is feminine!

                  Again, what will explain to you what the Day of Judgment is?

                  (It will be) THE DAY WHEN NO SOUL SHALL HAVE POWER (to do) aught for another / la tamliku nafsun linafsin . For the command, that Day, will be (wholly) with Allah.

                  tamliku (imperfect, 3rd person feminine, singular) to have power, authority, control
                  nafsun / nafsin (feminine) soul

                  I dont know where you got this statement or reference from "(55-56)? is because Humans (Male or Female) will be?.Males"

                  correction(s) sura 6.94 is mistranslation furada / meaning 'lonely state, alone, no companions' NOT 'Singls' as in a 'single soul'

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                    I dont know where you got this statement or reference from "(55-56)? is because Humans (Male or Female) will be?.Males"

                    Peace all
                    Hoor El3ean are Females

                    (&#65279 (&#65279 (&#65279

                    The verbs in red fonts can only be used for Females (Verse 55-56 and 5
                    And the ones who will be rewarded by females Cann't be Females.

                    Why cann't you accept that Our first Creation was Single Soul--ADAM--Male.
                    and if our last creation=First; Then it will= Male.
                    I hope you do not not think that Female is less than Male (By the way I love and like females more that Males), but God knows better when He decides.
                    Peace

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                      Peace all
                      Hoor El3ean are Females

                      (&#65279 (&#65279 (&#65279

                      The verbs in red fonts can only be used for Females (Verse 55-56 and 5
                      And the ones who will be rewarded by females Cann't be Females.

                      Why cann't you accept that Our first Creation was Single Soul--ADAM--Male.
                      and if our last creation=First; Then it will= Male.
                      I hope you do not not think that Female is less than Male (By the way I love and like females more that Males), but God knows better when He decides.
                      Peace

                      Assalaam Alaikum

                      uuh excuse me, but hoori / hoor / hooriayn is NOT in Sura 5556-58

                      Please clarify and illustrate your position cogently and succinctly

                      Secondly, I gave you the grammatical construct of the words, they are feminine, period. You cant change that, so accept it.

                      He created you (all) from a single essence / Nafsin Widatin. then created, of like nature, his mate; and he sent down for you eight genes / Al-'An`m in pairs. He makes you, in the wombs of your mothers, in stages, one after another, in three stages of development/ Khalqin F ?ulumtin Thalthin. such is Allah, your Lord and Cherisher. to Him belongs (all) dominion. There is no god but He. then how are you turned away (from your true Centre)?

                      Science has confirmed

                      The germ layers begin to form quite early in human embryonic development. The OUTERMOST LAYERS IS CALLED THE ECTODERM. The INNERMOST LAYER IS THE ENDODERM. BETWEEN THESE TWO GERM LAYERS LIES THE MESODERM. At first these three germ layers are more or less uniform. Soon they begin to take different characteristics. In each layers of embryo, tissues and organs begin to take shape. Every adult organ is identified with one of these three germ layers of darkness.

                      100% of the mtDNA contribution to a zygote is inherited from the mother and this is true for most, but not all, organisms. Thus when scientists wish to 'trace' human evolution they can use the DNA from females to trace humanities geographic origins!

                      All females are related by their DNA, because Allah created and developed the human being from ONE single essence, that essence is feminine.

                      Secondly, The gender of the foetus is determined by the feminine hormones 'bathing' the foetus in the womb.

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                        Peace all
                        Hoor El3ean are Females

                        (&#65279 (&#65279 (&#65279

                        The verbs in red fonts can only be used for Females (Verse 55-56 and 5
                        And the ones who will be rewarded by females Cann't be Females.

                        Why cann't you accept that Our first Creation was Single Soul--ADAM--Male.
                        and if our last creation=First; Then it will= Male.
                        I hope you do not not think that Female is less than Male (By the way I love and like females more that Males), but God knows better when He decides.
                        Peace

                        Belalhamd, that that first soul was male you are inventing it, it is not in the Quran. You only take one instance where feminine is used in connection with hoor and ignore all the others where it can be either male or female and you ignore the ayas where females and males will be rewarded equally. You also ignore that according to knowledge at hand, humans are females basically and tha later along their development there is something, I am not sure about the mechanism, whereby if it intervenes it modifies the basic nature to make them into male, and if it doesn't they stay females. Then you take ghulam and take it that they are made for males again, whereas following your logic if you take the hoor to be for males you should take the ghulam for the females. In fact I think you are taking the Quranic ayas and adapting them to your theory and not the opposite. I know you like this theory very much. But it is just your theory and may be Plato's. Sexuation is necessary in the dunya for reproduction. In the akhira no reproduction that they Quran mentions nor death, therefore sexuation is meaninglesse females, but as far as the Quran states all be will be simply inhabitants of janna. Your assertion that those who can be rewarded by females cannot be females springs from your belief, not confirmed by Quraan, that the reward will be sexual physical activity. If you apply that to the ghulam you will come also the conclusion that the ghulam cannot be for males, they must be for females.

                        Again there is this aya where it is plainly stated that in these descriptions a language is used that must not be taken to the dot, but that its meaning is as images to describe something which we now are not able to see, except that those who do much good may feel something akin, and that is spiritual, it is not the feeling of having fun with the wife or the husband, although that may also be an allegory of something in paradise, but not sexual flesh activity like the one you seem to think that should be meant.

                        As to your theory of joining the nafs, there is not hint of that in the Quran, because in the Quran what came from one nafs were finally many, many nafs. And as to be joined, it seems that those that in sha Allah will attin janna will indeed by joined by the deepest bond, all of them, the love of God without the earthly veil. Being male or female is just part of the trial in this world and of this stafe of our return to Him. It is not stated as a condition in janna nor does the Quran say that each male and each female will be joined in one inhabitant of janna nor can I see that the way you derive that conclusion is warranted by the Quran. But, of course, we all know very little and Allah knows best.

                        Salaam

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                          Peace all
                          I would like to add

                          the Two Souls will be, a Pair in a Single Body, as they were when creating ADAM. The Soul will be comfrtable as when were created.
                          Now, can each Soul (Male and Female) in the one Body feels that they were rewarded due to their Good Deeds? Yes.
                          But How? How can Soraya Nafs and "A" Nafs, if Soraya Nafs were to be joined by a Male Nafs that were named "A", enjoy or suffere in Heaven or Hellfire, in one Body? I can tell you that both will like, if in heaven, HOOR Eleain and the Jolman (The Kids); and in Hellfire, both will suffer the Fire.
                          Salam

                          Why not all souls in one body Baba Adam so we can escaped punishment, yay rotfl

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                            Belalhamd, that that first soul was male you are inventing it, it is not in the Quran. You only take one instance where feminine is used in connection with hoor and ignore all the others where it can be either male or female and you ignore the ayas where females and males will be rewarded equally. You also ignore that according to knowledge at hand, humans are females basically and tha later along their development there is something, I am not sure about the mechanism, whereby if it intervenes it modifies the basic nature to make them into male, and if it doesn't they stay females. Then you take ghulam and take it that they are made for males again, whereas following your logic if you take the hoor to be for males you should take the ghulam for the females. In fact I think you are taking the Quranic ayas and adapting them to your theory and not the opposite. I know you like this theory very much. But it is just your theory and may be Plato's. Sexuation is necessary in the dunya for reproduction. In the akhira no reproduction that they Quran mentions nor death, therefore sexuation is meaninglesse females, but as far as the Quran states all be will be simply inhabitants of janna. Your assertion that those who can be rewarded by females cannot be females springs from your belief, not confirmed by Quraan, that the reward will be sexual physical activity. If you apply that to the ghulam you will come also the conclusion that the ghulam cannot be for males, they must be for females.

                            Again there is this aya where it is plainly stated that in these descriptions a language is used that must not be taken to the dot, but that its meaning is as images to describe something which we now are not able to see, except that those who do much good may feel something akin, and that is spiritual, it is not the feeling of having fun with the wife or the husband, although that may also be an allegory of something in paradise, but not sexual flesh activity like the one you seem to think that should be meant.

                            As to your theory of joining the nafs, there is not hint of that in the Quran, because in the Quran what came from one nafs were finally many, many nafs. And as to be joined, it seems that those that in sha Allah will attin janna will indeed by joined by the deepest bond, all of them, the love of God without the earthly veil. Being male or female is just part of the trial in this world and of this stafe of our return to Him. It is not stated as a condition in janna nor does the Quran say that each male and each female will be joined in one inhabitant of janna nor can I see that the way you derive that conclusion is warranted by the Quran. But, of course, we all know very little and Allah knows best.

                            Salaam

                            Serving will be immortal youths with jeweled and crystal cups filled with the purest wine which will neither give them headache nor hangover, with fruits and meats of their desire. They will be fair ones with lovely intense eyes like guarded pearls; A reward for the good deeds of their past life.? (5617-24)
                            ?We have created mates for them and made them virgins, matched in age, for the companions of the right hand.? (5635-3

                            ?They will be chaste, restraining their eyes in modesty, never touched by man or Jinn."(5556)

                            ?Serving them will be immortal servants. When you see them, they will look like scattered pearls.? (7619)
                            Allah mentions "them" as being the believers, not just men. And the "houris" as companions, not women
                            And i forget that aya where it says that ...there they will live with their family. so where Belal theory came from elektro

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                              huruf
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                              Thanks Belal, but what you post does not seem to support your theory. As I read it, it is rather the opposite.

                              Salaam

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                                Peace all
                                I will not comment in my theory yet; but I will keep reading yours untill I come to my final comment; after all, it is still a hypotheses and not a proven theory.
                                And for Afridi, why do you keep changing your Flower color confused
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                                  Peace all
                                  I will not comment in my theory yet; but I will keep reading yours untill I come to my final comment; after all, it is still a hypotheses and not a proven theory.
                                  And for Afridi, why do you keep changing your Flower color confused
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                                  Cannot you see Allah in those flowers hmm

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                                    Peace all
                                    I will not comment in my theory yet; but I will keep reading yours untill I come to my final comment; after all, it is still a hypo't say theses and not a proven theory.
                                    And for Afridi, why do you keep changing your Flower color confused
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                                    Mind you, I don't blame you for having a theory. That is a way to go about studying things, an we all try to envision s plausibily as possible what we are not in a situation to know first hand. I wouldnt Say I have a theory. What I can envision now is the best I can come up with that satisfy my understanding. If that can be improved, I will take it. But our visions ar eall partial visions, still better than noghtin and if entertained in a spirit of improvement ans sincerity in sha Allah they will help.

                                    Salaam Belal

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                                      5617-18

                                      Immortal youths will wait upon them

                                      with goblets, and ewers, and cups filled with water from unsullied springs

                                      WILDAAN is both male and female from what I know... However, anyone with another view can reply to this.... So each one should get his due from this Ayah alone...

                                      However, if we want to be sure, we should try TO GET PARADISE... sun

                                      Peace

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                                        However, if we want to be sure, we should try TO GET PARADISE... sun

                                        Peace

                                        You must have got to the ultimte stimulous, curiosity, to have people want to get to paradise. Clever ... What are you? Boy or girl, WayFinder?
                                        hmm rotfl rotfl rotfl

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                                          Assalaam Alaikum

                                          Believers / Muminuun, these are 'similitudes' NOT to be taken literally. Lets use our intellect / aql that Allah,swt has blessed the Believers / Muminuun.

                                          Allah inspires and guides the soul of the Believers / Muminuun

                                          (To the righteous soul will be said.) "O Soul, in (complete) rest and satisfaction!

                                          Ya ayyatuha alnnafsu almutmainnatu

                                          Allah disdains not to use the similitude of things {Allah uses similitudes, comparisons, examples, models], lowest as well as highest. Those who believe know that it is truth from their Lord; but those who reject Faith say. "What does Allah mean by this similitude?" By it He causes many to stray, and many He leads into the right path; but He causes not to stray, except those who forsake (the path),-

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