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A dislike of children?

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    nsws1988
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    http//i196.photobucket.com/albums/aa210/jaythikay99/em_muslim_beard.jpg

    What is that??

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      unknownuser
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      What is that??

      a smile, can't you see?

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        FAR
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        What is that??

        Your grown baby (the husband).

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          nsws1988
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          Your grown baby (the husband).

          I don't have a husband confused

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            FAR
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            I don't have a husband confused

            (Potential inshallah)

            Anyway, I believe the key word to anti-childrenism is the concept of depopulation.

            Compare the population reduction page

            http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Population_reduction

            With the overpopulation page

            http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overpopulation

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              afridi220
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              I don't have a husband confused

              Huru up get one now before you become too old '(

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                liquiddharma
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                People who are anti-children have been brainwashed by materialism. They prefer the company of cats and inanimate objects which can only lead to them growing old miserable, lonely and bitter. Children remind us of the important things in life - that happiness comes from helping other people, not accumulating money, cars, holidays. The cycle of life rejuvenates our souls and brings us closer to God and happiness.

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                  Leyna
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                  Please! Some people simply prefer not to have children ... nothing to do with being brainwashed, hating kids, or preferring to accumulate money. We're all different, there's no need to bash people who chose a lifestyle different from our own.
                  nope

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                    unknownuser
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                    Please! Some people simply prefer not to have children

                    yea, i've seen many couples (unmarried) who simply don't want to have children.

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                      liquiddharma
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                      Please! Some people simply prefer not to have children ... nothing to do with being brainwashed, hating kids, or preferring to accumulate money. We're all different, there's no need to bash people who chose a lifestyle different from our own.
                      nope

                      Children are human beings though, and the kind of hostility to them as shown in the article really isn't acceptable. Would you be okay with it if they displayed that hatred towards a different race? Demanding an end to their tax money being spent on black people, or complaining about having to hear foreign accents at work?

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                        FAR
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                        Huru up get one now before you become too old '(

                        Give her some money, and she will have one.

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                          Please! Some people simply prefer not to have children ... nothing to do with being brainwashed, hating kids, or preferring to accumulate money. We're all different, there's no need to bash people who chose a lifestyle different from our own.
                          nope

                          No one doesn't prefer not having children. It's not human to not desire children.

                          Then again it's probably a mentality thing. Only children don't desire sexual relationships and children. Quran 46... many who would not desire children, would be tried as not marriageable.

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                            Madhoshi04
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                            Please! Some people simply prefer not to have children ... nothing to do with being brainwashed, hating kids, or preferring to accumulate money. We're all different, there's no need to bash people who chose a lifestyle different from our own.
                            nope

                            Well Said. Also consider

                            828, 764, 3437 5720, 639

                            639 O you who believe, do not be distracted by your money and your
                            children from the remembrance of God. And those who do this,
                            then they are the losers.

                            3437 And it is not your money or your children that will bring you
                            closer to Us, but only those who believe and do good work, they
                            will receive double the reward for their works, and they will
                            reside in the high dwellings in peace

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                              FAR
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                              Well Said. Also consider

                              828, 764, 3437 5720, 639

                              639 O you who believe, do not be distracted by your money and your
                              children from the remembrance of God. And those who do this,
                              then they are the losers.

                              3437 And it is not your money or your children that will bring you
                              closer to Us, but only those who believe and do good work, they
                              will receive double the reward for their works, and they will
                              reside in the high dwellings in peace

                              1672 And the god has given you mates of your own kinds and has given you, through your mates, children and children's children, and has provided for you sustenance out of the good things of life. Will men, then, believe in things false and vain, and thus blaspheme against the god's blessings?

                              http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_sRMZ4fpco

                              http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=u1W4wv4K8rM

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                                Leyna
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                                I did not say that what is being described in the article is in any way acceptable. My post was referring to some of the comments on here.

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                                  I did not say that what is being described in the article is in any way acceptable. My post was referring to some of the comments on here.

                                  How can people not prefer to have children if they aren't brainwashed or pre-occupied with running after money, or willfully preventing the birth of a child?

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                                    Leyna
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                                    In an exhaustive -- and exhausting -- book on motherhood, anthropologist Sara Blaffer Hrdy breaks some big news There is no such thing as maternal instinct

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                                      afridi220
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                                      Give her some money, and she will have one.

                                      Why not if she ask for

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                                        In an exhaustive -- and exhausting -- book on motherhood, anthropologist Sara Blaffer Hrdy breaks some big news There is no such thing as maternal instinct

                                        Mate... these people are pulling your tail! Most of the time the women who kill their own children is because it was pushed upon them by their society. Surely you know what I'm talking about?

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                                          Madhoshi04
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                                          How can people not prefer to have children if they aren't brainwashed or pre-occupied with running after money, or willfully preventing the birth of a child?

                                          Simply because all devotion should be to God. Anything that distracts you including children you should avoid. Is there a law that mandates reproducing? Most people do it since everyone else does or due to hormones. It's an experience you CHOSE for yourself, God willing, of course. Why do you equate the desire not to have children to running after money? When in fact, the Quran mentions children and wealth together in many verses referring both to as objects of distraction

                                          See 310, 3116, 955,969,3435,3437,5720,5817,6030,639,6414,6415,7011,7121

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