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Islamic Bill of rights for women in the bedroom

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    FAR
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    You don't love your mother.

    Are you happy you had to get that off your chest?

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      Wootah
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      Love is exclusive to God only. with everything else is just a connection of familiarity.

      So you love nothing but God? How do you know that you love God? Isn't the only evidence we have that we love God the evidence that we love others?

      Is this part of the corruption in the New Testament?

      You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.' "This is the great and foremost commandment. "And a second is like it, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets." ( Matthew 2237-40)

      Aren't you being unnecessarily restrictive in saying you only love God? Surely your love for God manifests itself in a love for others?

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        nsws1988
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        Are you happy you had to get that off your chest?

        Not really. It's up to you.

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          FAR
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          Not really. It's up to you.

          No it's not up to me the questions you ask.

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            nsws1988
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            No it's not up to me the questions you ask.

            I mean it's up to you whether you love your mother or not. I don't get any satisfaction from it.

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              FAR
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              I mean it's up to you whether you love your mother or not. I don't get any satisfaction from it.

              But did you get satisfaction from asking that question is what I said. Not satisfaction from the answer.

              Tell me, who do you love? Who is your lover? Who do you thirst for?

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                nsws1988
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                But did you get satisfaction from asking that question is what I said. Not satisfaction from the answer.

                Tell me, who do you love? Who is your lover? Who do you thirst for?

                Peace

                No I didn't. I just wanted to understand what you meant by love. I assumed you were only referring to romantic love.

                I love God first for reasons that I cannot even count.
                Romantically, I love my fiance because he is a good person and treats me well.
                I don't see anything wrong with love. It can lead you to do good things. You just need to be careful about placing them before God and sinning for them.

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                  Peace

                  No I didn't. I just wanted to understand what you meant by love. I assumed you were only referring to romantic love.

                  I love God first for reasons that I cannot even count.
                  Romantically, I love my fiance because he is a good person and treats me well.
                  I don't see anything wrong with love. It can lead you to do good things. You just need to be careful about placing them before God and sinning for them.

                  Mashallah

                  Assalam, the peace.

                  I wasn't just referring to romantic love, since for me allah is always involved with my romantic endeavors.
                  I love allah and so does she love allah with me, and try to make mention of that at all times.
                  I consider much wrong with love when I see that I hadn't been given any.
                  Inshallah your fiance treats you as so as the god wills and shows you how to love the god.

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                    nsws1988
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                    Mashallah

                    Assalam, the peace.

                    I wasn't just referring to romantic love, since for me allah is always involved with my romantic endeavors.
                    I love allah and so does she love allah with me, and try to make mention of that at all times.
                    I consider much wrong with love when I see that I hadn't been given any.
                    Inshallah your fiance treats you as so as the god wills and shows you how to love the god.

                    Peace
                    Never give up on love. Inshallah you'll be blessed with those who love you and who you will love back pr

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                      Wootah
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                      I mean it's up to you whether you love your mother or not. I don't get any satisfaction from it.

                      That made me very sad. I hope your children come to love you.

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                        That made me very sad. I hope your children come to love you.

                        You mean grand childrens hmm

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                          FAR
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                          Peace
                          Never give up on love. Inshallah you'll be blessed with those who love you and who you will love back pr

                          Ameen.

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                            FAR
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                            That made me very sad. I hope your children come to love you.

                            No she meant she didn't get satisfaction from whether if I loved my mother or not.

                            Inshallah as long as us who are to be parents keep hold of our children and not give our responsibilities upon them to others, they will love us.

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                              seattletruth
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                              Salaam..
                              Now since ISLAM is a womens religion why do we have to post a womens bill of rights unless rights are not being respected. It seems a bit unbalanced to me.. The Quran gives us our woman rights so why should/do we have to talk about, remind or post about islamic bill of rights for women in the bedroom and a second one for the Masjid? I feel bad for my friend who is stuck in a oppresive marriage with a polygamous husband on whom she does not want to admit or accept is a polygamist. Im in between a rock and a hard place trying to be her friend if she is not trying to hear the truth.

                              Wow, you sound like a real busy body.

                              She doesn't think he's cheating (or has another wife), you don't have any proof whatsoever, but instead you try to get involved in her life and worry about her problems.

                              Because he has a job that YOU don't approve of, you think she needs an intervention to leave her husband.... whatever

                              You should really mind your own business, and help her out if she comes to you for help.

                              Peace.

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                                Alen
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                                Islam isn't a women's religion but for both men and women equally, because that's what they are - equal. But hadiths convey otherwise. That women are to always obey their husbands.

                                Peace,
                                Respect.

                                Yes, that's right.
                                I say we start openly saying that sunnah and hadith are not from the prophet, that's what i'm doing, Thank God and so far, women agree with me, Thank God. I think women would agree that we need to separate those hadith by Bukhary from The Best hadith - The Quran.

                                Women have more rights and are truly equal to men, if they only had access to The Quran without imams and scholars bothering them. I'm tlaking about the women in Middle East, God knows best.

                                I hope that revolution is not far.

                                Peace.

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                                  rahenijaat1
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                                  Salam and Peace!

                                  A man is incomplete without a woman.
                                  A woman is incomplete without a man.

                                  Man is a supplement to the woman.
                                  Woman is a supplement to the man.

                                  When they come together and supplement each other, they bear fruit.

                                  A wife is also a life-partner.
                                  Your life-partner is not your mother, father, brother, sister, daughter, or anyone else,----but the woman you marry.

                                  She is your better half. She is your life-partner. She is your supplement.
                                  She is your wife.

                                  And most importantly,---she is absolutely equal to you in status, importance, witness, iman, deeds, etc.

                                  There was one thing in the beginning. Allah made it two. One is man. The other one is woman.

                                  According to Al-Quran
                                  Man and woman are equal.-----Companions!
                                  A husband is a servant to his wife, and a wife is obedient to her husband.
                                  No one is a master.
                                  One is servant, and the other is obedient.

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                                    akrams
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                                    ''salamun'' alaikum. sure al baqra.2/222. 2/223. sure waqeya 56/58.59

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