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Islamic Bill of rights for women in the bedroom

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    SarahY
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    What in Heaven or Earth matters more? Sure there are other factors but without love they are nothing.

    Maybe, everyone has their own priorities and preferences. i didn't say love is bad or should be non-existent. I could love someone who has a different direction than me, i wouldn't marry him. God is more important.

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      Maybe, everyone has their own priorities and preferences. i didn't say love is bad or should be non-existent. I could love someone who has a different direction than me, i wouldn't marry him. God is more important.

      Thank you for the advance warning handshake

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        FAR
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        I cannot comprehend polygamy. It isn't love. Can't say much more without ranting.

        Love is only with the god, not with women. May you women who don't know that never get love.

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          FAR
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          A believer is above those categories I think.. (2221) so I?d say similar beliefs comes before love. I don?t think love is just instant, I think it builds and grows. If there is attraction and you have similar direction, in my opinion love will grow and be there. but if love is the end and all, i wouldn't say that's wise.

          The verse you were talking about i think
          3021 (Asad) And among His wonders is this He creates for you mates out of your own kind. so that you might incline towards them, and He engenders love and tenderness between you in this, behold, there are messages indeed for people who think!

          i wouldn't base my choice solely on love. love is so overrated like as if nothing else matters.

          The term that love is used to refer to is infatuation and lust. Mostly godless. And most of the time they take their "love" partners replacing the god.

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            nsws1988
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            Love is only with the god, not with women. May you women who don't know that never get love.

            So you don't even love your own mother??

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              So you don't even love your own mother??

              I said what I said, I don't need to repeat what I said.

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                nsws1988
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                I said what I said, I don't need to repeat what I said.

                You don't love your mother.

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                  So you don't even love your own mother??

                  Love is exclusive to God only. with everything else is just a connection of familiarity.

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                    You don't love your mother.

                    Are you happy you had to get that off your chest?

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                      Love is exclusive to God only. with everything else is just a connection of familiarity.

                      So you love nothing but God? How do you know that you love God? Isn't the only evidence we have that we love God the evidence that we love others?

                      Is this part of the corruption in the New Testament?

                      You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.' "This is the great and foremost commandment. "And a second is like it, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets." ( Matthew 2237-40)

                      Aren't you being unnecessarily restrictive in saying you only love God? Surely your love for God manifests itself in a love for others?

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                        nsws1988
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                        Are you happy you had to get that off your chest?

                        Not really. It's up to you.

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                          FAR
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                          Not really. It's up to you.

                          No it's not up to me the questions you ask.

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                            nsws1988
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                            No it's not up to me the questions you ask.

                            I mean it's up to you whether you love your mother or not. I don't get any satisfaction from it.

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                              I mean it's up to you whether you love your mother or not. I don't get any satisfaction from it.

                              But did you get satisfaction from asking that question is what I said. Not satisfaction from the answer.

                              Tell me, who do you love? Who is your lover? Who do you thirst for?

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                                nsws1988
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                                But did you get satisfaction from asking that question is what I said. Not satisfaction from the answer.

                                Tell me, who do you love? Who is your lover? Who do you thirst for?

                                Peace

                                No I didn't. I just wanted to understand what you meant by love. I assumed you were only referring to romantic love.

                                I love God first for reasons that I cannot even count.
                                Romantically, I love my fiance because he is a good person and treats me well.
                                I don't see anything wrong with love. It can lead you to do good things. You just need to be careful about placing them before God and sinning for them.

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                                  FAR
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                                  Peace

                                  No I didn't. I just wanted to understand what you meant by love. I assumed you were only referring to romantic love.

                                  I love God first for reasons that I cannot even count.
                                  Romantically, I love my fiance because he is a good person and treats me well.
                                  I don't see anything wrong with love. It can lead you to do good things. You just need to be careful about placing them before God and sinning for them.

                                  Mashallah

                                  Assalam, the peace.

                                  I wasn't just referring to romantic love, since for me allah is always involved with my romantic endeavors.
                                  I love allah and so does she love allah with me, and try to make mention of that at all times.
                                  I consider much wrong with love when I see that I hadn't been given any.
                                  Inshallah your fiance treats you as so as the god wills and shows you how to love the god.

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                                    nsws1988
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                                    Mashallah

                                    Assalam, the peace.

                                    I wasn't just referring to romantic love, since for me allah is always involved with my romantic endeavors.
                                    I love allah and so does she love allah with me, and try to make mention of that at all times.
                                    I consider much wrong with love when I see that I hadn't been given any.
                                    Inshallah your fiance treats you as so as the god wills and shows you how to love the god.

                                    Peace
                                    Never give up on love. Inshallah you'll be blessed with those who love you and who you will love back pr

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                                      Wootah
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                                      I mean it's up to you whether you love your mother or not. I don't get any satisfaction from it.

                                      That made me very sad. I hope your children come to love you.

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                                        afridi220
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                                        That made me very sad. I hope your children come to love you.

                                        You mean grand childrens hmm

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                                          FAR
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                                          Peace
                                          Never give up on love. Inshallah you'll be blessed with those who love you and who you will love back pr

                                          Ameen.

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