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Poll for brothers only

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Questions/Comments on the Quran
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    mmkhan
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    Salaamun all,

    i thought it would be interesting to see how many guys had the courage to voice their opinion. Glad to know that atleast one is man enough to do so.

    Hmmmm hmm I can understand where you are coming from >D

    I did not vote, as I don't have any wife ( yet. And I do not have experience of keeping more than one at a time sun

    Khan

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      the_seeker
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      Peace all
      I would like to clarify why I'm arguing about this issue (Pylogamy).
      I know from Quran that God have clarified that Man is allowed to Marry four women (taking into consideration all the conditions).
      But Sadly, many Quran Aloners are arguing against it, and trying to ignore the Facts that Most of Prophets had done it.
      Thus, I'm trying to show that Psychologically Man is capable of marring four women; nevertheless, I'm not promoting nor encouraging Polygamy to Men or Myself, after all, Polygamy is not ordered upon Men to do (obligatory), but a choice if they can fulfill its conditions.

      I voted yes, taking into consideration my understanding of Man Love to Woman

      Male is to care for the Female (fulfill her psychological and bodily needs) and provide protection to here and her kids (prevent the psychological and bodily harms).

      Please be aware that many Males will be Chickened out from replying in writing &.

      "Their wives will slice them if they found out about their Inner Opinion rotfl
      Peace

      peace all

      i quite agree with the statement in pink... &

      ramon

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        Jasmin
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        Salaamun all,

        Hmmmm hmm I can understand where you are coming from >D

        I did not vote, as I don't have any wife ( yet. And I do not have experience of keeping more than one at a time sun

        Khan

        Hey! aren't you getting married soon? then you'll be able to vote ;D sun

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          mmkhan
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          Salaaman Jasmin,

          Hey! aren't you getting married soon? then you'll be able to vote ;D sun

          InshaAllah, inshaAllah... after getting married, I will be among voters ;D

          Khan

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            Jasmin
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            Salaaman Jasmin,

            InshaAllah, inshaAllah... after getting married, I will be among voters ;D

            Khan

            If your future wife is a member here then i'm sure she will be keeping a close eye on this thread to see what you have to say later on ;D

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              unknownuser
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              Peace all

              I voted "no". Because i don't think any man can love more than one woman. That would be false love or lust. True love in my opinion can only be for one woman, not two.

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                SubmitterToGOD
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                i replied no,

                i don't think one man can really have romantic love for more than one woman

                Peace peace

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                  mmkhan
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                  Salaaman Jasmin,

                  If your future wife is a member here then i'm sure she will be keeping a close eye on this thread to see what you have to say later on ;D

                  Oh yeah.. she is a member of this forum... she is a silent killer... Ooops! sorry sorry.. I mean, she is a silent member of this forum not active. What am I saying brickwall

                  Jasmin, are you planning to voodoo me? I hope she will not read this.

                  Khan

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                    Jasmin
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                    Salaaman Jasmin,

                    Oh yeah.. she is a member of this forum... she is a silent killer... Ooops! sorry sorry.. I mean, she is a silent member of this forum not active. What am I saying brickwall

                    Jasmin, are you planning to voodoo me? I hope she will not read this.

                    Khan

                    Omg! ;D you make me laugh!

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                      Jasmin
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                      i replied no,

                      i don't think one man can really have romantic love for more than one woman

                      Peace peace

                      Peace all

                      I voted "no". Because i don't think any man can love more than one woman. That would be false love or lust. True love in my opinion can only be for one woman, not two.

                      Finally! thank you God! hail

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                        the_seeker
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                        Omg! ;D you make me laugh! D

                        peace all

                        you are online sis? what time is there in your part of the world?

                        ramon

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                          Jasmin
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                          peace all

                          you are online sis? what time is there in your part of the world?

                          ramon

                          yep it's 730pm )

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                            the_seeker
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                            yep it's 730pm

                            alhamdulillah for the computer & internet...there is really no "bounds" anymore. it's close to fajr here in the philippines.

                            have a wonderful weekend to all...sorry for off-topic.

                            ramon

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                              Al_Araf
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                              salam. i read the title of the poll.

                              it says poll for brothers only.

                              it appears to me that some people i thought were sisters, or had female names, are posting in the thread.

                              something is wrong here.

                              allah is the truth.

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                                unknownuser
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                                salam. i read the title of the poll.

                                it says poll for brothers only.

                                it appears to me that some people i thought were sisters, or had female names, are posting in the thread.

                                something is wrong here.

                                allah is the truth.

                                Salam,

                                Do you think by stating the above it will allow you to avoid Jasmine and my questions or the fact that we pointed out your fallacy of reasoning.

                                Besides, even what you said above is lacking intellectual clarity the poll is for brothers. The forum is not !

                                Salam,
                                Arnab

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                                  Jasmin
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                                  salam. i read the title of the poll.

                                  it says poll for brothers only.

                                  it appears to me that some people i thought were sisters, or had female names, are posting in the thread.

                                  something is wrong here.

                                  allah is the truth.

                                  Somehow i feel this is directed at me
                                  It's a 'Poll' for brothers only, meaning only brothers can vote. As for the thread,anyone can comment, both male and female. Is that clear enough for you?

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                                    belH
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                                    Do you realize that for a man to take another wife it is based on a man's emotion? I would say emotions such as jealousy (for the wife nourishing her child), feelings of neglect (for the attention that the wife has to give to the child), and feelings of lust and love (for another woman),
                                    and revenge (revenge in the sense that the husband is lashing out at the woman for baring his child and then caring for said child since he feels neglected and jealous).

                                    Sounds like the man is more emotional than the woman who is fulfilling her natural duty.

                                    Salam,
                                    Arnab

                                    Peace Arnab
                                    Thank you for your input;
                                    In Your above statement, are you saying that all men have the same intentions (the ones I quoted above) when thinking about getting married to another woman? or you are referring only to Al Araf's Type of Men?

                                    salam. i read the title of the poll.

                                    it says poll for brothers only.

                                    it appears to me that some people i thought were sisters, or had female names, are posting in the thread.

                                    something is wrong here.

                                    allah is the truth.

                                    Peace Al Araf
                                    It is a Free-Minds Forum; moreover, Females are the ones who started that thread in order to know if Man are capable to Love more than one.
                                    My advice to you is to be more gentle with them; otherwise, they will Stone You To Death and cut you into peaces yes

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                                      Jasmin
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                                      My advice to you is to be more gentle with them; otherwise, they will Stone You To Death and cut you into peaces yes

                                      rotfl

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                                        unknownuser
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                                        Peace Arnab
                                        Thank you for your input;
                                        In Your above statement, are you saying that all men have the same intentions (the ones I quoted above) when thinking about getting married to another woman? or you are referring only to Al Araf's Type of Men?

                                        Salam Belh,
                                        Sorry for the confusion, that was a direct reply to Al Araf's statement and his reasoning. I did not mean all men of course.

                                        Salam,
                                        Arnab

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                                          belH
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                                          Salam Belh,
                                          Sorry for the confusion, that was a direct reply to Al Araf's statement and his reasoning. I did not mean all men of course.

                                          Salam,
                                          Arnab

                                          peace

                                          rotfl

                                          Jasmin, I think Al Araf Does not Like Your Avatar's Dress, and that is why he is not happy with you.

                                          Is it true Al Araf?

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