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Arab author claims that 4:34 really means "BEAT THEM'

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    Tony
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    Salam all,

    http//www.faithfreedom.org/Articles/ArabChristian30907.htm

    This Arab speaking Christian insists that 434 really means to beat our wives.

    What can you comment on this article?

    Peace

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      unknownuser
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      Peace be upon you,

      The word is "seperate" as if you STRIKE someting in the middle, it seperates.

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        TAJ
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        Salaam Tony,

        What do you want to believe?

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          zenje
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          What do you want to believe?

          Nice! D (We know what the Arab/Christian wants it to be!)

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            Peace
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            Peace,
            I think it all comes down to the command that we follow the best of interpretations. ?The ones who listen to what is being said, and then follow the best of it. These are the ones whom God has guided, and these are the ones who possess intelligence.? (Quran 391

            The author of that article obviously wants to push his agenda forward by translating the word as 'beat'. In my opinion the BEST interpretation is to separate from them.

            Peace

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              Zlatan
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              Peace all

              In my humble knowledge inspite of maybe not being totaly correct this is an excelent and very insightfull(!!!) article exposing many of the stupidities promoted by free-minders.
              Let us learn from it and not blindly reject it or oppose to it...

              I would particularly turned attention of the members of this site to the fact that the different meanings of verbs (which some free-minders in their ignorance of arabic use indiscriminately as they found them in some non-precise dics. or in imprecise quotations from the precise dics.)are often highly dependant of the prepositions used with them and applicable exclusively when the appropriate or corresponding preposition is used.... (see comment of the egyptian kafir)

              Best wishes, Zlatan

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                Grourself
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                Peace,

                When the God ?dharaba? a ?mathal? is He actually hitting or striking it?

                Grammar won't teach this, common sense will. Dictionaries and Arabs do not explain a word, the Qur'aan does. The meanings are mutashabih (37), similar/consistent, a word which does not mean allegorical or figurative or metaphorical.

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                  drfazl
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                  Beat It !

                  Salam all,
                  This Arab speaking Christian insists that 434 really means to beat our wives. What can you comment on this article?
                  Peace

                  " Man " is a shade above in degree in Wisdom over women.
                  Use your Wisdom to Beat your wives' Ignorance.
                  Fear Allah!

                  May Al Hakim, The Wisdomful Bless us
                  drfazl

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                    unknownuser
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                    Salaam,

                    If 434 is literal beat then after getting her back up so much try to reconcile as in v 35. Sometimes we concentrate too much on the verse on its own we forget the context. A disbeliever would want it to be "beat" as in hit. And of course the misogynist...

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                      khalil
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                      Peace Ash Shuura, all

                      We cannot see the forest through the trees. If Verse 434 is addressing us to beat our wives then what would 2231 be asking us?

                      And if you have divorced the women, and they have reached their required interim period, then either you remain together equitably, or part ways equitably. And do not reconcile with them so you can harm them out of animosity; whoever does so is doing wickedness to his soul; and do not take God?s revelations lightly.And remember God?s blessings towards you, and what was sent down to you of the Scripture and the wisdom, He warns you with it. And be aware of God and know that God is Knowledgeable in all things. (2231)

                      Dictionary.com definitions

                      Equitably

                      1. Marked by or having equity; just and impartial. See Synonyms at fair.

                      Animosity

                      1. Bitter hostility or open enmity; active hatred.
                      2. A hostile feeling or act. See Synonyms at enmity.

                      pz

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                        warda
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                        Salam all,

                        I was just yesterday sitting over this vers quite a long time thinking it over again and again. Now I open free-minds. and find this debate here... !

                        As far as I know the word "dharab" really means hit, beat. And in all translations I found the word was translated like this.
                        According to H. Wehr dharab is to beat hit, shoot, bombard, ......I found nothing like "seperate".
                        The free-minds. translations for dharab "seperated" would be in arabic "fassl", no?

                        We also have to see the word "nushus". They are to beat when they commited "nushus". Now what is "nushus"?
                        According to H. Wehr it is Antipathie, refractoriness,rebelliosness, offend against marital duties (Sex), revolting, resisting

                        All this confuses me a lot. Are men said from God to beat their wifes? I can`t believe it.

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                          mquran
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                          Salaamun alaikum,

                          Linguistics aside, can we look at CONTEXT? 4/35 is talking about terms of SEPERATION. Where did this seperation come from if adribuhunna in 4/34 didnt refer to it ?

                          Some Arab Christians have shown thier hatred in various chatrooms. I woudlnt accept any information from them.

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                            Grourself
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                            Peace,

                            Wakas, men also nushus are they beat? If you continue to review all the uses of this word and dharaba it will clear up a lot of things including "beat them" and the miracle of hitting a rock and hitting the sea. It requires some pondering for sure. We should remember that the God is teaching us how He uses these words, no guessing and no switching back and forwards between meanings.

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                              el-Aziz
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                              This guy's hilarious!
                              Explaining dialect arabic using the grammar and meaning of its literal translation in english. Not bad!

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                                Grourself
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                                Sorry my post was addressed to warda (

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                                  burhan
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                                  Dear All,

                                  The english "separate" happens to be the perfect multiple meaning verb for the multiple meaning arabic verb "DaRaBa".

                                  In the quran this verb is used as follows

                                  Arabic usage "to explain/to site an example"
                                  English separate -> disentangle -> make clear -> explain

                                  Arabic usage "to travel"
                                  English
                                  separate -> go away -> depart -> travel

                                  Arabic usage "to hit"
                                  separate -> intersect -> join/cross -> touch -> hit.

                                  The word intersect can mean to divide or join depending on the context, very similiar to daraba.

                                  Let the context determine what 434 means.

                                  For example are you being told "what to hit" (head, back) and "what to hit with" (your shoe, hand).

                                  Peace.

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                                    Wakas
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                                    peace All,

                                    Nice comments brother Burhan.

                                    This topic has been discussed in depth previously. Whoever is interested in this topic should read the previous stuff.

                                    The possible meanings of Daad-Ra-Ba are extensive, and include 'separate' in the QD and Lane.

                                    Wakas

                                    All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                      warda
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                                      Salam all of you,

                                      What is QD? and is Lane found online?

                                      I looked up my fat (german) dictionary again and found "dh-r-b" with the preposition "`an" means "to turn away" .... OH; HERE IT IS...
                                      I found it seperate. I was really wondering why it is mentioned in your books but not in mine....
                                      oops

                                      Now I`m wondering why all translations translate it with to beat,hit. I looked at seven (german) translations all of them translate with to beat, some add "a soft hit" or "without degrading her" ...

                                      By the way this site mentioned above faithfreedom.org is really an ugly one!

                                      Salam idea

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                                        wildguest1956
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                                        peace All,

                                        Peace wakas,

                                        Nice comments brother Burhan.

                                        This topic has been discussed in depth previously. Whoever is interested in this topic should read the previous stuff.

                                        see http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=877

                                        The possible meanings of Daad-Ra-Ba are extensive, and include 'separate' in the QD and Lane.

                                        Wakas

                                        Could you copy what QD and Lane say proving daraba = separate ?

                                        Thanks

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                                          warda
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                                          see http//www.free-minds.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=877

                                          yeah, this link really helps a lot to everybody who wants to know more about this very important issue. I was just several days ago attacked from a non muslim referring to this Aya.

                                          warda

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