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    unknownuser
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    By Abrahamic God I meant God of the Muslims , Jews and Christians(true Jews and Christians)and all other monotheists who existed prior to them. Not just any God. Since there are people who believe in God but not in the Muslim Christian or Jewish God wich is I would say because of all the coruption of these faiths.

    Not many people know about the Quran alone Islam I think, I am just guesing! So what they see is what I believe the corupted versions of it.

    Yeah, but thats what I mean by Abrahamic religions.

    I think trhat I am making sense!

    Thanks

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      Emil
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      yes actually, not only that i do expect, but i know for sure that the Giver gives. Present tense being the key. And whenever i don't feel like i'm catching what He gives, then's the time for me to look for it.

      Dear San

      We are not talking about the same thing (I think).

      Let me ask you a question. If you were to help a homeless man to a nice hot meal, what is your intention? What do you want for being so nice? What is your price?

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        san
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        Dear San

        We are not talking about the same thing (I think).

        Let me ask you a question. If you were to help a homeless man to a nice hot meal, what is your intention? What do you want for being so nice? What is your price?

        Dear Emil,

        For me, the sole intention, "want", and "price", is just to get the feel, like i craved for it. That's all.

        It's either living or dying inside, and the state keeps changing so i better keep flowing above the surface.

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          Emil
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          Dear Emil,

          For me, the sole intention, "want", and "price", is just to get the feel, like i craved for it. That's all.

          It's either living or dying inside, and the state keeps changing so i better keep flowing above the surface.

          ?qu? quieres decir con eso? I think we are talking about the same thing but in different words, or we are not at all talking about the same thing...I don't know...The only thing I know is that when I do something good or help someone I don't have a hidden agenda. I do not do it because Allah will be pleased with me and will reward me, I do not do it because I want a favour later, I do it because that is what Allah wants...I cannot judge if I am to be rewarded or not, that is Allah that does that, so whatever He chooses to do, I will be ok with it.

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            san
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            ?qu? quieres decir con eso? I think we are talking about the same thing but in different words, or we are not at all talking about the same thing...I don't know...The only thing I know is that when I do something good or help someone I don't have a hidden agenda. I do not do it because Allah will be pleased with me and will reward me, I do not do it because I want a favour later, I do it because that is what Allah wants...I cannot judge if I am to be rewarded or not, that is Allah that does that, so whatever He chooses to do, I will be ok with it.

            Yeah, we're along the same line. I'm only saying that, you, doing something good, is the way Allah gives more to you, in the present. Allah wants only the best for you, right? And how do you know if this is what Allah wants, other than by experiencing the best thing itself? The "feel" that i referenced is just one word, it means nothing. But the true experience of doing the best thing which Allah wants for you, is everything.

            That's why i put emphasize on "present". I totally agree with your last sentence. Instead of worrying/wishing for something to come, why not enjoy the moment in the present? Because the indescribable experience is what keeps it alive in us (doing good/best ~ following Allah) isn't it? The heaven is right here, whenever we want to and ready for it.

            Just thought and hoped it would add something to the discussion.

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              Emil
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              Peace San

              Yes, we are definately speaking of the same thing handshake

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                Someone
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                Yes, I know. But would you expect the giver to give?

                Someone, the key word is expect...I do not do things because I want something in return, I do it because that is what Allah has taught me, hopefully I got it right. If He does not think my good deeds are good, then I will not be disappointed. He is the Wise, the All knower.

                Peace Emil,

                I guess everyone of us have experimented doing good and bad deeds, and we know what outcome (either good or bad) we get in return in each case. Would it be normal to expect bad for a good action, in a just test?

                The least that you get from a good deed is the good feeling. I know that type of "wrong sense of guilt" we feel when expecting a return from a good action, but this is how the god made the system, and we shouldn't be ashamed of such expectations. Like a farmer expecting a good harvest after a good year of work.

                This is the law of causality into play, nothing magical about it. And we sure get a return for any and every action we make, in this life and the next by the god's will.

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                  @Someone

                  Just for a moment... let go of this 'distant' feature of the so-called Hereafter heaven, and imagine that heaven has already begun... could you do that please? (or a tip from Sirius i dare you to do that!) and try to view AQ in this frame.

                  Peace San,

                  I see what you mean, and I agree.

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                    Emil
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                    Peace Emil,

                    I guess everyone of us have experimented doing good and bad deeds, and we know what outcome (either good or bad) we get in return in each case. Would it be normal to expect bad for a good action, in a just test?

                    The least that you get from a good deed is the good feeling. I know that type of "wrong sense of guilt" we feel when expecting a return from a good action, but this is how the god made the system, and we shouldn't be ashamed of such expectations. Like a farmer expecting a good harvest after a good year of work.

                    This is the law of causality into play, nothing magical about it. And we sure get a return for any and every action we make, in this life and the next by the god's will.

                    Well I guess that I am pretty alone in not expecting any reward from Allah for my good deeds.....I believe my reward or punishment will be given on judgement day, when that day comes I will accept Allah's judgement. Nor do I believe that I receive punishment or reward in this life..

                    Maybe I am wrong, but I never believed in the phrase "God willing"......I don't believe that things happen because God is willing to let it happen. It just happens because of Allah wants it that way and not a million good or bad deeds or no matter how many prayers we say will change the way that Allah has decided. We cannot influence Him.....We can only screw up his decisions by following another path than what He intended.....If we screw things up or if we get it right will not change our position in this mortal life, our life will not become worse or better.

                    My sister is paralyzed from the waist down......On a school trip to Egypt a man (yes, he was muslim) approached her and told her that she must have done something terribly wrong for Allah to punish her that much.....

                    What kind of God is that? Not my God....

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                      Well I guess that I am pretty alone in not expecting any reward from Allah for my good deeds.....I believe my reward or punishment will be given on judgement day, when that day comes I will accept Allah's judgement.

                      i agree a 100%..loving and believing in God should stand on its own, not because we expect something in return. if not, then our deeds are more like shopping...were doing good in return for a benefit. its Gods mercy that He will not let our deeds go to waste, but thats upto Him to decide.

                      Maybe I am wrong, but I never believed in the phrase "God willing"......I don't believe that things happen because God is willing to let it happen. It just happens because of Allah wants it that way and not a million good or bad deeds or no matter how many prayers we say will change the way that Allah has decided. We cannot influence Him.....We can only screw up his decisions by following another path than what He intended.....If we screw things up or if we get it right will not change our position in this mortal life, our life will not become worse or better.

                      i actually like saying God-willing, because at the end of the day our every breath is because of Him. we can do nothing if God decides against it. i do think we make our own future, but the very fact that we can think and plan our actions is because He willed us the capacity to think, so im a strong believer in that word. it reminds me that at the end of the day God owns everything, my soul, my body, mind.

                      My sister is paralyzed from the waist down......On a school trip to Egypt a man (yes, he was muslim) approached her and told her that she must have done something terribly wrong for Allah to punish her that much.....

                      im shocked....im so sorry that your sister had to go through that..iv met a couple of people who think like every bad thing u get in this world is because u did something wrong.
                      my God isnt like that either. He is not petty.

                      bu then comes a question thats been lingering in my head for some time.. why would God create disability in any form anyway..specially a mental disability in which you dont have the capacity to think and ponder and recognise Him as the Creator (if that is the main purpose of creation).
                      though if im not wrong quran does mention God as being the Avenger...i dont really like that word..it gives a feel that God likes taking revenge on people who do bad..thats not what my idea of God is...

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                        Well I guess that I am pretty alone in not expecting any reward from Allah for my good deeds.....I believe my reward or punishment will be given on judgement day, when that day comes I will accept Allah's judgement. Nor do I believe that I receive punishment or reward in this life..

                        Maybe I am wrong, but I never believed in the phrase "God willing"......I don't believe that things happen because God is willing to let it happen. It just happens because of Allah wants it that way and not a million good or bad deeds or no matter how many prayers we say will change the way that Allah has decided. We cannot influence Him.....We can only screw up his decisions by following another path than what He intended.....If we screw things up or if we get it right will not change our position in this mortal life, our life will not become worse or better.

                        My sister is paralyzed from the waist down......On a school trip to Egypt a man (yes, he was muslim) approached her and told her that she must have done something terribly wrong for Allah to punish her that much.....

                        What kind of God is that? Not my God....

                        Peace,

                        Why don't you believe there are rewards/punishment in this life? Isn''t the act itself a reward? Doesn't it feel good to help others? Guilt for example would be experiencing hell.

                        An excellent article on the "Inshallah"/God-willing subject http//www.free-minds.org/freechoice

                        I agree such a view of God is illogical. This is why I find 2043-44 very interesting and find it to be against predestination "Go, both of you, to Pharaoh, for he has transgressed. So say to him soft words, perhaps he will remember or take heed."

                        Sorry to hear about how your sister was treated.

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                          Rana
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                          Well I guess that I am pretty alone in not expecting any reward from Allah for my good deeds.....
                          My sister is paralyzed from the waist down......On a school trip to Egypt a man (yes, he was muslim) approached her and told her that she must have done something terribly wrong for Allah to punish her that much.....
                          What kind of God is that? Not my God....

                          Emil I don't think you're alone. I do get what you saying, I think I do anyway Is it possible that this is just a different way of thinking about how things are, rather than a different belief? What I mean is, unless I've not read properly, you are not denying that we will be punished and rewarded for our deeds, you are just saying that for you it's not the focus of this life. If that is what you're saying then I'm in agreement.

                          I always know that is what I can expect at the time of judgement, but I personally don't often give thought to whether I will get a reward for anything good I do as I'm doing it or before I do it. I do things because it's the right thing to do, I want to help others, it feels good and it's the way it should be. Reward from God is not high in my mind. To the others on here, am I wrong? I'm not saying that there will be no reward, just that I don't feel the need to concentrate on that reward in order to motivate myself. This is a nasty example and I'm not suggesting they are exactly comparable, but I also don't feel the need to concentrate on the punishment for adultery in order to prevent myself doing that. I know there is a punishment, but I do the right thing because it's the right thing to do and is most beneficial for me, my husband (well, that's complicated but you see my point) and also to society.

                          Emil I'm really sorry to hear about you sister - that is really sad. nope

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                            CavemanDoctor
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                            "O Allah! If I worship You for fear of Hell, burn me in Hell,
                            and if I worship You in hope of Paradise, exclude me from Paradise.
                            But if I worship You for Your Own sake,
                            grudge me not Your everlasting Beauty."

                            -- Rabia

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                              Rana
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                              "O Allah! If I worship You for fear of Hell, burn me in Hell,
                              and if I worship You in hope of Paradise, exclude me from Paradise.
                              But if I worship You for Your Own sake,
                              grudge me not Your everlasting Beauty."

                              -- Rabia

                              cavemandoctor that is a really nice verse. Who is Rabia though?

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                                CavemanDoctor
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                                cavemandoctor that is a really nice verse. Who is Rabia though?

                                Early female Sufi mystic.

                                http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rabia_Basri

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                                  Rana
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                                  Early female Sufi mystic.

                                  http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rabia_Basri

                                  Wonderful. Thank you. )

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                                    rraza
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                                    nice verse CD. i think im going to steal that one )

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                                      san
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                                      On a school trip to Egypt a man (yes, he was muslim) approached her and told her that she must have done something terribly wrong for Allah to punish her that much.....

                                      That man didn't know what he was talking about and was rude to tell her so. end of line.

                                      I believe your sister is being given the chance to know and appreciate God, love and life like no one else could.

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                                        Wootah
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                                        the thing that really comforts me about islam is that unlike most religions, the God portrayed in the Quran implies that good deeds count a LOT towards saving yourself..you dont necessarily need to be following the quran to be "saved"...God isnt putting the emphasis on His word as much as he is on doing good....mainstream christianity believes in recognising and accepting jesus's sacrifice in order to be saved (jesus's words in the bible indicate otherwise though)..but islam is more about doing good and acting righteously, even if ur agnostic...atleast thats wat i think..now..lol ...my beliefs are quite subject to change as i read more andmore...inshallah i will get all my answers and be truly guided at some point of life

                                        The reason this give me no comfort is that if we can do enough good deeds to go to Heaven then Heaven really mustn't have a high standard and if God doesn't have a high standard then why would we trust that God is good?

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                                          The reason this give me no comfort is that if we can do enough good deeds to go to Heaven then Heaven really mustn't have a high standard and if God doesn't have a high standard then why would we trust that God is good?

                                          This line of reasoning makes no sense except maybe to an elitist masochist.

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