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Salamou alikoum
I'm not sure if it's haram because in the following verse in the Quran it states that we should guard our private parts except for our mates. However, I don't understand this part " or those whom their right hands possess". Those that mean it is aloud to masturbate?
The Qur'an, chapter 23 (Al-Muminun), verse 5 to 7
? ?And who guard their private parts, Except before their mates or those whom their right hands possess, for they surely are not blameable, But whoever seeks to go beyond that, these are they that exceed the limits;" -
Salamou alikoum
I'm not sure if it's haram because in the following verse in the Quran it states that we should guard our private parts except for our mates. However, I don't understand this part " or those whom their right hands possess". Those that mean it is aloud to masturbate?
The Qur'an, chapter 23 (Al-Muminun), verse 5 to 7
And who guard their private parts, Except before their mates or those whom their right hands possess, for they surely are not blameable, But whoever seeks to go beyond that, these are they that exceed the limits;"Guarding doesn't mean that you cannot look at it or play with it lmao... rotfl You should guard it against OTHERS, not yourself, its your body, as Meteora once said, if to guard means that way cant i wash it? dirty penis. You can be naked as long as there is nobody to see you, masturbating and other self-play with your body isn't exceeding the limit.
p.s right hand posses means a slave( must not be of your sex)
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This is Meteora's awesome post ;D
There's not even a single "sahih" hadith that states this. Some sunnis conclude that because Muhammad advised adolescents to fast when they're horny, masturbation falls in the category of forbidden things. This is not true, and I can mention a lot of instances where they don't use this kind of logic. For example Allah telling us to pay alms on the day of harvest/day you get your paycheck but the sunnis have made it once a year. Had they utilized the same logic then giving alms on any day other than when you get your wealth falls in the category of forbidden things, and it's also forbidden not to give alms on the day of harvest anyway.
Others hold the opinion that it is not haram as long as you are doing it to avoid what's definitely haram and that's sex with someone other than your wife.
Ok...isn't this why muslim men masturbate? Why else would you masturbate if you didn't have a hot woman living in your house? Duh. nope
Most also, not surprisingly misuse the verse telling you who you can have sex with. They think "masturbation" falls in the category of "wara-a zalika" (more than this). What they fail to comprehend is that the verse before it is talking about "gaurding your private parts" and how can you "ungaurd" it by touching or stroking it? You can't gaurd your genitals from yourself. You have to rub it clean in the shower and so on. By gaurding your private part from yourself you'd have one dirty penis.
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Not to be offensive but I find this funny. rotfl
Others hold the opinion that it is not haram as long as you are doing it to avoid what's definitely haram and that's sex with someone other than your wife.
Ok...isn't this why muslim men masturbate? Why else would you masturbate if you didn't have a hot woman living in your house? Duh. nope
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As a married man I will tell you that almost all married men still masturbate even with a woman in their house. Men tend to have urges far more often than women or at times when women can't have sex or are not available.
Is masturbation haram? I would say it is only haram if you masturbate AND not wash your hands afterwards. This would be disgusting for the rest of the population to shake a man's hand that wasn't cleaned after masturbating. yuck
Just my deranged thoughts.
JewishDude
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Not to be offensive but I find this funny. rotfl
As a married man I will tell you that almost all married men still masturbate even with a woman in their house. Men tend to have urges far more often than women or at times when women can't have sex or are not available.
Is masturbation haram? I would say it is only haram if you masturbate AND not wash your hands afterwards. This would be disgusting for the rest of the population to shake a man's hand that wasn't cleaned after masturbating. yuck
Just my deranged thoughts.
JewishDude
peace Salam, Shalom, Peach peaceI found this funny
Meteora "There's not even a single "sahih" hadith that states this. Some sunnis conclude that because Muhammad advised adolescents to fast when they're horny,"
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However, I don't understand this part " or those whom their right hands possess". Those that mean it is aloud to masturbate?
Uh oh! If one is a lefty is he damned to hell or "self-celibacy" for eternity. rotfl rotfl rotfl
Ok seriously before this thread is trashed; if it is not explicitly forbidden, then we as humans cannot forbid it. Please see
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Is it haram to masturbate?
Peace Mouad;
"Say My Lord has only prohibited indecencies, those of them that are apparent as well as those that are concealed..."
Qur'an 733
Obviously only do it when you really need to. If one's faith and remembrance is strong enough to quell all but the more potent urges, that is good. When you do so, you should do it for the sole purpose of release and not for enjoyment. Perhaps if you are married and you think just of your wife... Anyway there is no punishment against it (just like alcohol, it is between the person and Allah (SWT)).
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Peace Mouad;
"Say My Lord has only prohibited indecencies, those of them that are apparent as well as those that are concealed..."
Qur'an 733
Obviously only do it when you really need to. If one's faith and remembrance is strong enough to quell all but the more potent urges, that is good. When you do so, you should do it for the sole purpose of release and not for enjoyment. Perhaps if you are married and you think just of your wife... Anyway there is no punishment against it (just like alcohol, it is between the person and Allah (SWT)).
Thinking ISNT Haram, nor masturbating, nor masturbating while thinking for someone you're not married to, you dont get accounted for what you think, and you can also do it for enjoyment, no where in Quran it tells us to never do anything enjoyable.
example thinking of sex with someone you're not married to while masturbating, even if you're doing it for enjoyment isn't haram, as long as it wasn't your intention to do what you thought If you could do that thing but you was just thinking Ahh, what if... would be amazing if it wasn't haram ( and i could do it).
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exegetical masturbation beware ...
(hey what's that search button for again?)
rotfl dw youll get your memory back in a while laugh
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Thinking ISNT Haram, nor masturbating, nor masturbating while thinking for someone you're not married to, you dont get accounted for what you think, and you can also do it for enjoyment, no where in Quran it tells us to never do anything enjoyable.
example thinking of sex with someone you're not married to while masturbating, even if you're doing it for enjoyment isn't haram, as long as it wasn't your intention to do what you thought If you could do that thing but you was just thinking Ahh, what if... would be amazing if it wasn't haram ( and i could do it).
"Whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth is Allah's; and whether you manifest what is in your minds or hide it, Allah will call you to account according to it; then He will forgive whom He pleases and chastise whom He pleases, and Allah has power over all things."
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"Whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth is Allah's; and whether you manifest what is in your minds or hide it, Allah will call you to account according to it; then He will forgive whom He pleases and chastise whom He pleases, and Allah has power over all things."
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That doesn't mean thinking is haram, im not sure which verse but when i read the Quran one day i saw that after Muhammad's ummah told him that they will go to hell because they can't keep their thinking, an ayah came down that made thinking unaccountable, you don't get accounted for what you think, that verse ment like if you've done a haram(with actions not thinking) and kept it in your mind and you hided it from others, you will still be accounted for it because you cannot hide from Allah.
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That doesn't mean thinking is haram, im not sure which verse but when i read the Quran one day i saw that after Muhammad's ummah told him that they will go to hell because they can't keep their thinking, an ayah came down that made thinking unaccountable, you don't get accounted for what you think, that verse ment like if you've done a haram(with actions not thinking) and kept it in your mind and you hided it from others, you will still be accounted for it because you cannot hide from Allah.
You are perhaps thinking of verse 2286?
Regardless, the thought is a part of the masturbation, and as a whole it is a deed (because you let yourself think it and encourage yourself via volunteering the act). The companions of the Prophet (SAW) were not worrying about their thoughts during this act were they? In essence you would be giving yourself the desire, and arguably the thought itself (prohibited or not) is what would make the act "lewd".
Finally, we should not judge by ahadith. Find the verse if you can.
AllahHafiz
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I should ask this
What is the acceptable limit of masturbation per day/week/month etc. according to your understanding (considering that you may think of anyone)? I provided my own.
"Surely Allah will make those who believe and do good enter gardens beneath which rivers flow; and those who disbelieve enjoy themselves and eat as the beasts eat, and the fire is their abode."
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Anyway peace.
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I should ask this
What is the acceptable limit of masturbation per day/week/month etc. according to your understanding (considering that you may think of anyone)? I provided my own.
"Surely Allah will make those who believe and do good enter gardens beneath which rivers flow; and those who disbelieve enjoy themselves and eat as the beasts eat, and the fire is their abode."
4712
Anyway peace.
Once in two weeks or more if you can't keep your desires.