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Dear brothers and sisters - I will be gone for a long period of time...

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    unknownuser
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    Dear brothers and sisters

    I have decided to focus totally on my dreams. I have to make some big changes in my life if I want to succeed. I will be gone for a long period of time. I might be gone for 1 year, 2 years or perhaps even more. I am going to miss you all, especially the long term members (those of you who have been in the forum for more than one year). I truly mean that from the bottom of my heart.I thank you for your friendship and the support you gave me. I have the emails of some of you. Hopefully we can keep in touch.

    I have enjoyed reading your posts and learned many things from you. Just like everyone of you I am a student of life. Every day I strive to get better than yesterday. And everyday I try to do my best to get more knowledge. I have realized that I know almost nothing when it comes to the wonders of the earth and the universe. I believe that "Learning is a never ending journey."

    If I ever said anything that offended any of you, or hurted you, forgive me for my mistakes. I believe that it's human to make mistakes. And I am not a perfect, nor will I ever be. But I will try to do my best. Because that's the only way I can become the person I wanna be. Even dough I have achieved some of the things I wanted to achieve, this is just the beginning.

    I want you to know that you are the most open-minded and good-hearted people I have ever talked to. "If you have a dream don't wait for some distant day to come."

    http//www.phnet.fi/public/mamaa1/if_you_have_a_dream.htm

    You have unknown potential inside of you. You have the power to reach unbelievable heights.

    "If you put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything."

    I will continue to walk in the path of Islam, if God wills.

    I hope I will see you again in the future.

    Peace and Love
    David.

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      SarahY
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      Peace David

      Sounds exciting! yet why rid yourself off the forum, no harm in posting here and there unless you won't have internet access. who knows you're actions could inspire us but if you feel the need for a gap by all means, all the best

      God be with you

      peace

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        savage_carrot
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        This is great news brother David. Go for it and I look forward to hearing how the years have changed you in a few years like you say.

        Peace be with you.

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          san
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          This is great news brother David. Go for it and I look forward to hearing how the years have changed you in a few years like you say.

          Peace be with you.

          It almost sounds like you're asking for a report... gosh give him a rest.

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            savage_carrot
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            I was worried it sounded more like something else but whew, thanks san for easing my fears.

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              unknownuser
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              Peace

              Thank you SarahY )

              Thank you savage_carrot )

              Thanks for your personal message san )

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                unknownuser
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                Here are some verses I like very much

                Quran 228
                How can you reject God when you were dead and He brought you to life? Then He makes you die, then He brings you to life, then to Him you return.

                Quran 938
                O you who acknowledge, what is wrong with you when you are told "March forth in the cause of God," you become heavy on earth. Have you become content with this worldly life over the Hereafter? The enjoyment of this worldly life compared to the Hereafter is nothing.

                Quran 2116
                We did not create the heavens and the earth and what is between them for entertainment.

                Quran 463
                We did not create the heavens and the earth, and everything between them except with truth, and for an appointed time. Those who reject turn away from what they are being warned with.

                Quran 5119
                God will say, "This is a day when the truth will benefit the truthful." They will have gardens with rivers flowing beneath; eternally they will abide therein. God has become pleased with them and they are pleased with Him. Such is the greatest victory.

                Here are some other verses I like very much

                5657 We have created you, if you could only acknowledge!
                5658 Have you noted the semen that you produce?
                5659 Did you create it, or were We the Ones who created it?
                5660 We have predetermined death for you. Nothing can stop Us,
                5661 From transforming your forms, and establishing you in what you do not know.
                5662 You have come to know about the first creation. If only you would remember.
                5663 Have you noted the crops you reap?
                5664 Did you grow them, or were We the Ones who grew them?
                5665 If We wished, We could turn them into hay. Then you would be left in wonderment
                5666 "We are lost."
                5667 "No, we are deprived!"
                5668 Have you noted the water you drink?
                5669 Did you send it down from the clouds, or was it We who sent it down?
                5670 If We wished, We could make it salty. If only you would give thanks.
                5671 Have you noted the fire you kindle?
                5672 Did you initiate its tree, or was it We who initiated it?
                5673 We rendered it a reminder, and a useful tool for the users.
                5674 You shall glorify the name of your Lord, the Great.
                5675 I do swear by the positions of the stars
                5676 This is an oath, if you only knew, that is great.
                5677 It is an honorable Quran.
                5678 In a protected record.
                5679 None can grasp it except those pure.
                5680 A revelation from the Lord of the worlds.
                5681 Are you disregarding this hadith?
                5682 You made your denial your livelihood?
                5683 So when the time comes and it reaches your throat.
                5684 At that moment you look around.
                5685 We are closer to it than you are, but you do not see.
                5686 If it is true that you do not owe any account.
                5687 Then return it, if you are truthful?

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                  Jack
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                  Peace bro David,

                  It's good to take a break sometimes. Helps to recharge your thinking/mindset. Thanks for the kind words on the membership here. Too many here tend to focus on the negative. I sincerely wish you the best in your journey, hopefully you can partake in a slice of humble pie during your break. If you have time, please share with us your goals.

                  Take care. May we all find peace.

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                    MUNZIR_ALI
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                    Dear brothers and sisters

                    I have decided to focus totally on my dreams. I have to make some big changes in my life if I want to succeed. I will be gone for a long period of time. I might be gone for 1 year, 2 years or perhaps even more. I am going to miss you all, especially the long term members (those of you who have been in the forum for more than one year). I truly mean that from the bottom of my heart.I thank you for your friendship and the support you gave me. I have the emails of some of you. Hopefully we can keep in touch.

                    I have enjoyed reading your posts and learned many things from you. Just like everyone of you I am a student of life. Every day I strive to get better than yesterday. And everyday I try to do my best to get more knowledge. I have realized that I know almost nothing when it comes to the wonders of the earth and the universe. I believe that "Learning is a never ending journey."

                    If I ever said anything that offended any of you, or hurted you, forgive me for my mistakes. I believe that it's human to make mistakes. And I am not a perfect, nor will I ever be. But I will try to do my best. Because that's the only way I can become the person I wanna be. Even dough I have achieved some of the things I wanted to achieve, this is just the beginning.

                    I want you to know that you are the most open-minded and good-hearted people I have ever talked to. "If you have a dream don't wait for some distant day to come."

                    http//www.phnet.fi/public/mamaa1/if_you_have_a_dream.htm

                    You have unknown potential inside of you. You have the power to reach unbelievable heights.

                    "If you put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything."

                    I will continue to walk in the path of Islam, if God wills.

                    I hope I will see you again in the future.

                    Peace and Love
                    David.

                    Goodbye Pal! handshake

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                      Prince
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                      Best wishes and all the best in your journey. I enjoyed reading your posts while you were here. Maybe we shall see you again on here God willing.

                      PEACE BE WITH U peace

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                        AlFajr
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                        Peace brother David,
                        You have been a good member in this forum and a good person to know. I hope that this is not the last that we see of you.

                        Take care and I hope you can achieve your goals.

                        )

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                          afridi220
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                          On Behalf of free minds

                          I CAN'T SAY GOODBYE TO YOU

                          You say it would be better
                          If we stopped seeing each other
                          If you had only met me first
                          When you were free
                          'Cause now you've got commitment
                          I should not expect things from you
                          That you can't give to me
                          Oh, but baby, can't you see

                          I can't say goodbye to you
                          No matter how I tried
                          You're such a part of me
                          Without you, I would die
                          Deep, in the heart of me
                          I know that you and I
                          Were meant to be be together
                          I can't tell you goodbye

                          Neither of us planned
                          That we would fall in love this way
                          But since we did
                          Why should we be apart
                          Sometimes, some things happen
                          That can never be explained
                          Now, it's too late for me
                          I've already given you my heart

                          I can't say goodbye to you
                          No matter how I tried
                          you're such a part of me
                          Without you, I would die
                          Deep, in the heart of me
                          I know that you and I
                          Were meant to be be together
                          I can't tell you goodbye

                          Who knows why we choose
                          When we choose the ones we love
                          Who knows why we do the things
                          We do when we're in love
                          I know that you're a decent man
                          And you try to do what's best
                          But how can I forget
                          All the feelings we have shared

                          I can't say goodbye to you
                          No matter how I tried
                          You're such a part of me
                          Without you, I would die
                          Deep, in the heart of me
                          I know that you and I
                          Were meant to be be together
                          I can't tell you goodbye

                          (You and I were meant to be, forever)
                          I can't tell you goodbye........

                          peace

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                            Joe_Betik
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                            salam david,

                            you did not tell us what you have planned to do apart from the vague "to focus totally on my dreams".

                            my guess (pardon me please) is you have planned for a solitude ("I will be gone for a long period of time. I might be gone for 1 year, 2 years or perhaps even more.&quot, no matter how much demanding the word "gone" is on the imagination.

                            in our experience, we need such a phase in life, i.e. a break to take a look at what we were just now, to evaluate and reform ourselves as and when necessary. we couldn't agree with you more when you said "I have to make some big changes in my life if I want to succeed."

                            our practice must conform with the theories we hold to be the truth. both must walk hand-in-hand. and whatever we are today is the 'akhirat'/end of what our theories and routines were. if we were not happy with what we were just now, then we need to have a tweak in the theories and a change of routines before we could even dream of a change of future.

                            routine (darr) is the instrument of change, the one without which no alteration happens. so nothing will improve without a reform of ways (AAamila salihan). oftentimes, a break of routines (diyar) is required. otherwise we remain the person of yesterday.

                            therefore we are more than happy (with a tinge of jealousy though) for your brave decision. our prayers are always with you indeed, and may God guide you on the correct path, insha-Allah.

                            peace
                            mohammed noh

                            p.s
                            but, we just thought that a period 1 or 2 years is too long for such a good-hearted and brave person like you. it will just be months, we hope. insha-Allah.

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                              Rana
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                              Gosh I didn't expect this when I came back to the forum...it sounds like you are either going on a physical journey or as someone else mentioned, planning for solitude. Whatever following your dreams means I wish you the very best - may Allah keep you safe and guide you always. peace

                              @ afridi220 cute. hehe

                              @ Jack people on here may well focus on the negative but don't worry, people everywhere are doing that lol. I think it's actually better here! laugh

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                                huruf
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                                Whatever it is youhave in mind, brother, may God bless you, and may your stay with us be a blessing for us all even after you live. Thanks for warning and have our warmest "fare well". In sha Allah you may come back and bring us good news.

                                Salaam

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                                  Fahad1
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                                  Salaam David.

                                  I wish you speedy success in your goals. So hoping to see you again soon.

                                  And thanks for the PM!

                                  Salaam.

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                                    unknownuser
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                                    Salam...

                                    I have changed my mind. I decided to come back to the forum. I realized that my dreams were too impractical, so I can not achieve them yet. I have to wait until the future. Because then, I will hopefully have more time and recources to achieve them. But I have not given up. I am just taking a break from idealism.

                                    Ohh, by the way. Even dough I didn't achieve any of my dreams, I achieved one of my goals. I got a job that I love. A job that is in alignment with my values, my abilities and my interests.

                                    I have missed this forum. And I am glad to be back.

                                    Peace and Respect,
                                    David.

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                                      Prince
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                                      Salam...

                                      I have changed my mind. I decided to come back to the forum. I realized that my dreams were too impractical, so I can not achieve them yet. I have to wait until the future. Because then, I will hopefully have more time and recources to achieve them. But I have not given up. I am just taking a break from idealism.

                                      Ohh, by the way. Even dough I didn't achieve any of my dreams, I achieved one of my goals. I got a job that I love. A job that is in alignment with my values, my abilities and my interests.

                                      I have missed this forum. And I am glad to be back.

                                      Peace and Respect,
                                      David.

                                      Good to see you back!!

                                      PEACE

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                                        unknownuser
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                                        Good to see you back!!

                                        PEACE

                                        Thanks brother. Good to see you too )

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                                          nsws1988
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                                          I knew you'd come crawling back. You just couldn't resist could you? I bet you cried yourself to sleep each night because you missed us that much hehe JK Welcome back bro! I'm glad you're back and that you've achieved one of your dreams.

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