Marriage and muslim women?
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No such thing as equality, well there is but I reckon people drum it in too much.
People take on different roles, no biggie. What those roles are would depend on each relationship. people agree on different things, some might even rotate.
most women work nowadays yet men still expect wonder women, good luck guys! Some men can cook and prefer cooking, some don't. even some couples don't even cook for themselves! they got inlaws/family, restaurant food bla bla bla.
Everyone's mind is blocked on tradition i think
BTW not all people have children in a relationship, it's funny how people think.
I'd think if you cook, you cook for yourself and others. the way people put it is like a chore "cook for the wife".
I would have been very happy if I am allowed to stay at home and my wife goes out to earn. It will be an ideal situation for me.
Regardsyou lazy... haha kidding
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No such thing as equality, well there is but I reckon people drum it in too much.
People take on different roles, no biggie. What those roles are would depend on each relationship. people agree on different things, some might even rotate.
most women work nowadays yet men still expect wonder women, good luck guys! Some men can cook and prefer cooking, some don't. even some couples don't even cook for themselves! they got inlaws/family, restaurant food bla bla bla.
Everyone's mind is blocked on tradition i think P
BTW not all people have children in a relationship, it's funny how people think.
I'd think if you cook, you cook for yourself and others. the way people put it is like a chore "cook for the wife".
you lazy... haha kidding
peace
BTW what you suggest for a family
Husband + wife + two kidsSituation - A
Husband should go out for earning to run the house.
Wife should stay at home looking after the house and childrenSituation - B
Wife should go out for earning to run the house.
Husband should stay at home looking after the house and childrenWe are not talking about exceptional cases
Regards
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Dude I can?t give you a straight answer, every relationship differs there are too many variables and i ain?t talking exceptional cases. Ideally set roles have stability however they can still differ. They don?t have to be as concrete as ?you stay home cook clean, I work and make money?.
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exactly. Why should she be the one to make him coffee anyway? It's really easy to make, and he should make a cup for her too
so what is the point of having a wife then? wife should give respect and fulfil the needs of her husband.
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Like there are no women who believe in the sunnah of our beloved prophet Muhammad SAW. May you women get husbands who have coffee shops and you have to work their and make coffee all day long.
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Who said I'd have to work there?
says the husband.
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so what is the point of having a wife then? wife should give respect and fulfil the needs of her husband.
and what's the point of a husband?
Like there are no women who believe in the sunnah of our beloved prophet Muhammad SAW. May you women get husbands who have coffee shops and you have to work their and make coffee all day long.
We're waiting for you perfect men to lead the way.
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he can't make me do anything. it's his coffee shop - he can deal with it.
he is not making you do anything. its just that the beautiful polish girl that works on his coffee shop is on holidays. so your husband requested you to work and you agreed like a devote Muslim wife.... and your husband loves your work so much that he fired that polish girl, as you agreed to work permanently ... elhamdulillah.
thus spake the tyrant/pseudohusband
we don't have to think negative all the time. -*
and what's the point of a husband?
We're waiting for you perfect men to lead the way.
Muslim husbands also love their wives but when the wife is being unreasonable God has allowed us to hit you but the prophet has told us not to hit you on your face. the prophet has also told us "Treat women fairly. The woman was created from a bent rib. The most bent part of the rib is the top. If you want to straighten it, you will break it. If you left it, it will stay bent. So treat women fairly." so Muslim husband is very kind and generous towards all his wives... elhamdulillah.
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all his wives... elhamdulillah.
Wives?
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he is not making you do anything. its just that the beautiful polish girl that works on his coffee shop is on holidays. so your husband requested you to work and you agreed like a devote Muslim wife.... and your husband loves your work so much that he fired that polish girl, as you agreed to work permanently ... elhamdulillah.
we don't have to think negative all the time. -*
Muslim husbands also love their wives but when the wife is being unreasonable God has allowed us to hit you but the prophet has told us not to hit you on your face. the prophet has also told us "Treat women fairly. The woman was created from a bent rib. The most bent part of the rib is the top. If you want to straighten it, you will break it. If you left it, it will stay bent. So treat women fairly." so Muslim husband is very kind and generous towards all his wives... elhamdulillah.
rotflont scare these little girls they are searching for hubies who could polish their nails ;D
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he is not making you do anything. its just that the beautiful polish girl that works on his coffee shop is on holidays. so your husband requested you to work and you agreed like a devote Muslim wife.... and your husband loves your work so much that he fired that polish girl, as you agreed to work permanently ... elhamdulillah.
we don't have to think negative all the time. -*
Muslim husbands also love their wives but when the wife is being unreasonable God has allowed us to hit you but the prophet has told us not to hit you on your face. the prophet has also told us "Treat women fairly. The woman was created from a bent rib. The most bent part of the rib is the top. If you want to straighten it, you will break it. If you left it, it will stay bent. So treat women fairly." so Muslim husband is very kind and generous towards all his wives... elhamdulillah.
So it's ok to hit your wife? Sorry, not Me, I am totally against violence in a relationship and completely for equality.