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And the women reject you, so what do you do?

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    SarahY
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    No problem, you don?t need to accept my apology at least it?s a reminder for me to not let my opinions interfere. Though you should be aware that you?ve been judgemental.

    What i meant by rights were in matters of ethics.. i?m not sure what you meant

    though if she is a member here i?m sure she can read your thread.

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      FAR
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      No problem, you don?t need to accept my apology at least it?s a reminder for me to not let my opinions interfere. Though you should be aware that you?ve been judgemental.

      What i meant by rights were in matters of ethics.. i?m not sure what you meant

      though if she is a member here i?m sure she can read your thread.

      No it's not a reminder for you to not let your opinions interfere, but for your opinions to be more islamic, by the book. I don't know ethics, the quran is greater than that. And people learn ethics from the quran.

      She looked like she was just browsing this place for marriage offers. And no activity since 3rd march, I think I scared her off towards some next place.

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        unknownuser
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        Asalaamu 'alaykum
        FAR why don't you start by being honest about the what led up to ME saying that to you and also that was on PRIVATE MESSAGE only. How old are you? It feels like a high school tantrum honestly. Go ahead and hate women....they are not the problem....you are.....so fix yourself first and really try and figure out what so many women dislike you as you stated in the first message to me.
        Mehgan

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          unknownuser
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          Asalaamu 'alaykum,
          And the reason I told you not to contact me anymore was because I wish to chat with people not argue with them, there are too many things going on in this world that are much more serious and more important. I think it was incorrect of you to post my words, even though my name wasn't attached, you knew I was a member here and it just feels passive-aggressive. I came here to this site to find unity and maturity and I am having to deal with 8 year old child like behavior. Like I said go ahead and hate women if it makes you feel better....they are not the issue....it is yourself. Respond all you like, I'm done and closing my account on this site, I'm 35 years old and don't have time for this and this is definitely not what I seek to help me.
          Mehgan

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            Yosemite
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            she posted a video on how her dog died and she had issues with islam, and thus she had become an atheist... no hijab what not. Unfortunately her friend became secular and at issue with islam as well though considered herself a muslim.

            now she hates you because your a muslim?

            if i understand correctly, she decided to become atheist because she felt like god lied to her? Or maybe she just lied to herself because she thought god was somekind of big man in the skies going to help everyone with petty matters whatever they may be, and that a prayer or a magical sentance would protect what she loves?

            we would need more info to give an insightful answer, because by the sound of it she just went from orthodox mainstream wishful thinking islam to ahteism
            but that's just speculation

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              Asalaamu 'alaykum everyone,
              Just to clear some things up, there are two different women FAR is talking about.........the first post that started this whole thread that is wasting so much time and taking our focus off of what we really should be focusing on, Islam and each other in a positive manner, was a quote from me in a PRIVATE message that has now been made public......the other woman he is talking about being an atheist and with a dog who died is NOT me, I was raised Christian and reverted to Islam several years ago.
              For one final statement from me, I really showed a genuine interest in getting to know FAR but he made it completely impossible...see that is what he didn't post in there that I told him I truly wanted to know him without any judgments ahead of time. I wanted to give him a chance like everyone deserves. His post makes me look like I am some angry woman but that is far from who I am, but I also am not going to waste my time with someone who doesn't even realize they are just playing games and frustrating people.
              Jazak Allah khayr,
              Mehgan(Islah)

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                Yosemite
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                i see now this clarifies things up thanks

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                  FAR
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                  I see someone has arrived, unfortunately I'm forbidden (Quran 5811) from contacting her.

                  now she hates you because your a muslim?

                  if i understand correctly, she decided to become atheist because she felt like god lied to her? Or maybe she just lied to herself because she thought god was somekind of big man in the skies going to help everyone with petty matters whatever they may be, and that a prayer or a magical sentance would protect what she loves?

                  we would need more info to give an insightful answer, because by the sound of it she just went from orthodox mainstream wishful thinking islam to ahteism
                  but that's just speculation

                  She who?

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                    Yosemite
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                    the person that posted the youtube video

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                      FAR
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                      the person that posted the youtube video

                      No... that was a youtube personality, quite famous.

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