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    muslims
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    Salam

    Okay, it is two hours difference if in Surabaya or Gresik, that means almost Maghrib.

    So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

    Peace

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      Salam

      Okay, it is two hours difference if in Surabaya or Gresik, that means almost Maghrib.

      So does it referring to "husband and wife" or "marriages"?

      Peace

      I live around that area and now the time is 1607.

      Yes it does.

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        muslims
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        So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

        Yes it does.

        Salam

        Good, I went to Indonesia almost every year. )

        So... you agree that "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

        Therefore, can you agree that the following verse is referring to marriages?

        And those who guard their private parts <- ALL human beings have private parts
        Except from their spouses <- referring to marriages

        Peace

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          unknownuser
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          Good, I went to Indonesia almost every year.

          Good, may I visit Malaysia some day for see Petronas Building.

          So... you agree that "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

          Therefore, can you agree that the verse is referring to marriages?

          Spouses is not enough for husband-wife.We see same-gender also as spouses.

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            muslims
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            Spouses is not enough for husband-wife.We see same-gender also as spouses.

            Salam,

            No problem, it is just two hours flights and the tickets is cheap.

            It doesn't matter if it refers to same gender marriage or etc.

            It is irrelevant at this point of time.

            What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

            If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

            Peace.

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              unknownuser
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              No problem, it is just two hours flights and the tickets is cheap.

              Unfortunaly Rupiah's exchange rate is below Ringgit ;D.What place you visits in Indonesia.I don't live in Surabaya nor Gresik, but I still in East Java.I visit Surabaya every year for a vacation.

              If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

              If 235-6, it's not.This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

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                muslims
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                If 235-6, it's not.This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

                Salam

                There are few places, Surabaya, Gresik, Jogja etc and my family rooted back from Indonesia during 1,000-1300+

                We leave out that issue later, what's relevant is whether that verse includes "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                Peace

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                  unknownuser
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                  There are few places, Surabaya, Gresik, Jogja etc and my family rooted back from Indonesia during 1,000-1300+

                  This means you still a Javanese like me.You're wong Jowo D.
                  Malay ethnic in Indonesia more concentrated in Bawean, Riau, Bangka, Belitung and some parts in Sumatra, Kalimantan and Sulawesi.

                  Ok we will talk about this later, just do PM if necessary.

                  What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                  Term marriage/nikah is wide in context.We talk about leglitas of homosexual in this thread.So what contexs you want to discuss??

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                    muslims
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                    Term marriage/nikah is wide in context.We talk about leglitas of homosexual in this thread.So what contexs you want to discuss??

                    Salam

                    I'm originally rooted from Yemen, Hadhramaut and Palestine, which my great great grandfather make a hijrah to Indonesia for Da'wah, maybe before Islam came to Indonesia.

                    Okay we stop here, and you can continue by answering the following issue

                    Whether the verse in (7029-31) is referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                    and you might also explain why you are saying the context of (235-6) is related to zina prevention.

                    Certainly will the believers have succeeded
                    They who are during their prayer
                    humbly submissive
                    And they who turn away
                    from ill speech
                    And they who are observant
                    of zakah
                    And they who guard
                    their private parts
                    Except from their wives
                    or those their right hands possess
                    for indeed, they will not be blamed
                    But whoever seeks beyond that
                    then those are the transgressors
                    And they who are to their trusts
                    and their promises attentive
                    And they who carefully maintain
                    their prayers
                    Those are the inheritors
                    Who will inherit al-Firdaus
                    They will abide therein eternally
                    (231-11)

                    Peace

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                      unknownuser
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                      As you see, the verses in the Quran didn't follow the index by orders.I mean a verse in a surat, may have a continuations in another surat.

                      "Zena prevention" is my own term and yu may have your own
                      According to me, most of Quranic verses not talking about fiqh-fatwa but how to became a proper being.

                      Ok "zina prevention" term is almost leave the topic.So what we must discuss is homosexual is legal or not according to Quran.

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                        muslims
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                        "Zena prevention" is my own term and yu may have your own
                        According to me, most of Quranic verses not talking about fiqh-fatwa but how to became a proper being.

                        Ok "zina prevention" term is almost leave the topic.So what we must discuss is homosexual is legal or not according to Quran.

                        Salam

                        Okay, then we leave out other issue and focus on this question.

                        Okay we stop here, and you can continue by answering the following issue

                        Whether the verse in (7029-31) is referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                        It doesn't matter if it refers to same gender marriage or etc.

                        It is irrelevant at this point of time.

                        Peace.

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                          unknownuser
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                          Yes, so what is your question, brother??

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                            huruf
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                            I am really enjoying this, it is like watching a tennis grand slam being played without any balls

                            Bing bang
                            Bang bing

                            batting the air.

                            Salaam

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                              muslims
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                              Yes, so what is your question, brother??

                              Salam

                              Let us review our discussion.
                              (main issue)

                              This is your conclusion.

                              This is what you have agreed (see reference).

                              The word "mates" is referring to "spouses" and "marriage according to the Qur'an". Nonetheless, homosexual can also use their private parts to anyone whether or not there is marriage.

                              No. 1. YES, you agree homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone"; marriages and unions which are not marriages according to the Qur'an.

                              No. 2. YES, you agree the word "mates" mean "spouses"

                              No. 3. YES, you agree the word "spouses" means "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                              No. 4. YES, you agree the word marriages" means "marriages according to the Qur'an", except in (235-6), ie. zina prevention.

                              No. 5. YES, you agree that the issue of zina prevention in (235-6) is your own personal terms and does not relate to the Qur'an. It should not be discussed.

                              No. 6. Therefore and from point No. 5, (235-6) should be the same as (7019-35), ie. context relating to transgressions;

                              Is this correct?


                              REFERENCE

                              Firstly,

                              On the issue whether homosexual can use their private parts to anyone.

                              YES, you agree homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone"; marriages and unions which are not marriages according to the Qur'an.

                              Reference

                              Therefore your answer is B; ie. "Homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone" (ie. same-sex marriage, etc.)"

                              Secondly,

                              On the issue of whether "mates" is referring to "spouses"?

                              YES, you agree the word "mates" mean "spouses"

                              Reference

                              Please use common sense, what I mean mate is spouse of course

                              If we look by the conteks of the verses, mates (zawaj) is spouse.

                              Thirdly,

                              On the issue whether the word "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                              YES, you agree the word "spouses" means "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                              Reference

                              So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

                              Yes it does.

                              Fourthly,

                              On the issue whether the word "spouses" is referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                              YES, you agree the word marriages" means "marriages according to the Qur'an", except in (235-6), ie. zina prevention.

                              Reference

                              What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                              If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

                              If 235-6, it's not. This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

                              As you can see from the above, you are only denying on (235-6), and on the issue of zina prevention. You have no objection relating to (7019-35) as referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an".

                              Fifthly,

                              On the issue whether the word "spouses" in (235-6) is not related to zina prevention.

                              YES, you agree that the issue of zina prevention in (235-6) is your own personal terms and not related to the Qur'an. It should not be discussed; ie. context relating to transgression.

                              Reference

                              "Zena prevention" is my own term

                              Sixthly,

                              Comparison

                              |
                              Certainly will the believers have succeeded
                              They who are during their prayer
                              humbly submissive
                              And they who turn away
                              from ill speech
                              And they who are observant
                              of zakah
                              And they who guard
                              their private parts
                              Except from their wives/spouses
                              or those their right hands possess
                              for indeed, they will not be blamed
                              But whoever seeks beyond that
                              then those are the transgressors
                              And they who are to their trusts
                              and their promises attentive
                              And they who carefully maintain
                              their prayers
                              Those are the inheritors
                              Who will inherit al-Firdaus
                              They will abide therein eternally
                              (231-11)

                              |
                              |
                              Indeed, mankind was created anxious
                              When evil touches him, impatient
                              And when good touches him, withholding
                              Except the observers of prayer
                              Those who are constant in their prayer
                              And those within whose wealth is a known right
                              For the petitioner and the deprived
                              And those who believe in the Day of Recompense
                              And those who are fearful of the punishment of their Lord
                              Indeed, the punishment of their Lord is not that from which one is safe
                              And those who guard
                              their private parts
                              Except from their wives/spouses
                              or those their right hands possess
                              for indeed, they are not to be blamed
                              But whoever seeks beyond that
                              then they are the transgressors
                              And those who are to their trusts
                              and promises attentive
                              And those who are in their testimonies upright
                              And those who maintain their prayer
                              They will be in gardens, honored
                              (7019-35)

                              Peace

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                                GODsubmitter
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                                I am really enjoying this, it is like watching a tennis grand slam being played without any balls

                                Bing bang
                                Bang bing

                                batting the air.

                                Salaam

                                But is is not even amusing...

                                just utter nonsense...

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                                  bookish
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                                  But is is not even amusing...

                                  just utter nonsense...

                                  I couldn't agree more. It's turning into an earthdom vs muslims thread jedi. I'm not even getting what the argument is about....

                                  I have a suggestion for brothers earthdom and muslims please take your discussion off this thread...debate it among yourselves.....and then you can come back and tell us how the debate concluded.

                                  We are certainly interested in knowing how the debate concluded....but not in the name-calling that you both are getting into...

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                                    muslims
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                                    Salam

                                    Sorry.. but this is the issue

                                    Rules relating to "private parts" in the Qur'an (main issue) ...

                                    ISSUE

                                    Whether...

                                    Allah has permitted "marriage" and has forbidden everything else.

                                    if yes, then...

                                    Therefore, "same-sex-marriage" is prohibited since marriage is between man/woman
                                    and there is no such things as using "private parts" to anyone other than
                                    "wives" or "spouses".

                                    and whereas...

                                    EARTHDOM'S ARGUMENTS

                                    Earthdom's argument is..

                                    "Homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone" (ie. same-sex marriage, etc.)"

                                    Reason Homosexuality is not specifically forbidden in the Qur'an

                                    What God blame for transgression??

                                    I already told you, even @Abdul-Hadi also said to u.What God condemns in 780 is faahisyah not homosexual.

                                    Is homosexual the faahisyah in that verse??No absolutely not

                                    -First ayat 1660 (old lady also been punished for faahisyah)
                                    -Second homosexual already happens before Luth era.If homosexual is faahishah then Luth and God Himself contradict the fact.

                                    My counterarguments against Earthdom (refer here)

                                    How about sexual intercourse with animals?

                                    Can human beings make sexual intercourse with chickens? birds? goats? cows? cats?
                                    (Warning!! please buy health insurance to cover costs of surgery before involving with any of these animals, especially cats! I disclaim any responsibility for any wrongful or ridiculous advice from any members in this forum! ;D )

                                    Is it faahisyah?

                                    Allah did not mention it in the Qur'an, and people can declare it as their "mates" to escape any prohibitions, or even human laws (defence of lawful religious practices etc.).

                                    Now, do you realize your conclusion that "mates" can be of the same sex (or different sex) means all the rules in "the Qur'an is now self-contradicting"?

                                    All the rules relating to sexual prohibitions in the Qur'an is meaningless?

                                    These rules? (refer here)

                                    Including the rules that say homosexual is a transgression? (ie. the Qur'an is now self contradicting)

                                    In fact, we don't need rules relating to marriages.

                                    Is this your logic?

                                    A self-contradicting Qur'an?

                                    This is what Earthdom have agreed so far.

                                    This is your conclusion.

                                    This is what you have agreed (see reference).

                                    The word "mates" is referring to "spouses" and "marriage according to the Qur'an". Nonetheless, homosexual can also use their private parts to anyone whether or not there is marriage.

                                    No. 1. YES, you agree homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone"; marriages and unions which are not marriages according to the Qur'an.

                                    No. 2. YES, you agree the word "mates" mean "spouses"

                                    No. 3. YES, you agree the word "spouses" means "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                                    No. 4. YES, you agree the word marriages" means "marriages according to the Qur'an", except in (235-6), ie. zina prevention.

                                    No. 5. YES, you agree that the issue of zina prevention in (235-6) is your own personal terms and does not relate to the Qur'an. It should not be discussed.

                                    No. 6. Therefore and from point No. 5, (235-6) should be the same as (7019-35), ie. context relating to transgressions;

                                    MY ARGUMENTS

                                    My argument is...

                                    Homosexuals "must guard" their private parts except to "wives" (ie. marriage)

                                    Reason The Qur'an is not an Encyclopedia and does not need to mention all sexual offences. Allah only mention rules relating "private parts" and ALL HUMAN BEINGS have private parts. Accordingly, this rule applies to all, straight or homosexual. They must use their "private parts" only to their wives/spouses, ie. marriages according to the Qur'an.

                                    (from here)

                                    Therefore, the Qur'an does not need to mention the prohibition of sexual intercourse with animals or all other sexual offences, and at the same time, being fully detailed. That is how verses in the Qur'an is plain, perfect and fully detailed; ie. the "exclusionary principle".

                                    INTRO METHODOLOGY

                                    Alif Lam Ra (This is) a Book
                                    whose verses are made DECISIVE <- eg. La ilaha illa Allah
                                    then are they made PLAIN <- explanation, refer here and (2.67-71)
                                    from the Wise, All-aware
                                    (111)

                                    Earthdom's Counterarguments The word in the verse is "mates".

                                    This counterargument is now not valid since Earthdom agree that the actual word is "spouses"

                                    Please use common sense, what I mean mate is spouse of course

                                    If we look by the conteks of the verses, mates (zawaj) is spouse.Spouses is neutral in gender, it can be male or female.

                                    Of course spouse is neutral. Spouse is not a gender. It represents both husband and wife and no gender! Can we say "husband spouse" or "wife spouse"? Is marriage a gender? Male or female, boy or girl, man or woman is gender. Therefore, the word spouse is neutral and must be defined according context of the verses, ie. referring to wives.

                                    refer here, and different translations

                                    http//s10.postimg.org/q7yexo3k9/mates.png

                                    Peace

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                                      unknownuser
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                                      #486

                                      We are certainly interested in knowing how the debate concluded....but not in the name-calling that you both are getting into...

                                      We may play name-calling, but it's litte.Human's patience have some limitation.
                                      But name-calling is not the purpose for our discussion.

                                      Therefore, "same-sex-marriage" is prohibited since marriage is between man/womanand there is no such things as using "private parts" to anyone other than
                                      "wives" or "spouses".

                                      RED-BLUE Has no correlation.
                                      The example is Beauty salon mostly have female consuments.Is this means male cannot be a consument??

                                      http//s10.postimg.org/q7yexo3k9/mates.png

                                      You used human-made definitions for what is marriage-spouses.

                                      Peace

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                                        muslims
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                                        Salam

                                        Please explain further, I don't understand your point or what you are trying to object.

                                        By the way.. do you agree with this ayat?

                                        Then do they not reflect upon the Qur'an?
                                        If it had been from other than Allah
                                        they would have found within it much contradiction
                                        (482)

                                        Do you agree the rules in the Qur'an does not have a contradiction?

                                        Peace.

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                                          unknownuser
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                                          I see the homosexual is not forbidden but "against the standart".

                                          5345 And He is the One who has created the pair, the male and the female.

                                          By saying this, Is God forbids homosexual.As long as no prohibition, it's okay.

                                          The example is, like I said before

                                          -The standart The consuments of beauty salon is female.
                                          Is this means, a male consuments cannot go to beauty salon??

                                          As long as no prohibition, we okay to go there.

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