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    Man_of_Faith
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    Way to trivialize ending a life...."the soul is just gonna be reset somewhere else" lol

    Do you think a woman being pregnant has the right to question whether or not she should deliver a baby considering outside factors like maybe an economical crisis, a war, hunger ?
    As far as I'm concerned, these questions need to be asked before getting pregnant. and how many kids were born in war and other terrible consequences ? Were they better off to not live at all ?

    If there is a sparkle of life right where it should be (in a womb), it should be delivered because that is what it means, generally. When a woman is pregnant we think of a new life, we do not think of a new death, and we do not think of how bad life can turn out for that child (and we do not really think of a miscarriage or some other accidents). We do not think if the child will be a good child with a good life. Life just happens. Someone else kept saying here that "an unborn child is better than a child in an orphanage" and that is completely not right to say.

    We do not have the right to fast-forward into the child's life. We cannot question whether the child should be given the right to live or not, specially if all the signs are there for a new life, and that is (generally) what a pregnant woman means.

    If there is some "abort mission" button somewhere that I'm not aware of, I don't know, but generally for me all I can see is if there is a pregnant woman there is a new life. That's a reason enough to let it be delivered. Inspite of the unfavorable outside factors or the woman completely changing her mind. Therefore marriage is a sacred bond, and religions were restricting men/women interactions, perhaps in order not to fall into this shit storm of "I got pregnant but I don't want it".

    It is a good thing to argue about. If you take a look around you find that an immense amount of children grow up under miserable conditions, so miserable that most of them die and those who survive do not live any particular lives either. It is not so difficult to justify an abortion then for the sake of being human.

    You have to think beyond your immediate sphere before you ytter something.

    A child which grows up under insecure conditions with missing/neglectful parents may very well grow up to be one of those broken souls who wander around on Earth. It is then better that those who really want to have a child have them.

    Be well
    Qarael Amenuel

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      Makaveli
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      It is a good thing to argue about. If you take a look around you find that an immense amount of children grow up under miserable conditions, so miserable that most of them die and those who survive do not live any particular lives either. It is not so difficult to justify an abortion then for the sake of being human.

      World will always be a challenge, most people live beyond the line of poverty, not everyone lives by Sweden standards. So if a single irresponsible family commits abortion and won't let an uborn to become a poor soul that will wander the Earth, it will probably be born somewhere on the steets of India.

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        Man_of_Faith
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        World will always be a challenge, most people live beyond the line of poverty, not everyone lives by Sweden standards. So if a single irresponsible family commits abortion and won't let an uborn to become a poor soul that will wander the Earth, it will probably be born somewhere on the steets of India.

        That is true though, you cannot evade your destiny which is determined by who you were and if you made yourself miserable so you shall also be miserable.

        This is why there will always be misery, for as long as mankind does not improve.

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          good_logic
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          So if I make myself "miserable" I shall come back as"miserable" somewhere else?
          I tell you what Man Of Faith ,I shall make myself "Stand outside" ,you would then say that I shall come back as "Out Standing"!!!!

          That philosophy does not make sense to me brother.
          GOD bless you.
          Peace.

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            Makaveli
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            That is true though, you cannot evade your destiny which is determined by who you were and if you made yourself miserable so you shall also be miserable.

            This is why there will always be misery, for as long as mankind does not improve.

            Depends on what you understand as misery. Say someone lives a very miserable lonely and depressed life. So if he/she somehow does better in this life, in the next life he might be driving Ferrari and have a lot of friends, women and money? But isn't it a vicious circle? All people are different, most people are not believers or righteous muslims, does not matter if they are miserable or 'happy', which are in itself quite flexible terms. Living depressed and 'miserable' life can be as devastating and pointless as living a life in happiness and full of joy.

            So if I make myself "miserable" I shall come back as"miserable" somewhere else?
            I tell you what Man Of Faith ,I shall make myself "Stand outside" ,you would then say that I shall come back as "Out Standing"!!!!

            It depends on what you mean by "stand outside", if that means being faint-hearted then that is indeed miserable. From what I understand the Scripture is all about teaching it, even if you are surrounded by the group of ISIS soldiers, you kinda still have "the last say".

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              good_logic
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              Makaveli,What? Are you serious? Standing outside?
              I mean it is so cold to "stand outside" at this time of year(wrong thread for the shape of the earth,you know the And earth turning for day/night/seasons...) Bearing in mind I was the first to complain about the heat this last summer!
              I am not going outside until the temperature is above my age outside.

              To stay on topic,here is my message for this thread
              BOYCOTT male OPPRESSORS!!!.

              Anyway,you know the other thread about talking ants,well here are talking cows and of course"standing outside"
              Two cows are standing outside in the field,one cow said to the other"MOOOOO".
              The other cow said"pretty much the same thing-MOOOO TOO-.

              There you go brother,pretty much three threads in one!!!
              GOD bless you.
              Peace

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                Makaveli
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                To stay on topic,here is my message for this thread
                BOYCOTT male OPPRESSORS!!!.

                And who gave you the power to boycott anything? Who are they to prohibit and who are YOU to allow? Why they should listen to a fascist who likes to ALLOW somethings and BOYCOTT oppression. Why do they need your consent? Why do they need men to allow them a right to drive? See, tyranny has dual edges.

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                  huruf
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                  And who gave you the power to boycott anything? Who are they to prohibit and who are YOU to allow? Why they should listen to a fascist who likes to ALLOW somethings and BOYCOTT oppression. Why do they need your consent? Why do they need men to allow them a right to drive? See, tyranny has dual edges.

                  Somebody is living or at least hearing from another planet, or may be galaxy.

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                    Makaveli
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                    Somebody is living or at least hearing from another planet, or may be galaxy.

                    Maybe, or perhaps inhabitants of this planet are too foolish to understand the simplest of things. Now tell me who is going to lift a ban on abortion in a state where it is in place? Who lifted the driving ban for women in S.A? Aren't these the same people who put the ban in the first place?

                    If you believe you have a right don't wait for anybody to lift the ban for you. Oh you can't you will get fined, dear...cry cry.

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                      huruf
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                      Maybe, or perhaps inhabitants of this planet are too foolish to understand the simplest of things. Now tell me who is going to lift a ban on abortion in a state where it is in place? Who lifted the driving ban for women in S.A? Aren't these the same people who put the ban in the first place?

                      If you believe you have a right don't wait for anybody to lift the ban for you. Oh you can't you will get fined, dear...cry cry.

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                        good_logic
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                        Peace Makaveli.
                        The forces of good and evil in the dualism of gender ?
                        Most men and women in here are brothers and sisters ,so I am neutral about them.
                        Brother,I think I finish in this thread by this saying
                        Confucious says,"Man who piss in wind, wind piss back"!
                        GOD bless you.
                        Peace.

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                          Makaveli
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                          Not enough emotions, huruf, try being more convincing in your hypothesis.

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                            Makaveli
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                            Peace Makaveli.
                            The forces of good and evil in the dualism of gender ?
                            Most men and women in here are brothers and sisters ,so I am neutral about them.
                            Brother,I think I finish in this thread by this saying
                            Confucious says,"Man who piss in wind, wind piss back"!
                            GOD bless you.
                            Peace.

                            You could simply finish by saying nothing, it would be more plausible and complementing to what you already said here.

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                              Man_of_Faith
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                              So if I make myself "miserable" I shall come back as"miserable" somewhere else?
                              I tell you what Man Of Faith ,I shall make myself "Stand outside" ,you would then say that I shall come back as "Out Standing"!!!!

                              That philosophy does not make sense to me brother.
                              GOD bless you.
                              Peace.

                              I thought it was fairly straightforward. If you make your being miserable so you shall be, no one will change it for you except yourself. By miserable was meant ruining your whole personal integrity.

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                                Cerberus
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                                A child which grows up under insecure conditions with missing/neglectful parents may very well grow up to be one of those broken souls who wander around on Earth. It is then better that those who really want to have a child have them.

                                I really don't think parents fully determine how they child's life will be. Surely the life of the child will not be much different from the life of his/her parents up until the moment where the child starts making decisions. There might be turning points. There might be silver linings in the midst of that cloud. It's not a clear cut.

                                And of course, when there is a will there is a way.

                                Not sure what a broken soul is.

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                                  Cerberus
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                                  It is a good thing to argue about. If you take a look around you find that an immense amount of children grow up under miserable conditions, so miserable that most of them die and those who survive do not live any particular lives either. It is not so difficult to justify an abortion then for the sake of being human.

                                  They might not live any particular life but they do get a chance to live and they meet situations where they get to choose for themselves the good or the bad, whether that happens at 20 or at 50, how can you reduce an entire life span to some possibility ? As long as one is alive then there is more and more possibilities. Hard to say "well he is likely to be a sore loser just like his father, better end his life now"

                                  Otherwise, why would the sun bother to shine on this earth if it wasn't for people?both the good and bad ones?to live ? And why would anyone be alive one more day (and one more and one more) if it wasn't another chance to live given by the one who gave him/her that spark of life and didn't take it back yet ?

                                  What exactly is murder according to you and why is it a sin ? Is it because you've interrupted someone's life wrongfully or is it because you got angry and things got out of control ?

                                  In my opinion, if you've commited murder you have interrupted someone's life wrongfully. I would say it is still in concordance to the will of God but since it is the wrong thing to do therefore you have sinned.

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                                    HP_TECH
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                                    I am glad my mother did not abort with me when I was still a fetus. Thanks to that I am alive.

                                    Nearly wish Man of Faith's mother would have just aborted him though and see if he would think differently. Oh wait, I am sure he wouldn't, because he would be dead. It is easy to be self-righteous in relationship to others

                                    Yet what I said about wrong, it is yet up to the woman whether to proceed with the pregnancy or not, and no one else. And I am not going to condemn anyone for their doing

                                    Nearly wish I could rape HP_TECH and leave him pregnant though and see if he would think differently, which I am sure he would. It is easy to be self-righteous in relationship to others.

                                    Be well
                                    Qarael Amenuel

                                    How is this NOT a violation of forum rules??
                                    How is this okay to say?

                                    You are a despicable person for expressing such vile, detestable and sexually aggressive, homosexual feelings.

                                    I am shocked that no one said anything about this.

                                    Huruf I am beyond words disappointed in you.

                                    Half of you arguing that rape is a tremendous experience, have probably never even been abused.
                                    Yet, as you have overpassed this abomination of a comment, you clearly discount reality and the fact that boys are also abused.

                                    You get emotional about rape when it comes to women but you are silent when hateful rape speech is directed toward a male?

                                    You are despicable hypocrites. Shame on all of you.

                                    You are just sorry feminists, sorry women apologetics. You are truly sexists. You are not behaving as Muslims. You should be ashamed of yourselves.

                                    Allah does not command unrighteousness! There is no evidence to support abortion in Quran!

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                                      huruf
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                                      Huruf I am beyond words disappointed in you.

                                      I guess so, but I am nto disappointed at you, you are very previsible and even though I feel that you are a good person, you act self-righteous, unable, it seems, to see what others are trying to say.

                                      You want to make everybody fit into your conceptions and think your conceptions are God's conceptions. You are unable to conceive that every woman is empowered to connect directly with God with no intermediaries and that God has set it so. You are no intermediary between woman and God. Neither of you men or of you women is intermediary. Each woman is tied directly to God. God wants it so. You can prevent abortion not doing what you should not do. Prevent abortion raping women and forcing them and policing over them does not prevent abortion at all, it worsens it, it gets us deeper into the hell where male pretenders and intemmediaries joint by women too powerless or with too little self-respect have put humanity at large.

                                      Men are quite able not to imitate Iblees, and in fact many good men do so, God be thanked. You (general you) may call women whatever you may like, it is in your good power to insult them and impose on them, and above all, join the hordes of superchristians becoming supermuslims who go on acting like Iblees, and come between woman and God, but you cannot help it that good men are qawwamoon for women according to God, not judges nor police over the women. When you get that, you will be nearer to being a good man, while you do not get it you will just be a pretender. Look at the example of prophets. Many males parade that only males are prophets but they hate to follow thir example. What do they think God sent them for? to make Iblees males still vainer and arrogant?

                                      Salaam

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                                        Makaveli
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                                        You get emotional about rape when it comes to women but you are silent when hateful rape speech is directed toward a male?

                                        That's a typical behavior, why take it seriously? Don't you know about the double standards? rotfl

                                        Males are slaves, their only purpose in life is to work their asses out and provide resources for women and children lol. Why should women treat slaves any higher than slaves? And oh when males want sex they call it rape in a marriage ;D

                                        How can one be possibly so naive to take the words of others in all seriousness and get offended. They all are going to die.

                                        Men are quite able not to imitate Iblees, and in fact many good men do so, God be thanked.

                                        So apparently only men have instincts and not women? Look at what women do in general, how they make living, 90% of them in entertainment industries selling their body directly or indirectly.

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                                          Man_of_Faith
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                                          "Hateful rape speech", well, there was no hate in that, just saying if you can think in case you were raped and how you would feel then and if you would reason the same way and if you would wish to keep the child from which egg I, the rapist, fertilized with my sperm.

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