How sex before Marriage is not haram (prohibited) according to the Quran
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To marry or have sex with a married woman is not allowed excep she becomes a slave. Two words can be used for a thing.
I'm not sure what you mean. Are you suggesting that MMA has two meanings?
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Take your time to study Q3350-52. A woman that offered herself is not MMA. Prophet should not marry anymore except MMA.
That which is decreed for the prophet in this case is different to us. He has rights that we don't in this case. We cannot relate those verses to us.
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Read the verses before 2233. It refers to divorced mothers.
I had done.
From 2226 onwards all verses are linked in a way to marriage. 2226 is at first unclear whether it's talking of marriage but because the next verse refers to the previous verse with the word talagh, it makes it clear that it is related. From there on all other verses upto 2233 have some clear implication of marriage. But 2333 has no signs of it being a marital relationship. It emphasises all mothers and all fathers "no mother shall be harmed....." and deliberately does not use the word talagh when talking of seperation.I know that you said that it is sandwiched between verses which talk of marriage but two things i want to point out
- 2233 could have used divorce mothers in place of just mothers but it did not do this for a reason.
- There are other exmaples of unrelated verses sandwiched in a topic. Look at 2238-239. The verses suddenly stop talking of marriage related issues and spends 2 verses talking of Salat before returning again to marriage related issues.
So the fact that it's sandwiched in marriage related verses does not make it exclusive to marriages. The words of 2333 IMO are clear on talking of all mothers and all fathers. Perhaps this could be that it is considering that the divorce has already happened and thus they are no longer husband or wife but again if anyone gets pregnant or anyone becomes a father wether within or outside a marriage that verse 2233 will surely apply to them.
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Whatever the circumstances in this verse, it doesn't mean that sex (which lead to the birth of a child) is allowed outside marriage. It could be rape or a one night stand. So other verses need to be taken into account.
In regards to 2238-239, maybe the definition of salat in these verses needs to be revised.
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235 And they keep covered their private parts.
236 Except around their spouses (azwaaj), or those who are maintained by their oaths (ma malakat aymanukum), they are free from blame.
237 But whoever seeks anything beyond this, then these are the transgressors.From these verses, it is clear that none should have access to the private parts except the following two categories Spouses (Azwaaj) and those who are committed to you by oaths (ma malakat aymanukum) Thus SO FAR sex can only be done with those two categories of people.
That's only one kind of person. Marriage is an oath.
As to the morality of casual sex, it is never harmless
http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AUSrmWlGJs
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Whatever the circumstances in this verse, it doesn't mean that sex (which lead to the birth of a child) is allowed outside marriage. It could be rape or a one night stand. So other verses need to be taken into account.
In regards to 2238-239, maybe the definition of salat in these verses needs to be revised.
Are you suggesting that 2238-239 may possibly be related to marriage? Like the word salat to mean bond like a marriage bond?
About your point about rape or a one night stand. What happens if a husband rapes his wife? In all cases the father is responsible for the provisions. A father who has commited the crime of rape whether within or outside marriage will most likely not have the character to take such responsibility. Equally one night stands. AQ is not likely to appeal to those who uphold irresponsible one night stands. -
Are you suggesting that 2238-239 may possibly be related to marriage? Like the word salat to mean bond like a marriage bond?
About your point about rape or a one night stand. What happens if a husband rapes his wife? In all cases the father is responsible for the provisions. A father who has commited the crime of rape whether within or outside marriage will most likely not have the character to take such responsibility. Equally one night stands. AQ is not likely to appeal to those who uphold irresponsible one night stands.I'm not sure about what the 2 verses mean just yet but salat can mean different things so it could mean something in relation to marriage.
That's what I meant. The father is always responsible for the child no matter how the child was conceived whether its within marriage, rape or a one night stand. But of course, like you said, those who are irresponsible or immoral to have a one night stand or rape might not follow the Quran, thus refuse to take responsibility.
The advantage of marriage is that the woman and child are protected and the man will be held equally responsible if a woman gets pregnant.
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That's only one kind of person. Marriage is an oath.
As to the morality of casual sex, it is never harmless
http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AUSrmWlGJs
How can they be the same when MMA are part of the group that are permitted for marriage? Once you marry them they are no longer MMA.
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I'm not sure about what the 2 verses mean just yet but salat can mean different things so it could mean something in relation to marriage.
That's what I meant. The father is always responsible for the child no matter how the child was conceived whether its within marriage, rape or a one night stand. But of course, like you said, those who are irresponsible or immoral to have a one night stand or rape might not follow the Quran, thus refuse to take responsibility.
The advantage of marriage is that the woman and child are protected and the man will be held equally responsible if a woman gets pregnant.
There is clear advantages to a relationship which has become a marriage but how is this advantage of marriage which you point to related to 2233? On the part about the fathers, it does not go beyond talking about him being responsible for provisions of the child. It could be that the father of a relationship outside of a marriage is a much better father and takes much responsibility then another father who is in a marriage.
Marriage as far as i know, does not bring an advantage to this.
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There is clear advantages to a relationship which has become a marriage but how is this advantage of marriage which you point to related to 2233? On the part about the fathers, it does not go beyond talking about him being responsible for provisions of the child. It could be that the father of a relationship outside of a marriage is a much better father and takes much responsibility then another father who is in a marriage.
Marriage as far as i know, does not bring an advantage to this.
I meant if there was a legal contract between them or at least they are known to the public as a couple, then the father can't flee from his responsibilities. You might think this won't happen but it does and single mothers are left to take care of their child on their own with no financial help from the father.
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I meant if there was a legal contract between them or at least they are known to the public as a couple, then the father can't flee from his responsibilities. You might think this won't happen but it does and single mothers are left to take care of their child on their own with no financial help from the father.
well put bravo
http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=13800.0
Noah tried to help the then poor ladies but now the law of the land, in the west anyway, does help greatly.
peace
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Peace all
peaceThe purpose of this article is to argue against the widely accepted belief that the Quran prohibits sex before marriage. I intend to do this by using the Quran to justify a case of pre-marital sex where it is acceptable in the light of the Quran.
I have had a similar view for a while now. From my perception, the Quran advises against casual sex but not against premarital sex. One does not share a bond with a one night stand, it is just sex. However, a gf and bf are committed to each other by oath. They have developed a bond and care about each other deeply. Is a gf or bf not whom your right hand possesses?
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Hi, nimnimak!
A very interesting thread, i must say.
If you've made up your mind about this--maybe the only thing left to do is ... practice? Because i can't help but notice so many could be's in this thread. So why not just let it be? Or at least, maybe steal other ppl's experiences for more insights? Maybe friends, relatives who've been there done that. Just maybe...
Also, anyone noticed the youngest age we've known yet of two human beings having sex (by their own will)? Or youngest mothers to give birth ever?
What i mean is, what is/are the boundary/ies for sex then, if not marriage--age? biology? psychology/emotion? self-control? economy? supply/availability? An oath? Oral or written? And how binding is this oath? One-to-one relationship only, or something more than that? (if there's any limit, where in AQ do we have that reMMA?)
I'm in for good discussions )
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Looks like John Edwards and wife are split
Edwards Admits Fathering Love Child, Reportedly Separates From Wife
Former presidential candidate John Edwards has admitted fathering his former campaign videographer's child.
Former Sen. John Edwards arrives with his wife Elizabeth for the late Sen. Edward Kennedy's memorial service in Boston Aug. 28, 2009. (AP Photo)
Former presidential candidate John Edwards has admitted fathering his former campaign videographer's child.In a statement released to NBC News, Edwards said, "I am Quinn?s father. ... It was wrong for me ever to deny she was my daughter and hopefully one day, when she understands, she will forgive me."
Friends of the family said that Edwards and wife, Elizabeth, have separated, NBC reported.
The admission comes after months of denials from Edwards that he fathered former mistress Rielle Hunter's daughter, Frances Quinn. The revelation also comes a week before his former campaign aide, Andrew Young, is set to appear in an ABC News interview saying he posed as the father when the scandal first broke as a favor to Edwards.
The two-time presidential candidate also admitted to providing financial support to the child and said in the statement that he has "reached an agreement with her mother to continue providing support in the future."
"To all those I have disappointed and hurt these words will never be enough, but I am truly sorry," Edwards said.
Young's interview is scheduled to air on ABC next Friday, but may be pushed forward.
Previous reports have claimed that a secret DNA test proved Edwards' paternity to the child.
The test was taken after Hunter tried to get financial help from Edwards for Frances.
Edwards admitted in August 2008 to an affair with Hunter that he says ended in 2006. That year, Edwards' political action committee paid Hunter's video production firm $100,000 for work. Then the committee paid another $14,086 on April 1, 2007.
A federal grand jury last year investigated whether Edwards broke campaign finance law by paying "hush" money to Hunter and Young over the affair.
http//www.foxnews.com/politics/2010/01/21/report-john-edwards-set-admit-paternity-love-child/
Thats what happens elektro
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Peace nimnimak,
Let us look at it like this
The post basically was meant to prove a point, which is non prohibition of premarital sex by quran and the argument essentially was based on the understanding that MMA are among the group we can have sex with yet they are not our spouse/wives.Ref 424But if we understand MMA to mean slaves, the argument for premarital sex is arrested.
Now,an argument against MMA = those possessed by your oath/those you have bond with is that, In 3350-52, the merciful lord mentioned woman that offered herself to the prophet.This woman offered herself, a bond, yet not label as MMA, still and more importantly,in the same verse the prophet was told not to mary any more except MMA. This to me is proving that MMA is not = those you have a bond with.Note, I am not unaware of the fact that the provision therein was meant for the prophet alone.
Meanwhile, with the understanding that MMA means slaves, the interpretation for 424 is this ..and not allowed are muhsanat except that they become your slaves, in which case, their status as married becomes null and void.
You have argued that in 2221, a different label was used for slaves, you see, language is our invention,and the lord spoke to us in that language,In any human language, we have words/labels representing a thing and sometimes,a word/label represent more than a thing.Infact, this is the basis of ambiguity in our languages.
Therefore, the fact that a different label was used for slaves is not enough to conclude that MMA can't be taken to mean slaves.THINK ABOUT IT.
ZUBAIRUS
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Peace nimnimak,
Let us look at it like this
The post basically was meant to prove a point, which is non prohibition of premarital sex by quran and the argument essentially was based on the understanding that MMA are among the group we can have sex with yet they are not our spouse/wives.Ref 424But if we understand MMA to mean slaves, the argument for premarital sex is arrested.
Now,an argument against MMA = those possessed by your oath/those you have bond with is that, In 3350-52, the merciful lord mentioned woman that offered herself to the prophet.This woman offered herself, a bond, yet not label as MMA, still and more importantly,in the same verse the prophet was told not to mary any more except MMA. This to me is proving that MMA is not = those you have a bond with.Note, I am not unaware of the fact that the provision therein was meant for the prophet alone.
Meanwhile, with the understanding that MMA means slaves, the interpretation for 424 is this ..and not allowed are muhsanat except that they become your slaves, in which case, their status as married becomes null and void.
You have argued that in 2221, a different label was used for slaves, you see, language is our invention,and the lord spoke to us in that language,In any human language, we have words/labels representing a thing and sometimes,a word/label represent more than a thing.Infact, this is the basis of ambiguity in our languages.
Therefore, the fact that a different label was used for slaves is not enough to conclude that MMA can't be taken to mean slaves.THINK ABOUT IT.
ZUBAIRUS
Great that is what i understand handshake
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Genesis 209 "a great sin"
Genesis 347 "which thing ought not to be done"
2 Samuel 1312
Jeremiah 1327
Ezekiel 163-22
1 Corinthians 618
2 Corinthians 1221II. What is the difference between fornication and adultery?
A. Fornication is the illicit sexual intercourse of unmarried persons.
1 Corinthians 69, 18
B. To commit adultery is to have sexual relations with someone other
than one's own spouse (husband or wife).Jeremiah 2923; 57-8
Proverbs 629, 32; etc.- The scriptures also consider remarriage after divorce to be adultery.
Matthew 532; 199
- Even looking at someone with a lustful heart is adultery.
Matthew 528
III. The Bible is not silent on the subject of premarital relations.
A. Sexual intercourse is to be confined to marriage.
Genesis 341-7, 31
B. Marriage is God's provision for the release of sexual desire.
1 Corinthians 72
Hebrews 134C. Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 522-23). If a couple
cannot restrain themselves, Paul said that they should go ahead and
marry (1 Corinthians 79, 36-37).D. Consider the following accounts of fornication in Scripture.
- Schechem and Dinah
Genesis chapter 34
- Tamar and Amnon
2 Samuel chapter 13
IV. Fornication and adultery are absolutely forbidden by God.
Genesis 209
Exodus 2014 (Deuteronomy 518; Matthew 5;27; 1918;
Mark 1019; Luke 1820; Romans 139; James 211)
Leviticus 1820
Deuteronomy 2317-18
2 Samuel 1312
Matthew 1434 (Mark 617-1
1 Corinthians 615; 108A. These sins are exceedingly "evil" and "wicked" in God's sight.
Genesis 399
Leviticus 1929
Deuteronomy 2222-24, etc.
1 Samuel 222-23
1 Corinthians 513B. They greatly displease God (Hosea 41-2, 11) and provoke Him to
anger (Numbers 251, 3; Ezekiel 1626; Colossians 35-6).C. God abhors them.
Proverbs 2214
D. "For this is a heinous crime" (Job 311, 9-12), "villainy" (Jeremiah
2922-23) and filthiness (Revelation 174).E. "They know not the light" but "are in the terrors of the shadow of death"
(Job 2415-17). It is "the way of hell;" "the dead are there" (Proverbs 727;
913-1.F. The words of anyone who defends such "unfruitful works of darkness"
(Ephesians 53, 11-12) are "contrary to sound doctrine" (1 Timothy 19-10).V. Adultery and fornication are serious offenses.
A. Under the law, such acts were counted worthy of death.
Genesis 203, 7, 17; 2611
Leviticus 2010-12
2 Samuel 12
Proverbs 216-19; 75-27
Romans 129, 32- Burned.
Genesis 3815, 24
Leviticus 219- Stoned.
Deuteronomy 2213-21, cp. John 84-5
B. In the days of the early church, fornication was considered just cause
for excommunication from the fellowship of believers.1 Corinthians 51-2, 9-12
C. Fornication justifies divorce.
Deuteronomy 2213-21
Matthew 532; 199 (Mark 1012)D. In the Old Testament, fornication and adultery symbolized unfaithfulness to God,
either by idolatry or backsliding in general.Jeremiah 31, 6, 8, 9, 14, etc.
Ezekiel 69; 1636, etc.
Hosea 12;411-12; 31
Acts 1529E. Such offenses are self-defiling (Leviticus 1820, 24, 30; 1 Corinthians 618-20)
and can lead to one's own spiritual destruction.Proverbs 216, 18-19 "unto death"
Proverbs 627-29, 32 "destroyeth his own soul"
Proverbs 913-18 "the dead are there ... in the depths of hell"
Genesis 203, 7 "thou art but a dead man ... for she is a man's wife"F. Scripture lists fornication and adultery with such sins as murder, witchcraft, robbery, idolatry, etc.
Hosea 42
Romans 221
Acts 1529; 2125
1 Corinthians 69-10
Revelation 921G. The offense shall be met with severe judgment.
Proverbs 627-29, 32
Ezekiel 1638, 40-41
Malachi 35
Hebrews 134- Fornicators and adulterers shall not be allowed in the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 69-10, 18
Galatians 519, 21
Ephesians 55-6
Revelation 2215- They shall be tormented eternally in the lake of fire.
Jude 7
Revelation 218VI. Why is this considered such a serious offense?
A. "Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth
fornication sinneth against his own body."1 Corinthians 615-20, esp. verse 18
B. God desires a walk of consecration and holiness within His people.
Leviticus 217, 13-14
2 Corinthians 61
1 Thessalonians 43
Titus 211-12C. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit.
1 Corinthians 316-17; 613-20
D. The sin is self-defiling.
Ezekiel 23
Matthew 1519-20
Mark 720-23
1 Corinthians 615-20E. It influences others by bad example.
2 Samuel 1214
Nahum 34
Romans 132
Revelation 214, 20F. An attitude of sexual permissiveness pollutes the entire nation.
Leviticus 1824-28; 1929
Jeremiah 32, 9
Nahum 34
Revelation 192VII. Fornication and adultery should especially have no place among the people of God.
2 Samuel 1312
Romans 221-22
1 Corinthians 51-5, 9-13
Ephesians 417-20
Hebrews 1216A. Such a way of life was expected of us before we were saved.
Ephesians 22-3
Colossians 37, 5-6
Titus 33-5- In describing the extent of moral corruption among unbelievers, the
Bible says, "the land is full of adulterers." "...they committed adultery,
and assembled themselves by troops in the harlot's houses."
Jeremiah 2310; 57
- The world has hardened their hearts to the extent that they actually
feel no guilt or shame for such wrongdoing.
Proverbs 3018-20 "She saith, I have done no wickedness."
B. Christians are commanded to "flee," "avoid," and "abstain from fornication."
Acts 1520, 29
1 Corinthians 618 (cp. Genesis 3912); 72
1 Thessalonians 43
2 Timothy 222- "Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed,
and fell in one day three and twenty thousand."
1 Corinthians 108
- "But fornication, and all uncleanness ... let it not be once named among
you, as becometh saints ... For ye know that no whoremonger, nor
unclean person ... hath any inheritance in the kingdom..."
Ephesians 53, 5
- "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should
abstain from fornication that every one of you should know how to
possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; Not in the lust of
concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God ... For
God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness."
1 Thessalonians 43-7
C. When a person gives his life to Jesus, he is expected to put aside the
evil practices of his former way of life.2 Corinthians 1221
Ephesians 417-20D. We are forbidden even to fellowship with those who do such acts.
1 Corinthians 51-5, 9-13
Ephesians 311-12; 511VIII. Scripture describes fornication and adultery as "a deep ditch" and
"narrow pit" (Proverbs 2214; 2327-2, because the lustful intentions
behind them are deadly (Proverbs 726; James 115) and deceitful
(2 Samuel 133-5, etc.; Proverbs 53-4; 710).A. They are works of the flesh.
Galatians 519-21
- They originate in the heart.
Matthew 528; 1519
Mark 721; 1011
Luke 1618- They spring from an evil lust.
1 Corinthians 106
1 Thessalonians 43-5, 7- Because lust is especially aroused by the sight of the eyes (Matthew
52, the Word of God specifically exhorts Christians to "adorn
themselves in modest apparel" (1 Timothy 28-9; cp. 1 Peter 33;
Isaiah 316-24).
Genesis 342 "saw"
Genesis 381-24 "saw"
Genesis 397-12 "cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said,
'Lie with me'"
Judges 161 "saw"
2 Samuel 111-5 "he saw a woman washing herself, and the
woman was very beautiful to look upon"B. There is a great difference between love and lust.
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"Love is of God" (1 John 47) and gives (John 316; 1 Corinthians
135). Lust is evil and seeks its own satisfaction (2 Samuel 1312, 14). -
While love is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 522-23), fornication and
adultery are works of the flesh (Galatians 519-21). -
Love can wait; lust cannot.
2 Samuel 1313-14
C. The result of yielding to fleshly lusts is corruption.
1 Corinthians 316-17; 108
Galatians 68
James 115- Murder.
2 Samuel 111-5
- Rape.
2 Samuel 131-20
D. God can provide victory over lustful temptations (Romans 611-14;
Galatians 516, 24-25; 2 Peter 29-10, 14), but it takes an act of our will.- "Cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light."
Romans 1312
- "Mortify therefore ..."
Colossians 35
- "Flee youthful lusts."
1 Corinthians 618
2 Timothy 222- "Put off ... the old man ... put on the new ..."
Ephesians 422-24
IX. Fornication and adultery are not unforgivable sins, if repented.
Matthew 2131-32
Titus 33-5
Revelation 221A. Some examples in scripture (in which God forgave the offense)
- Rahab the harlot.
Joshua 21; 617, cp. Hebrews 1131 and James 225
- King David.
2 Samuel 1213, cp. 114
- The prodigal son.
Luke 1530, 32
- The woman in the temple.
John 83-11
- Early church believers.
1 Corinthians 69-11 "such were (past tense) some of you but ye are washed..."
B. However, we sometimes must face punishing consequences in this life
(according to the law of sowing and reaping).2 Samuel 1211-14
C. Many will never repent of the offense and for them there can be no forgiveness.
2 Corinthians 1221
Revelation 921- "Being past feeling," and having a "seared conscience," they gave
"them selves over unto lasciviousness (Lit., sensuality; erotic lust)."
Ephesians 419
- Therefore, "God gave them up" (they became reprobate).
Romans 128-29, 32
http//www.dianedew.com/adulforn.htm
elektro
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I read something Interesting on the subject.....
http//i138.photobucket.com/albums/q270/rickrivero305/chakra.jpgSpiritual Effects of Sexual Promiscuity
Dear Julia
Spiritually/astrally/energetically, what energetic bonds are set up when an individual has sex with another person or persons? Are people who have multiple partners (like prostitutes or sexually promiscuous people) linked eternally to the people they have sex with? I've been watching an HBO series about a brothel in Nevada. One of the young women declares that she is a whore; she says she is proud of selling her body and enjoys it. I also wonder about actors in the porn industry, for I look at them and see a "hardness" etched around them. I can't describe it, but there is something different about their auras. What happens on a spiritual level during a sex act of a purely carnal nature? Thanks for you insights into this question.
- Alexis
Dear Alexis
First we must remember that everything that happens on a physical level has non-physical counterparts. What we think and feel affects our bodies, what we do affects our auras, etc.
Further, the energy that flows through us when we have sex is the same energy that fuels all creation. Whether you call it chi, prana, kundalini, life force energy, etc., it's all the same thing. When we don't channel our chi in positive, creative ways, it will build up towards release. Orgasm is the sudden release of a great deal of creative/life force energy.
The life force energy that flows through us during lovemaking not only propels us into all sorts of important life experiences via relationships, it is powerful enough to create new life! This same energy can carry us into blissful states of consciousness during spiritual practices such as meditation. As it is powerful stuff, it is very important that we use it wisely.
This doesn't mean we should become ascetics. If we don't use our life force energy enough, we end up depressed, sluggish, bored, listless, and physically ill. If we use it too much, we end up exhausted, burned out, stressed, anxious and physically ill. As with everything, balance is wise. Good health, personal power and happiness all depend on a healthy balance of chi. When used consciously, this force is the source of all art, innovation, growth, creation, progress, life, etc.
Every interaction between people involves an exchange of energy. When that interaction involves profound feelings of love and desire (or bodily fluids!) the exchange is intense. Just kissing and heavy petting create energy links between the parties involved that penetrate their auras. These links are temporary, however, and will fade away in a few days, weeks or months, depending on how much mental and emotional energy is fed to the connection after the sweethearts physically part.
Sexual intercourse creates a much stronger energetic bond on the astral plane that will often last for many years. The more emotionally and mentally involved the lovers are, the stronger the link. It is this energetic connection that causes emotional pain upon separation from a lover, for it's like a living part of them is starving to be fed.
The more intense a relationship is, the stronger the bond is. The more times we have sex with a certain individual, the stronger our energetic bond will be to them. That's why it's so much more painful to leave someone we're in love with than someone we don't really care about, and why even leaving a "dead marriage" can be so darn hard - those energetic bonds are very strong due to many years of sustenance.
Now to explore the effects of promiscuity, let's get past all the confusing moral lessons we've been taught by working with an ecological metaphor.
We know that if we're careless ecologically, the Earth is affected in undesirable ways. Being careless about whom we sleep with is like being careless with our natural resources. If we use them up before they've been replenished, we end up depleted. If we fail to treat our bodies as our sacred homes, they end up deforested, polluted, scarred and littered with garbage. When it comes to sex, the key to maintaining one's vitality and beauty both physically and aurically is thus to treat our bodies and sexual experiences as sacred.
This doesn't mean we should only have sex within legal marriage or anything like that. In fact, in some ways the determined "security" of marriage often makes it very challenging to keep sex a conscious spiritual act.
On the other hand, marriage (or a similar committed relationship) is like a container for our valuable energy. If we just pour our energy out on the ground, it is quickly gone - wasted. If we pour it into a container, then we still have it, and if our partner pours his/her energy into the container, then together we have twice as much as we did alone. Every time one of us takes our energy and pours it elsewhere, it means less for both of us. Every time we pour more of our energy into the container, together we have more.
Everything that happens on a physical sexual level has correspondences at a metaphysical level, so every time we have sex with someone, we know we're mingling with their physical germs, but we're also mingling with their emotional, mental and spiritual "germs," PLUS the energetic issues of the people they're connected to.
Since the sexual revolution, the energetic webs between people have multiplied unlike anything ever seen before on planet Earth. Every time we sleep with someone new, we are linking with everyone they've ever slept with both physically AND energetically. From the astral, this is seen as a vast web of intricate energetic interconnections.
Further, it's not necessary to have physical sex to experience a strong energetic bond with someone. The deeper you feel about someone, the deeper your bond to them - even if your feelings are hateful instead of loving. If you feel a very deep, strong connection to someone and fantasize about them often but never sleep with them, you may have a stronger auric link to them than a prostitute would have to her client.
Though culturally we've twisted sex around to the point where common attitudes are a universe away from spiritual truths, beneath some of our moral 'values' there is some real wisdom. For example, virgins (both male and female) appear aurically "pure" and beautiful because they are free of energetic cords. They aren't caught up in that vast web described above.
They are also guarded by an energetic, hymen-like shield that protects them from psychic intrusion. While I certainly don't appreciate the way we've smeared this simple truth with religious guilt and the economics of procreation, there is some spiritual "value" in being a virgin just as there are "risks" in being sexually reckless.
As we grow more and more spiritual, we naturally grow more and more mindful in every area of our lives. Mindfulness is the key to growth and greater well-being. The more mindful we are about what we eat, what we think, what we read, what we believe, who we associate with and yes - who we make love to - the more we will be able to manifest personal power, fulfillment and well-being.
To me, this doesn't necessarily mean we should restrict ourselves in any way. Instead, we should bring our highest selves to every relationship. We should remain very conscious about what we really want and use our personal gifts and resources wisely. Whether we're talking about sex or any other matter, to manifest a happy, healthy life experience, we have to consciously bring the best of ourselves to all we do.
Think about it from the DNA in a strand of hair or a drop of blood, we can be identified as the unique individuals we are. The physical and metaphysical marks we leave on everyone we meet are unique; this makes all our interactions and relationships very special. Lovers are not interchangeable! Everything we do is ultimately very important.
- Julia
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Alot of this Promiscuous Ideology is synominus with the satanic idiology The "Do as thou will" Concept...of "Self-Indulgence" and Neglect of all Moral Restrictions..In my belief, Sex is not just a Physical Activity. It is Highly Spiritual...and very important. When Two have sex, the Spirits Connect...and many Things Happen In which Our Eyes cannot Witness.
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That is why Sex is so Important and is used Both in a Positive way by "Good People" and it can be used in an Evil Ritual by "Bad People"...
"Prostituting the Soul"... So basically, the more you have sex with a million different people...That a Million different Connections you had with Different SpiritsExodus 3415 "Be careful not to make a treaty with those who live in the land; for when they prostitute themselves to their gods and sacrifice to them, they will invite you and you will eat their sacrifices.
Exodus 3416 And when you choose some of their daughters as wives for your sons and those daughters prostitute themselves to their gods, they will lead your sons to do the same.
Jeremiah 31 "If a man divorces his wife and she leaves him and marries another man, should he return to her again? Would not the land be completely defiled? But you have lived as a prostitute with many lovers-- would you now return to me?" declares the LORD.
Ezekiel 1615 "'But you trusted in your beauty and used your fame to become a prostitute. You lavished your favors on anyone who passed by and your beauty became his.
Ezekiel 233 They became prostitutes in Egypt, engaging in prostitution from their youth. In that land their breasts were fondled and their virgin bosoms caressed.
Ezekiel 2329 They will deal with you in hatred and take away everything you have worked for. They will leave you naked and bare, and the shame of your prostitution will be exposed. Your lewdness and promiscuity
.....This title was written on her forehead MYSTERY BABYLON THE GREAT THE MOTHER OF PROSTITUTES AND OF THE ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH. Revelations 171-18
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Notice how the Propagation of this Fornication/Adultery Show is Centered around "Eve and the Forbidden Apple" as a Mockery.
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http//i138.photobucket.com/albums/q270/rickrivero305/scripture.jpgI think what many fail to realize is the Sacredness of SEX. The Physical Fluids, and the Spiritual Energy that is within them. Both Good religious People and satanic religious people will agree, that there is Much Power and energy in sex. You can learn alot from this Statement!
Then it would come as NO SUPRISE, that "Good Religions" would encourage its Followers to Respect and Obstain from Promiscuous Activity that is outside of Marriage. and It would also come as NO SUPRISE that the majority of TV networks and Society, would Push their satanic agenda of Encouraging People to engage in Sexual Activities outside of Marriage. WHY? I assume that its all within the Fluids and Energy. Depending on your Intention and Connection to that individual, it will determine what may arrise out of it.
If you are having sex with people outside of Marriage, or At Least outside of ANY Relationship, it is Obvious Negitivity will arise.
Now, Personnaly, I think that if two people are Boyfriend and Girlfriend and they have sex, Stay committed, and UNITE togeather, I think they are basically Married. Almost Married...All they really need to do now is the Symbolic Ritual and Physical Ceromony in front of 4 witnesses so that the community will recognize this.
However, I think in an Effort to Create the Best Working Society, Marriage is known to be the ONLY way to have sex. It is a Protection, to Help Ensure More that the two will stay commited and not Break the family structure OR mix spiritual Fluids and energy, thus spreading negitivity.
So, I believe one of the MAIN reasons for Marriage, is for Spiritual/Energy Protection. Then the next good reasons are Financial, Moral, etc...
CASE AND POINT---- there are a MILLION and One good reasons for marriage, and there is probabily 1 or NO good valid reasons for Promiscous/Fornication/pre-marital activitys.
(marriage is more than Physical by the way, Marriage is more than just a piece of paper. It is a Spiritual and MENTAL Bond created between two or (more in some cases up to 4) Entities. It is the Union and Solidarity of people who want to further their spirit and physical Body toawrds the striaght path (Thats what I beleive marriage is) D