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    muslims
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    Muslims both from Indonesia and Malaysia is same, most of them still influenced by dogmtic terminologies.

    Salam

    You are bringing other irrelevant issues.

    How can you say it is dogmatic when I am referring you to the direct verses from the Qur'an?

    Do I refer to any hadith, or making a personal opinion? Nope!

    Why all this nonsense? Do you need to prove yourselves is acquainted with modern thinking?

    You can have all the nonsense you want, but give me "valid reasons" from the Qur'an, rather than making ridiculous claims in the name of Allah.

    Peace

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      How can you say it is dogmatic when I am referring you the direct verse of the Qur'an.

      Direct what?? This how the sectarian work, they intepretate Scripture too literally, but avoid anykinds of facts and wisdom.

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        How can you say it is dogmatic when I am referring you to the direct verses from the Qur'an?

        Do I refer to any hadith, or making a personal opinion? Nope!

        Why all this nonsense? Do you need to prove yourselves is acquainted with modern thinking?

        You can have all the nonsense you want, but give me "valid reasons" from the Qur'an, rather than making ridiculous claims in the name of Allah.

        Can you read THIS, before keep asking which verses, what verses!!

        Modern or not, it's not important.
        You may not use hadith for prove, but in the Nusantara archipelogo, the home of you and me, Sunni Islam terminologies already influenced our society.Like see homosexual as a taboo.

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          muslims
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          Direct what?? This how the sectarian work, they intepretate Scripture too literally, but avoid anykinds of facts and wisdom.

          Salam

          See? you bring another issue and "blank accusation" of being a sectarian.

          and no, I'm okay with homosexual and neither did I raise any points based on sectarian. (refer here)

          I'm raising the issue of "What is the rule in the Qur'an?" relating to "private parts" (including homosexuals)

          Therefore, please quote where I make personal opinion and does not referring to the Qur'an.

          Please prove your blank accusations with quote.

          Don't just say it, prove it!

          Direct what??

          Further, how can you ask me "direct what"? confused

          This is our main issue (from here)

          This what you decide "Homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone" (ie. same-sex marriage, etc.)"

          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341124#msg341124

          This is our secondary issue Whether the word is referring to "wives/spouses" or "mates", which you say it is "mates" and shall include permission for sexual intercourse between the same gender.

          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341106#msg341106

          List of translations that say the word is "wives/spouses"

          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341043#msg341043

          These are my questions or issues from your interpretation on "wives/spouses" or "mates" self contradictions

          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341112#msg341112
          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341117#msg341117
          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341120#msg341120

          These are my views

          http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341121#msg341121

          How come people of wisdom and clear thinking like you are needed to make "blank accusations" and diverting from answering the questions?

          Why this feeling of being insecure? confused

          but there is no verse in the Quran which prohibit same sex marriage, if that verse is exist, just bring it to me.

          ...

          If you disagree with this, then bring me one verse in the Quran which told us to judging or punish gays and lesbian.If you capable, I will hail to you.

          Peace

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            Further, how can you ask me "direct what"? confused

            This is our main issue (from here)

            I think I already respond what's "mate".Tetapi bapak muter2 terus

            Ini bapak yang baik hati, ente baca lagi yaa http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341097#msg341097

            Kalau gak ngerti tanya, jangan menanyakan pertanyaan yang sama terus.

            Peace

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              I think I already respond what's "mate".Tetapi bapak muter2 terus

              Ini bapak yang baik hati, ente baca lagi yaa http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341097#msg341097

              Kalau gak ngerti tanya, jangan menanyakan pertanyaan yang sama terus.

              Peace

              Salam

              Where is your answer to the following issues relating to self contradicting Qur'an?

              How many times I have to ask you, and how many times you want to deny this?

              These are my questions or issues from your interpretation on "wives/spouses" or "mates" self contradictions

              http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341112#msg341112
              http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341117#msg341117
              http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341120#msg341120

              The self contradictions from your interpretation of the word "mates"..

              How about sexual intercourse with animals?

              Can human beings make sexual intercourse with chickens? birds? goats? cows? cats?
              (Warning!! please buy health insurance to cover costs of surgery before involving with any of these animals, especially cats! I disclaim any responsibility for any wrongful or ridiculous advice from any members in this forum! ;D )

              Is it faahisyah?

              Allah did not mention it in the Qur'an, and people can declare it as their "mates" to escape any prohibitions, or even human laws (defence of lawful religious practices etc.).

              Is this your logic? confused

              Of course it is self contradicting, how can you say "Allah is allowing sexual intercourse between same sex", and at the same time it is a "transgression"? Did Allah mistakenly told the story or say something which is futility in His Book?

              In fact, we don't need rules relating to marriages.

              We just need "mates", same gender or else; ie. may also include animals etc, as long it is "mates".

              How hard for you to understand this simple logic?

              (from here)

              No, I'm not ignoring your answer and yet, I mentioned how a "forumer" is better qualified and could reject all major translations in this world as being incorrect, in that particular verse.

              Further, you are not answering my question, but diverting it to other issues.

              Now, do you realize your conclusion that "mates" can be of the same sex (or different sex) means all the rules in "the Qur'an is now self-contradicting"?

              All the rules relating to sexual prohibitions in the Qur'an is meaningless?

              These rules? (refer here)

              Including the rules that say homosexual is a transgression? (ie. the Qur'an is now self contradicting)

              In fact, we don't need rules relating to marriages.

              Is this your logic?

              A self-contradicting Qur'an?

              Do you understand what is being asked here?

              Peace

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                Salam

                Where is your answer to the following issues?

                How many times I have to ask you, and how many times you want to deny this?

                Peace

                How strange you are?

                All of your questions is still same, you didn't understand what's the meaning of "mate" in the Quran.
                You keep give Alkitab's post, while I already make refutation against him.

                Please if you don't understand my post, which part?? I will re-explain again.

                AND I WILL NOT RESPOND YOUR ANIMAL SEX, INDEED IT"S OFF TOPIC

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                  Salam

                  Read again, it has been so many times you have failed to understand what you read and making false claims.

                  I already told you if 235-6 is not about marriage, but guard private parts from mate (mate can be same-sex gender).

                  This what you decide "Homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone" (ie. same-sex marriage, etc.)"

                  http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341124#msg341124

                  This is our secondary issue Whether the word is referring to "wives/spouses" or "mates", which you say it is "mates" and shall include permission for sexual intercourse between the same gender.

                  http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341106#msg341106

                  List of translations that say the word is "wives/spouses"

                  http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341043#msg341043

                  Peace

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                    AND I WILL NOT RESPOND YOUR ANIMAL SEX, INDEED IT"S OFF TOPIC

                    Salam

                    No it is not (refer here), Allah is speaking about "private parts", and it is either you use it

                    1. to your wife (woman, marriage); OR

                    2. to any other than your wife, ie. the word "except"; ie. to "anyone" (refer here), including animals.. since you are denying about "marriage" and mentioning about "mates"

                    Therefore and according to your argument, if "mates" can be interpreted as "sexual intercourse with same gender", then it must also include sex with animals, as long it is "mates". This is so since you are rejecting the element of "marriage" and "wives" from the ayat.

                    Why? You are now confused with your own logic? ;D

                    Rule relating to reasoning..

                    And the example of a bad word
                    is like a bad tree
                    uprooted from the surface of the earth
                    not having any stability
                    (1426)

                    Peace

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                      Oh God.What happen to yu?

                      As I said MATE IN THE QURAN IS NEUTRAL IN GENDER

                      Verses about "guard private part" is 235-6

                      23.5 And who () keep covered their private parts.
                      23.6 Except around their mates (), or those who are maintained by their oaths, they are free from blame.

                      The blue word is allazi mean which, who, whom, whose and this is masculine.
                      The red word is azwaj or zawaj, means mate (mate can be husband or wife) and interestingly the red word is also masculine!!

                      This means this verse is neutral in gender and translations you used is a distortion one.
                      And verse 7029-31 is a repetation of 235-6.

                      The subject of verse 235 is allazi (masculine in gender), interestingly mate/spouse in 236 is also (masculine in gender).

                      SO HOW YU STILL JUDGE IF MATE IN 236 IS WIFE, MY BROTHER

                      Peace

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                        Oh God.What happen to yu?

                        As I said MATE IN THE QURAN IS NEUTRAL IN GENDER

                        The subject of verse 235 is allazi (masculine in gender), interestingly mate/spouse in 236 is also (masculine in gender).

                        SO HOW YU STILL JUDGE IF MATE IN 236 IS WIFE, MY BROTHER

                        Peace

                        Salam

                        It doesn't matter, the important point is you are denying the word is related to "marriage", ie. you are denying the interpretation as "wives/spouses".

                        Therefore, if it is "wife/spouse", then it is referring to "marriage".

                        If "mates", then it is referring to "anyone or non marriages".

                        ie. men and women, men and men, women and women, men and animals, women and animals etc... as long it is "mates", and not necessarily "marriages", but may also include "same sex marriage"

                        Is this what you agree? Read again.

                        This what you decide "Homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone" (ie. same-sex marriage, etc.)"

                        http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341124#msg341124

                        Differences

                        And those who guard their private parts <- ALL human beings have private parts (+homosexual)
                        Except from their wives/spouses <- I say referring to marriages
                        or those their right hands possess
                        for indeed, they are not to be blamed
                        But whoever seeks beyond that
                        then they are the transgressors
                        (7029-31)

                        your translation

                        And those who guard their private parts
                        Except from their mates <- You say not referring marriages, ANYONE!
                        or those their right hands possess
                        for indeed, they are not to be blamed
                        But whoever seeks beyond that
                        then they are the transgressors
                        (7029-31)

                        different translations wives or spouses

                        (refer here)

                        Peace

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                          Your lack is too hasty for make generalization.

                          Then you accuse me for mate can be animal, hence you're out of context.

                          Please use common sense, what I mean mate is spouse of course

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                            muslims
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                            I mean mate is spouse of course

                            Salam

                            So you did mean it as "spouse"!!!

                            Definition of "spouse"

                            spouse (spous, spouz)
                            n.
                            A marriage partner; a husband or wife.
                            tr.v. (spouz, spous) spoused, spous?ing, spous?es Archaic
                            To marry; wed.

                            http//www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spouse
                            http//www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/spouse
                            http//dictionary.reference.com/browse/spouse
                            http//www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/spouse

                            The spouse is a marriage partner, a husband or wife. The word spouses are an inference for "marriages" and is according to the Qur'an.

                            comparison; "mates", which can also mean other than marriages, and as long they can fit each other.
                            http//dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/mate_1
                            http//www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/mate
                            http//www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/mate
                            http//www.thefreedictionary.com/mate
                            http//dictionary.reference.com/browse/mate

                            Therefore and if you are referring it to "spouses", then it must mean "marriages"!

                            Therefore, it must also mean different sex or gender; ie. husband and wife, and because there is no such thing as "same-sex marriage" in the Qur'an. You have said it, "Yes marriage in Quran is about husband and wive".

                            Therefore, Allah is only allowing marriages in (235-6) or (7029-31), and prohibit every other than marriages (refer here), including homosexuality.

                            Can we agree on this?

                            Otherwise, they can use their "private parts" to anyone, including animals!

                            Therefore your answer is B; ie. "Homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone" (ie. same-sex marriage, etc.)"

                            and the Qur'an will be self contradicting...

                            These are my questions or issues from your interpretation on "wives/spouses" or "mates" self contradictions

                            http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341112#msg341112
                            http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341117#msg341117
                            http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9605924.msg341120#msg341120

                            See how you get caught with your so-called wisdom and clear thinking? ;D

                            what I mean mate is spouse of course

                            Yes marriage in Quran is about husband and wive

                            I already told you if 235-6 is not about marriage

                            Peace

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                              All of your posts, just merely out of context.You only used logic, logic n logic withouth see context.

                              See how you get caught with your so-called wisdom and clear thinking? ;D

                              Quote from Earthdom on Yesterday at 104821 pm
                              what I mean mate is spouse of course

                              Quote from Earthdom on Yesterday at 053748 pm
                              Yes marriage in Quran is about husband and wive

                              Quote from Earthdom on Yesterday at 053748 pm
                              I already told you if 235-6 is not about marriage

                              This is one of your lack.You quoted someone arguments and do out of contex
                              You create premis by quoted my posts.Three of them has no relation at all and each sentence talking about different conteks.

                              This is you who very pride to your logic science and misunderstood someone post mostly.
                              You also play rolling yourself in your posts.

                              Ok I think I must stop get discussion with you in this thread, coz the discussion will no ending.

                              Peace

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                                muslims
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                                Salam

                                Do you mean "spouses" or not?

                                You want to change what you have just said right now?

                                Fine.. what is it now? yes

                                I mean mate is spouse of course

                                http//www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spouse
                                http//www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/spouse
                                http//dictionary.reference.com/browse/spouse
                                http//www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/spouse

                                Peace

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                                  Salam

                                  Do you mean "spouses" or not?

                                  You want to change what you have just said right now?

                                  Fine.. what is it now? yes

                                  Peace

                                  Since start you just merely out of contexs.You never understand what I said.You don't understand in what situation I say "spouse".

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                                    Since start you just merely out of contexs.You never understand what I said.You don't understand in what situation I say "spouse".

                                    Salam

                                    Do you understand what is "spouse"?

                                    and do you mean it to say "spouse"?

                                    Peace

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                                      Salam

                                      Do you understand what is "spouse"?

                                      Peace

                                      Of course, I know.I never confusing "spouse" in english, but this just u brother.

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                                        muslims
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                                        Of course, I know.I never confusing "spouse" in english, but this just u brother.

                                        Salam

                                        Here are the links, quote one dictionary that says "spouses" is not referring to "marriages"

                                        http//www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spouse
                                        http//www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/spouse
                                        http//dictionary.reference.com/browse/spouse
                                        http//www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/spouse

                                        You may also refer me to your dictionary.

                                        Peace

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                                          Salam

                                          Here are the links, quote one dictionary that says it is not referring to "marriages"

                                          http//www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spouse
                                          http//www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/spouse
                                          http//dictionary.reference.com/browse/spouse
                                          http//www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/spouse

                                          You may also refer me to your dictionary.

                                          Wa'alaikum salaam Mr out of context.

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