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Dear brothers and sisters - I will be gone for a long period of time...

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    MUNZIR_ALI
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    Dear brothers and sisters

    I have decided to focus totally on my dreams. I have to make some big changes in my life if I want to succeed. I will be gone for a long period of time. I might be gone for 1 year, 2 years or perhaps even more. I am going to miss you all, especially the long term members (those of you who have been in the forum for more than one year). I truly mean that from the bottom of my heart.I thank you for your friendship and the support you gave me. I have the emails of some of you. Hopefully we can keep in touch.

    I have enjoyed reading your posts and learned many things from you. Just like everyone of you I am a student of life. Every day I strive to get better than yesterday. And everyday I try to do my best to get more knowledge. I have realized that I know almost nothing when it comes to the wonders of the earth and the universe. I believe that "Learning is a never ending journey."

    If I ever said anything that offended any of you, or hurted you, forgive me for my mistakes. I believe that it's human to make mistakes. And I am not a perfect, nor will I ever be. But I will try to do my best. Because that's the only way I can become the person I wanna be. Even dough I have achieved some of the things I wanted to achieve, this is just the beginning.

    I want you to know that you are the most open-minded and good-hearted people I have ever talked to. "If you have a dream don't wait for some distant day to come."

    http//www.phnet.fi/public/mamaa1/if_you_have_a_dream.htm

    You have unknown potential inside of you. You have the power to reach unbelievable heights.

    "If you put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything."

    I will continue to walk in the path of Islam, if God wills.

    I hope I will see you again in the future.

    Peace and Love
    David.

    Goodbye Pal! handshake

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      Prince
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      Best wishes and all the best in your journey. I enjoyed reading your posts while you were here. Maybe we shall see you again on here God willing.

      PEACE BE WITH U peace

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        AlFajr
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        Peace brother David,
        You have been a good member in this forum and a good person to know. I hope that this is not the last that we see of you.

        Take care and I hope you can achieve your goals.

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          afridi220
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          On Behalf of free minds

          I CAN'T SAY GOODBYE TO YOU

          You say it would be better
          If we stopped seeing each other
          If you had only met me first
          When you were free
          'Cause now you've got commitment
          I should not expect things from you
          That you can't give to me
          Oh, but baby, can't you see

          I can't say goodbye to you
          No matter how I tried
          You're such a part of me
          Without you, I would die
          Deep, in the heart of me
          I know that you and I
          Were meant to be be together
          I can't tell you goodbye

          Neither of us planned
          That we would fall in love this way
          But since we did
          Why should we be apart
          Sometimes, some things happen
          That can never be explained
          Now, it's too late for me
          I've already given you my heart

          I can't say goodbye to you
          No matter how I tried
          you're such a part of me
          Without you, I would die
          Deep, in the heart of me
          I know that you and I
          Were meant to be be together
          I can't tell you goodbye

          Who knows why we choose
          When we choose the ones we love
          Who knows why we do the things
          We do when we're in love
          I know that you're a decent man
          And you try to do what's best
          But how can I forget
          All the feelings we have shared

          I can't say goodbye to you
          No matter how I tried
          You're such a part of me
          Without you, I would die
          Deep, in the heart of me
          I know that you and I
          Were meant to be be together
          I can't tell you goodbye

          (You and I were meant to be, forever)
          I can't tell you goodbye........

          peace

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            Joe_Betik
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            salam david,

            you did not tell us what you have planned to do apart from the vague "to focus totally on my dreams".

            my guess (pardon me please) is you have planned for a solitude ("I will be gone for a long period of time. I might be gone for 1 year, 2 years or perhaps even more.&quot, no matter how much demanding the word "gone" is on the imagination.

            in our experience, we need such a phase in life, i.e. a break to take a look at what we were just now, to evaluate and reform ourselves as and when necessary. we couldn't agree with you more when you said "I have to make some big changes in my life if I want to succeed."

            our practice must conform with the theories we hold to be the truth. both must walk hand-in-hand. and whatever we are today is the 'akhirat'/end of what our theories and routines were. if we were not happy with what we were just now, then we need to have a tweak in the theories and a change of routines before we could even dream of a change of future.

            routine (darr) is the instrument of change, the one without which no alteration happens. so nothing will improve without a reform of ways (AAamila salihan). oftentimes, a break of routines (diyar) is required. otherwise we remain the person of yesterday.

            therefore we are more than happy (with a tinge of jealousy though) for your brave decision. our prayers are always with you indeed, and may God guide you on the correct path, insha-Allah.

            peace
            mohammed noh

            p.s
            but, we just thought that a period 1 or 2 years is too long for such a good-hearted and brave person like you. it will just be months, we hope. insha-Allah.

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              Rana
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              Gosh I didn't expect this when I came back to the forum...it sounds like you are either going on a physical journey or as someone else mentioned, planning for solitude. Whatever following your dreams means I wish you the very best - may Allah keep you safe and guide you always. peace

              @ afridi220 cute. hehe

              @ Jack people on here may well focus on the negative but don't worry, people everywhere are doing that lol. I think it's actually better here! laugh

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                huruf
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                Whatever it is youhave in mind, brother, may God bless you, and may your stay with us be a blessing for us all even after you live. Thanks for warning and have our warmest "fare well". In sha Allah you may come back and bring us good news.

                Salaam

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                  Fahad1
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                  Salaam David.

                  I wish you speedy success in your goals. So hoping to see you again soon.

                  And thanks for the PM!

                  Salaam.

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                    unknownuser
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                    Salam...

                    I have changed my mind. I decided to come back to the forum. I realized that my dreams were too impractical, so I can not achieve them yet. I have to wait until the future. Because then, I will hopefully have more time and recources to achieve them. But I have not given up. I am just taking a break from idealism.

                    Ohh, by the way. Even dough I didn't achieve any of my dreams, I achieved one of my goals. I got a job that I love. A job that is in alignment with my values, my abilities and my interests.

                    I have missed this forum. And I am glad to be back.

                    Peace and Respect,
                    David.

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                      Prince
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                      Salam...

                      I have changed my mind. I decided to come back to the forum. I realized that my dreams were too impractical, so I can not achieve them yet. I have to wait until the future. Because then, I will hopefully have more time and recources to achieve them. But I have not given up. I am just taking a break from idealism.

                      Ohh, by the way. Even dough I didn't achieve any of my dreams, I achieved one of my goals. I got a job that I love. A job that is in alignment with my values, my abilities and my interests.

                      I have missed this forum. And I am glad to be back.

                      Peace and Respect,
                      David.

                      Good to see you back!!

                      PEACE

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                        unknownuser
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                        Good to see you back!!

                        PEACE

                        Thanks brother. Good to see you too )

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                          nsws1988
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                          I knew you'd come crawling back. You just couldn't resist could you? I bet you cried yourself to sleep each night because you missed us that much hehe JK Welcome back bro! I'm glad you're back and that you've achieved one of your dreams.

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                            unknownuser
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                            Peace nsws )

                            I knew you'd come to this thread. You just couldn't resist me could you? I bet you cried yourself to sleep each night because you missed me that much hehe. Just kidding. Nah, I don't miss boring people Like I said I missed the forum. I just missed the forum. You know, the colors and aesthetics of this forum ;D Didn't you know that I am a materialist hiding in islamic garment? Lol. Maybe I would have missed you all if you bought me a plane ticket to Miami. I deserve a vacation ;D

                            Okey, to be honest I missed you all. But only a little

                            I hope you are satisfied now nsws. So, do you wanna buy me a ticket? hehe.

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                              unknownuser
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                              JK Welcome back bro! I'm glad you're back and that you've achieved one of your dreams.

                              Thanks sis )

                              I achieved one of my goals.

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                                AlFajr
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                                Thanks sis

                                I achieved one of my goals.

                                Glad to hear. Welcome back bro

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                                  unknownuser
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                                  Glad to hear. Welcome back bro )

                                  Thanks bro )

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                                    SarahY
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                                    I had a feeling you'd miss us, we're all just so awesome

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                                      nsws1988
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                                      Peace nsws )

                                      I knew you'd come to this thread. You just couldn't resist me could you? I bet you cried yourself to sleep each night because you missed me that much

                                      Do you blame me! I'll buy you a ticket if you buy me a ticket. It's too cold here

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                                        TAJ
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                                        Good to see you back, and congratulation on the new job. bravo

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                                          unknownuser
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                                          Good to see you back, and congratulation on the new job. bravo

                                          Thanks

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