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Is Qur'an Alone the Last Step Before Leaving Islam Completely?

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    savage_carrot
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    Oh my goodness, talk about jumping to conclusions!!! When did I say ANYTHING of the sort? Why do you guys get so defensive all the time? I can't even ask reasonable questions without you getting angsty.
    And I'm the one getting accused of creating straw men!
    Yes, you've never mentioned or even implied anything of the sort even repeatedly. We're all just crazy. Cool. And well done?

    The axe that's being grinded is the immense issues you guys have with anything you consider 'traditional Islam' and the paraonoia is that anything that you consider challenges your beliefs is some kind of 'traditional conspiracy'.

    With regards to megalomania, I don't think it's anything personal against me, I think it's anyone who may be perceived as espousing a traditional viewpoint.

    I honestly thought these threads I was creating would have me seen as an Atheist rather than a traditional but that just goes to show how things are perceived here.
    Who are 'you guys'? I'm pretty live and let live myself. There's only one bringing the paranoia, and it's pretty evident to most if not you. All they have to do is read the thread. Atheist? Traditional? Look all I wanted was to discuss frickin' communes and you didn't even give me that. That's considered excessive cruelty.

    Seriously, guys calm down. It's clear that I've hit a nerve to warrant these kinds of personal attacks in the last couple of days. Who said you were evil? I never even thought that about either of you. I have told you why I believe you react the way you do. Can't you see the way you've both pincered against me? Wow
    Lol calm down? Personal attacks? It's...astounding that you can play it like this when everything is kinda written down...? Did I say you said I was evil? Wakas I'm not sure of though, he may be with his whole food plant based diet. I don't like repeating myself but for your benefit...why can't you just discuss stuff as users, it's pretty common for two mods to respond to one thread, particularly when it's regarding the forum, it's happened countless times in the past without people losing their heads thinking they're out to get someone. So, yeah, really, chill with the hysterics? Kk?

    Maybe I've answered a few of my own questions today
    I've always wanted to do that.

    Please excuse me now while I run off to inform my Sunni friends on wahabiforever.net that stage one of operation bring down Free-Minds is complete - MWAHAHAAAH!

    I'll get you Quran aloners! And your little dog too! >D >D >D
    I'm a cat person. I'll even help you get that dog.

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      Osman
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      Yes, you've never mentioned or even implied anything of the sort even repeatedly. We're all just crazy. Cool. And well done?Who are 'you guys'? I'm pretty live and let live myself. There's only one bringing the paranoia, and it's pretty evident to most if not you. All they have to do is read the thread. Atheist? Traditional? Look all I wanted was to discuss frickin' communes and you didn't even give me that. That's considered excessive cruelty.Lol calm down? Personal attacks? It's...astounding that you can play it like this when everything is kinda written down...? Did I say you said I was evil? Wakas I'm not sure of though, he may be with his whole food plant based diet. I don't like repeating myself but for your benefit...why can't you just discuss stuff as users, it's pretty common for two mods to respond to one thread, particularly when it's regarding the forum, it's happened countless times in the past without people losing their heads thinking they're out to get someone. So, yeah, really, chill with the hysterics? Kk? I've always wanted to do that.I'm a cat person. I'll even help you get that dog.

      Yes I am indeed a cruel and ruthless individual for not letting you discuss communes )

      Stop playing dumb, 'traditional' has been slapped about at the drop of a hat.

      And you guys (mods) are anything but 'live and let live' when it comes to most Muslims in the world.

      You've behaved much worse than Wakas savage_carrot, and you jump to conlcusions all the time it's ridiculous. Take this thread for instance, do you want me to dredge up every time you've made faulty inferences?

      You like cats over dogs eh? Sounds like a 'traditional' to me - burn her! Witch! Witch! ;D

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        savage_carrot
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        And the venom just keeps dripping. 'Wow'.

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          Osman
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          Darn, it looks like my conspiracy to spread traditional muslim lies around this forum has failed '(...looks like it's time for phase 2

          https//s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/b7/cb/db/b7cbdba9c123da7f9baab6fda2ab9f58.gif

          FLY MY PRETTIES! FLY! AAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA! > > >

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            huruf
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            Osman,I cannot rad the whole lot of nonasnwers inthis exchange, but I am sure of something, either you do not know the Qur'an nor are interested at all in what it does say and what it does not say or you are getting some satisfaction from utting it down nd disfigure it.

            A pity.

            Salaam

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              Osman
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              Osman,I cannot rad the whole lot of nonasnwers inthis exchange, but I am sure of something, either you do not know the Qur'an nor are interested at all in what it does say and what it does not say or you are getting some satisfaction from utting it down nd disfigure it.

              So I'm 'putting it down' by taking the verse around chopping hands of thieves literally and saying the Qur'an detests homosexuality?

              http//30.media.tumblr.com/e2f57c656019882327212b53b32cb612/tumblr_musdmpZ5Lz1spo3yuo1_500.gif

              Of course - I must be the unreasonable one here in the cult of Free-Minds.

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                huruf
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                Poor thing.

                Salaam

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                  Osman
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                  Poor thing.

                  Salaam

                  Thank you for pitying me huruf - I need it! '( '( '(

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                    huruf
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                    sun sun sun sun

                    salaam

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                      Osman
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                      https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgA0SlpUVLY

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                        JavaLatte
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                        Perhaps this thread needs a bomb to be even more festive!!

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                          Osman
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                          Perhaps this thread needs a bomb to be even more festive!!

                          http//emoticoner.com/files/emoticons/crazy-monkey/crazy-monkey-emoticon-109.gif?1292792408

                          Bombs? You sound like a traditional JavaLatte!

                          I suppose we better get back on topic - someome messaged me a few weeks back telling me about the various places some former members had gone to - I understand one does have a Quran alone facebook group that they maintain.

                          Obviously not everyone is going to make a dramatic one-time exit and many will just trail off but are there any farewell threads around where we can exactly what people have said their reasons are?

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                            huruf
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                            I don't think there is such a hread. Usually when peole go away and say something do so individually aand the reason they give ar also very diverse.

                            On the other hand it is normal that people come and go. Tis like a village market place. People go there to exchange. Sometimes they find some times do not, or partially, so they water somewhere elso or they do it at home.

                            And then sometimes, new markets open somewhere else...

                            Life is movement and nothing is forever not even the bad things.

                            Salaam

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                              SarahY
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                              Salam,

                              The answer to your question is that it might be a potential path but it is not a conclusive last step.

                              perhaps the problem is in a misguided belief that by throwing away the Hadith we will all be headed on the same path in the same direction and at the same point in the road and hence be some enlightened group

                              Perhaps you are right, where did you come up with such a belief?

                              Discord has existed for a very long time, ever read debates between scholars of the same faith/creed/jurisprudence? Confusion is natural until you are enlightened with certainty, facts and knowledge.

                              I know many people who used to frequent this forum are now probably no longer Muslims by their own considerations

                              I guess it's difficult to digest that many people you know are "probably" not muslim but funnily our lives are not in a bubble of one or a few forums. it's true our life experiences help shape our understandings of the world but it is by no means a fact that if some have come across a certain path that it would potentially lead to a last step of leaving Islam.

                              I'm confident and comfortable in my ways/belief because of what I have read, researched and discovered.

                              Do you feel scared you might leave Islam because of your beliefs in Quran?

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                                Osman
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                                Peace SarahY

                                The answer to your question is that it might be a potential path but it is not a conclusive last step.

                                Yes, absolutely.

                                I guess it's difficult to digest that many people you know are "probably" not muslim but funnily our lives are not in a bubble of one or a few forums. it's true our life experiences help shape our understandings of the world but it is by no means a fact that if some have come across a certain path that it would potentially lead to a last step of leaving Islam.

                                The reason I'm mentioning this is because I left just after there was a crisis in the forum, there was an Egyptian guy called Ahmed Bahgat who created a rival website and he had a gang who left and started their own forum and I remember there were a few, particularly Western converts, who were having massive issues which started by being caught between a debate going on with the Mods and the aforementioned gang. So unfortunately there weren't any resolutions at that time and a lot of divisions.

                                A couple longstanders here have been overly defensive and have come to the conclusion I'm trying to find holes or something, the point of my post was to investigate root causes of people leaving and see if these can be addressed in order for Free-Minds to reach a critical mass and acheive the thing many people here have been posting about - that being creating a true Qur'an alone movement that doesn't just exist in cyberspace.

                                Do you feel scared you might leave Islam because of your beliefs in Quran?

                                Now THAT is a very good question indeed )

                                I wouldn't say scared, as I mentioned to the original poster in the "Can some one help me out of this extreme frustration" thread, so long as you're confident with yourself the reasons why you've gone about something and you know deep down you're at a position for a good reason then I don't think fear should play a part.

                                I'm quite secular anyway and borderline agnostic to begin with so the 'actively taking part in religion' criteria doesn't apply to me so the fear aspect wouldn't be present.

                                I don't think anyone who leaves Islam is scared about it on a spiritual level. There may be a situation of fear and doubt just before the phase of leaving when the thoughts of hell and damnation loom, but if they're on the road to apostasy and they read something or do some research to make them come to the final conclusion of 'It nothing but tales of the ancients', this will be the final straw that pushes them in their decision and by that point they will no longer be believing in hell etc and the fear aspect will go.

                                I definitely think that in many cases with people who have taken an active interest in religion, there will be a characteristic 'crisis' phase which is followed either by leaving the belief system that they find irreconcilable behind or go back into that belief system once their issue(s) has been resolved.

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                                  good_logic
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                                  Javalette, do you mean the thread needs fireworks?

                                  They have been going on for a week where I am! Fireworks that is.

                                  Osman, ( I will go back on topic) . I never felt entering or leaving any religion or sect or... All my life.

                                  I have always felt going on a journey through dabbling with Christianity, looking into traditional Islam and so forth.

                                  To me, I am simply travelling towards wherever I should be. I feel the constant factor in all this is GOD . I have always felt a pull towards my creator. It is like following a sent/trail...etc.

                                  Funny,but my enthusiasm now is fiercer and stronger than it has ever been. I am eager and more than willing to carry on this crazy routine of constantly searching ,studying,looking,... Where do I get the energy from,, I keep asking myself,but I do want to keep on going and going. Strange!

                                  GOD bless you.
                                  Peace.

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                                    dawngorgeous
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                                    Certainly it is the first step to leaving the Islam that most of the world know as Islam...and the first step to finding the Islam that only a handful of people know about.
                                    Peace.

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                                      Osman
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                                      Javalette, do you mean the thread needs fireworks?

                                      They have been going on for a week where I am! Fireworks that is.

                                      Then you must be in the UK too?

                                      Osman, ( I will go back on topic) . I never felt entering or leaving any religion or sect or... All my life.

                                      I have always felt going on a journey through dabbling with Christianity, looking into traditional Islam and so forth.

                                      To me, I am simply travelling towards wherever I should be. I feel the constant factor in all this is GOD . I have always felt a pull towards my creator. It is like following a sent/trail...etc.

                                      Funny,but my enthusiasm now is fiercer and stronger than it has ever been. I am eager and more than willing to carry on this crazy routine of constantly searching ,studying,looking,... Where do I get the energy from,, I keep asking myself,but I do want to keep on going and going. Strange!

                                      GOD bless you.
                                      Peace.

                                      And I think that's why for people who see it like yourself will never be afraid so long as you're confident all the choices you make are for the right reasons. As someone said in the thread earlier, we're all at different stages of our journey.

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                                        JavaLatte
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                                        Bombs? You sound like a traditional JavaLatte!

                                        Well, I don't want to follow sunna, but I also don't want to become secular.

                                        I want to follow the path that ALLAH taught/teaches me. )

                                        Javalette, do you mean the thread needs fireworks?

                                        Hehe, I think fireworks would be nice to replace that bomb! P

                                        http//emoticoner.com/files/emoticons/crazy-monkey/crazy-monkey-emoticon-112.gif?1292792408

                                        They have been going on for a week where I am! Fireworks that is.

                                        Whether your place is celebrating something?

                                        Peace.

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                                          Osman
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                                          Whether your place is celebrating something?

                                          Well as a matter of fact JavaLatte it was Guy Fawkes night in the UK - this is a celebration of the time they thwarted those damn Catholic Terrorists who were tring to bomb the houses of parliament.

                                          It's always the Catholic terrorists. Must just be something about that religion in particular...

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