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Marriage to a Sunni, I need advice

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    Israfeel
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    Peace all.
    Where is this information? I genuinely would like to know where this has come from? Israfeel could you please give me either a verse from the book of Allah Al Qur'an or one of your Sahih Sittah.

    ?And give not (your daughters) in marriage to AlMushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone)?

    ?And give not (your daughters) in marriage to AlMushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone)?

    These verses of the Quran make it clear that Muslim women are forbidden from marrying non-Muslim men. Hadith-rejectors are declared as unbelievers and outside the circle of Islam because of their rejection of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. Allah in the Quran says

    Say "Obey Allah and His Messenger (peace be upon him) But if they turn back, Allah loves not the disbelievers" (Sura 333)

    Since Hadith-rejectors refuse to obey the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) they are disbelievers, and it is forbidden for Believers to marry with them.

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      Wakas
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      Israfeel,

      Please see the forum rules, especially (2) and (3)
      http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8177.0

      Bold emphasis mine

      Hadith-rejectors are declared as unbelievers and outside the circle of Islam because of their rejection of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. Allah in the Quran says

      Say "Obey Allah and His Messenger (peace be upon him) But if they turn back, Allah loves not the disbelievers" (Sura 333)

      Since Hadith-rejectors refuse to obey the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) they are disbelievers, and it is forbidden for Believers to marry with them.

      1. Please show where in Quran it is declared "hadith-rejectors are unbelievers and outside the circle of Islam"
      2. Please show where forum members (ideally a few of us) clearly state they reject prophet Muhammad.
      3. Please show where forum members (ideally a few of us) clearly state they refuse to obey the Messenger of Allah.

      If you cannot, and you need to correct/clarify your statements, then I suggest you do so.

      All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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        Israfeel
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        Israfeel,

        Please see the forum rules, especially (2) and (3)
        http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8177.0

        Bold emphasis mine

        1. Please show where in Quran it is declared "hadith-rejectors are unbelievers and outside the circle of Islam"
        2. Please show where forum members (ideally a few of us) clearly state they reject prophet Muhammad.
        3. Please show where forum members (ideally a few of us) clearly state they refuse to obey the Messenger of Allah.

        If you cannot, and you need to correct/clarify your statements, then I suggest you do so.

        Im at work right now. Give me some time when I'm free.

        *The short answer is that since Hadith-rejectors reject the authentically reported Hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him, therefore they refuse to obey his sayings and teachings, therefore they are disbelievers from the perspective of orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims.

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          hawk99
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          Im at work right now. Give me some time when I'm free.

          *The short answer is that since Hadith-rejectors reject the authentically reported Hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him, therefore they refuse to obey his sayings and teachings, therefore they are disbelievers from the perspective of orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims.

          Your short answer is not from Quran. nope

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            Israfeel
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            Your short answer is not from Quran. nope

            Why should it be? Quran is not the only revelation from Allah.

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              diamantinehoneybunch
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              Im at work right now. Give me some time when I'm free.

              *The short answer is that since Hadith-rejectors reject the authentically reported Hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him, therefore they refuse to obey his sayings and teachings, therefore they are disbelievers from the perspective of orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims.

              Salaam,

              Verse 425 clearly prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum but some narrations attributed to Muhammad say that Muhammad had sex with Mariyyah his Coptic slave during Hafsa's turn at Hafsa's house.

              Regards,
              Yuliana

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                hawk99
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                Why should it be? Quran is not the only revelation from Allah.

                What other revelations are you referring to?

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                  Bender
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                  Im at work right now. Give me some time when I'm free.

                  *The short answer is that since Hadith-rejectors reject the authentically reported Hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him, therefore they refuse to obey his sayings and teachings, therefore they are disbelievers from the perspective of orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims.

                  Salaamun alayka,

                  RED thank you, that is a nice an honest answer.

                  Can you answer me these 3 questions please

                  Who is going to judge you and me?
                  A) Allah
                  B) orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims

                  Who is going to judge the orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims?
                  A) Allah
                  B) themselves

                  What is the ONLY judgement that counts?
                  A) Allah's judgement
                  B) orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims judgement

                  Salaam,
                  Bender

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                    Noon_waalqalami
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                    ?And give not (your daughters) in marriage to AlMushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone)?

                    ?And give not (your daughters) in marriage to AlMushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone)?

                    Peace,

                    Translation posted is horrid; there's no "give" or "daughters" in verse and address is to males and females.

                    2221 and not marry yeh the idolaters (f/p) until believes and surely handmaiden believer (f/s) better from idolatress and supposing like her you and not marry yeh the idolaters (m/p) until believe they and servant (m/s) believer better from idolater and supposing liked you him surely those calling to the fire and the god invites to the garden/paradise and the forgiveness by permission his and makes clear signs his to the humankind perhaps they those remembering

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                      Israfeel
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                      Salaam,

                      Verse 425 clearly prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum but some narrations attributed to Muhammad say that Muhammad had sex with Mariyyah his Coptic slave during Hafsa's turn at Hafsa's house.

                      Regards,
                      Yuliana

                      If only you read the Quran you would have seen this verse

                      O Prophet! We have made lawful to thee thy wives to whom thou hast paid their dowers; and those whom thy right hand possesses (3350)

                      and

                      It is not lawful for thee (to marry more) women after this, nor to change them for (other) wives, even though their beauty attract thee, except any thy right hand should possess (3352)

                      and

                      And those who guard their chastity. Except with their wives and whom their right hands possess,- for (then) they are not to be blamed, (7030)

                      Also, 425 never prohibits having sex with right-hand possessions, on the contrary it says

                      If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess

                      See how Hadith-rejecters even lie about the Quran?? God forbid

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                        Israfeel
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                        Peace,

                        Translation posted is horrid; there's no "give" or "daughters" in verse and address is to males and females.

                        2221 and not marry yeh the idolaters (f/p) until believes and surely handmaiden believer (f/s) better from idolatress and supposing like her you and not marry yeh the idolaters (m/p) until believe they and servant (m/s) believer better from idolater and supposing liked you him surely those calling to the fire and the god invites to the garden/paradise and the forgiveness by permission his and makes clear signs his to the humankind perhaps they those remembering

                        You call the widespread published academic translation I posted as "horrid", but your own personal internet translation is so jumbled and confused that I have no idea what it says or means. What irony!

                        Before you decide to start translating the Quran into English, at least study basic English grammar LOL

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                          diamantinehoneybunch
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                          If only you read the Quran you would have is verse

                          O Prophet! We have made lawful to thee thy wives to whom thou hast paid their dowers; and those whom thy right hand possesses (3350)

                          and

                          It is not lawful for thee (to marry more) women after this, nor to change them for (other) wives, even though their beauty attract thee, except any thy right hand should possess (3352)

                          and

                          And those who guard their chastity. Except with their wives and whom their right hands possess,- for (then) they are not to be blamed, (7030)

                          Also, 425 never prohibits having sex with right-hand possessions, on the contrary it says

                          If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess

                          See how Hadith-rejecters even lie about the Quran?? God forbid

                          Lie about Quran?
                          Are you out of your mind?

                          It is proven in verse 425 that God prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum / women whom the men's right hnd posses.
                          What I meant by the post was nowhere in the Qur'an did it say men are allowed to commit illegal sex with their right hand possess (sorry I forgot to say women whom their right hand possess whom are not married to them).

                          Are you saying that men are allowed to have sex with their slaves, servants, maidens and whom their right hand possess without even marrying them?

                          I have never said that men are not allowed to marry ma malakat aymanukum. You misunderstood my post.
                          SIGH

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                            Israfeel
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                            Lie about Quran?
                            Are you out of your mind?

                            It is proven in verse 425 that God prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum / women whom the men's right hnd posses.
                            What I meant by the post was nowhere in the Qur'an did it say men are allowed to commit illegal sex with their right hand possess (sorry I forgot to say women whom their right hand possess whom are not married to them).

                            Are you saying that men are allowed to have sex with their slaves, servants, maidens and whom their right hand possess without even marrying them?

                            I have never said that men are not allowed to marry ma malakat aymanukum. You misunderstood my post.
                            SIGH

                            So what is the difference between an ordinary wife and "ma malakat aymanukum" ??

                            Looking forward to your enlightening answer

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                              diamantinehoneybunch
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                              So what is the difference between an ordinary wife and "ma malakat aymanukum" ??

                              Looking forward to your enlightening answer

                              All ma malakat aymanukum are ordinary wives?
                              Then why are some verses say to MARRY ma malakat aymanukum if they are already wives?

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                                Noon_waalqalami
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                                You call the widespread published academic translation I posted as "horrid", but your own personal internet translation is so jumbled and confused that I have no idea what it says or means. What irony!

                                Before you decide to start translating the Quran into English, at least study basic English grammar LOL

                                Widespread by and for the ignorant!

                                2221
                                And not marry you the idolater females until believe...
                                And not marry you the idolater males until believe they.

                                Why can?t you comprehend basic stuff?

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