Asking a woman in secrecy
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Why bother get involved into giving advice here?
Surely, he must have other places to go for advice within his family, friends, community etc, and if not, why come on this Forum and ask? You cannot be that lonely surely.
They both seem to be as bad as each other by not telling the parents.
Anyway, why create such an issue, get married to the girl. Period. Or does he want the blessings and go ahead from Free Minds because everyone else has lost their way? ;D
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He already mentioned why he's having problems telling his parents.
If he wants advice or just to discuss the issue, he's welcome anytime. -
well, I don't know where do you come from and where did you take your lessons in english ?
I am English and from Englandis there any verse I interpret ? there is a difference between giving your opinion about what you have studied and interpret a verse . strange .
only when its you giving the opinion, when its anyone else its wrong
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I am English and from England
rotfl
doesn't mean you don't need english lessons! P
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Surely, he must have other places to go for advice within his family, friends, community etc, and if not, why come on this Forum and ask? You cannot be that lonely surely.
as lonely as you, me and the rest of the posters here? (
Im with nsws1988, he can ask for advice, moan, write his thoughs, whatever hes welcome.
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as lonely as you, me and the rest of the posters here? (
Im with nsws1988, he can ask for advice, moan, write his thoughs, whatever hes welcome.
Thats what I like about this forum! bravo
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I do English lessons, I teach them, you are welcome to join ;D
wow, you are teacher? respect hail
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he already made a mistake, and she (the girls) also made the same mistake, so he must ask forgiveness and she must do it too, and then he tell his parents that he wants a girl , then they will visit the parents of the girl and they will propose marriage to her and she will accept and then thing fixed that if this marriage succeed.
You are right Mutawa 9 hail
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But, Ayisha. I don't come on here asking for advice on my relationship with my spouse or potential spouse or trying to verify the right way because I have decided to cut myself off from the majority of Muslims around the world therefore cannot go to a more learned person for advice.
You may discuss your personal issues here but not me.
How about setting up a blog for his thoughts, moans, gripes and what nots. Or even diarise it.
Anyway keep up the advice.
Peace
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I am English and from England
that's make it worse / because as I see you don't even know the difference between word and another word.
only when its you giving the opinion, when its anyone else its wrong
You gave your opinion by interpreting the verse, and I didn't do that .
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You are right Mutawa 9 hail
what's your point ? get straight !!
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Thereformer1 - Do you need to go off-topic on every single thread you 'contribute' to?
Zulu12 - You might not ask for advice here but some people do. There's nothing wrong with that. If anyone needs advice or just someone to talk to then I'm happy to help.
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But, Ayisha. I don't come on here asking for advice on my relationship with my spouse or potential spouse or trying to verify the right way because I have decided to cut myself off from the majority of Muslims around the world therefore cannot go to a more learned person for advice.
You may discuss your personal issues here but not me.
I think there is a note of personal dislike from you towards the poster because of his beliefs? this is a FREE MINDS forum for like minded people which you seem to object to. Not everyone is like you, or me, or reformer (Alhamdulillah) and we are here to discuss things regarding Quran, the poster brought up a question regarding Quran which involved his relationship. Now maybe you have been Muslim since your daddy winked at your mommy but maybe the OP hasnt. Please try for a little compassion towards those that are different in mind, looks, age and ideas to you, you are not perfect even if you are a man.How about setting up a blog for his thoughts, moans, gripes and what nots. Or even diarise it.
Now why couldnt you come up with that at the beginning instead of trying to belittle another human being?
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Thereformer1 - Do you need to go off-topic on every single thread you 'contribute' to?
No, but you can say this post to the other member not me .
Zulu12 - You might not ask for advice here but some people do. There's nothing wrong with that. If anyone needs advice or just someone to talk to then I'm happy to help.
You have to be in a position to give an advice especially in religion of Islam.
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I think there is a note of personal dislike from you towards the poster because of his beliefs? this is a FREE MINDS forum for like minded people which you seem to object to. Not everyone is like you, or me, or reformer (Alhamdulillah)
oh, that shows that there is a place of me in your heart rotfl
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Dear Ayisha
Once again, you're getting your tongue twisted. There is absolutely no dislike from me towards the questioner in the slightest.
I personally do not think this Forum is the appropriate medium for advice on a matter regarding the 'right' way to get married especially for someone who has feelings for another and wants to move forward and 'tie the knot'. I could be wrong, but hey, that's my view.
Peace