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Please Help! Don't no what to do - I believe Suicede is my best option in mycase

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    LastDay3
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    Salaam/Peace Man of Faith,

    I always hear lots of speculations, promises, teachings (in some aspects similar to yours, also in some aspects quite different ones as well),
    but I have never seen any "manifest/tangible/distinct Evidence" that could prove that those kind of speculations, promises, teachings
    are truly of Heavenly Origin.
    But because that this may not be the right place now to discuss it, so please, if you start a new Topic and present your
    "manifest/tangible/distinct Evidence" first that could undoubtedly prove to me that the Text/s you are following are truly of Heavenly Origin,
    I may have a serious look at it and discuss it thoroughly with you, in another thread, inshaAL-LAH, another time. handshake

    Remain in peace/salaam.

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      For example;
      Prophet David (Peace be upon Him) committed adultery and was utterly sorry for what he did,
      then when he immediately repented and returned to AL-LAH,
      our LORD totally erased his sin, and made him wholly clean and innocent,
      and made him stand up again perfectly as a whole new Person (=as one of HIS most honorable Servants and Messenger)
      in such a wonderful manner.
      (=QURAN TESTAMENT, Chapter 25, Verses 68-71)
      (Chapter 38, Verses 24-25) = (TORAH, Samuel 2, Chapter 11-12)

      this is not true for sure nope

      spend some more time my brother..

      Salaam/Peace Imran,

      even some of the most honorable Prophets may have committed such dire Sins (for example

      also Prophet Moses (Peace be upon Him) committed murder and was utterly sorry for what he did,
      then when he immediately repented and returned to AL-LAH,
      our LORD totally erased his sin, and made him wholly clean and innocent,
      and made him stand up again perfectly as a whole new Person (=as one of HIS most honorable Servants and Messenger)
      in such a wonderful manner.
      (=QURAN TESTAMENT, Chapter 25, Verses 68-71)
      (Chapter 28, Verses 15-16) = (TORAH, Exodus, Chapter 2)

      I see these Examples above as the Manifestation of Infinite MERCY and Immense GRACE of AL-LAH unto each and every one of us,
      and thus also True and Great HOPE for all of us, brother, in this respect here
      (=QURAN TESTAMENT, Chapter 39, Verse 53)

      Whether we may totally agree on this first Issue above, or not (=i.e. that dire Sin committed by Prophet David --Peace be upon Him-- above),
      but we may amicably and truthfuly discuss it, in detail, in another thread, soon, inshaAL-LAH.
      handshake

      Remain in peace/salaam.

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        LastDay3,

        There is tons of indications to its truthfulness.

        You can always reflect on why the word for maleikat basically means managers and why there are such.

        Your can always reflect on why the word Rabb means developer. The word "Rabbi" has often been seen as meaning something like teacher, using the root Ra-Be-Be's lexical meaning.

        The word "Allah" is a grammatical construct of what we could call a "full root", i.e. Alef-Lam-Lam plus the attached Heh third person singular. Often its third person plural Hem is Aldo used. Frequently I have made manifest that if Allah was a kind of " name" or noun then its plural form would be Alleh - hem which means double Heh in the word. Now people claim that you say "their God" like which is grammatically wrong. The truth is of the word is its own word and the a pronoun. means "is being like" and the gives the "who/which", i.e. a pronoun that is used to talk about it, third person. Allah hence means "Who is" or "Who is being" + possible attribute even if Allah alone as a word means "to be being".

        The problem is that you got to have faith in that this is true. Evidence is always a difficult parameter and particularly when a group of people in the past have systematically corrupted something. The evidence is in the soundness of the arguments and of course I am attenting to relate it in the best way of coherence. You can confirm it in past lore, but a problem is Quran is so damned misrepresenting in its current shape that one can be fooled the truth is that way.

        We could make a thread or you can inquire me in private messaging.

        Be well
        Amenuel

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          Alhamdulillah

          All praise to the one , to Allah.

          Brothers, this will be a long post. So I ask for your patience.

          I asked my friend to write to you Brothers, in proper English, so that the language wouldn't limit my words and of course because you deserve the best treatment.

          My brother showed me a video of a boy in Syria, getting interviewed by a Western Tv Channel right after bombarded. He looked around 10, he was saying that he was unconscious and that he woke up next to his grandmother or what was left of her ( May God forgive her and accept her ), he than said that all of his family and most of his relatives died. Yet, he did not even shed a tear on camera. He looked so strong. He just kept asking why? Why they do this to us? Why can't they love us alone? He also said that his brothers were praying to Allah when this happened.

          When I saw it I felt so ashamed of myself for even thinking about killing myself. I apologize in front of you all for spreading negativity in this forum.
          I don't know but when I was sitting and analyzing my life. I found a pattern so to say. I remember that since I was a kid I never found joy in things my peers enjoyed. I would never accept money when my relatives came in to our house. I always disliked when someone buyers me presents, sometimes even angry for why they did spend money on things that I can live without. Once I remember our relatives from US visited us and we're showing us videos from Them their hometown. While watching them I felt so sad. I went into my room and cried for them. I just felt really sad for them, I can't remember now as to why? What was the reason?
          Oh, you are so blessed my dear brother. You observe the world like a mature person. I was way too immature to get lessons from other people's lives when I was 15. One of my cousins once told us that there are two kinds of sorrows in this world. The first one can be controlled and the second one is uncontrollable. He lost his father that time. So the second kind of sorrow was a reflection of that. Now I know what this means. That said, sometimes some controllable sorrows do overwhelm us. Patience and praying to God for strength are the two cures for it. You didn't spread negativity. Probably, many among us had that suicide thought when we were of your age. Some adults around me still talk about it when the pressure is too much to take.

          But one pattern I'm sure of. That whenever I saw someone do something Illogical/Useless or Sinfull as religious people might say. Got me into big troubles. Even though people around me do them all the time. It is as if when I try to do something to feel as other act Angry/Arrogant/Unlogical/Young/Using emotion rather reason, I got a big punch from the Universe as to not do it again.

          I remember when I was a kid I constantly got bullied and I never gave aggression back. Always avoided conflicts wanted to be friends with everyone. However once I decided to imitate my other classmates and I punched my bully back however he fell into a bookshelf which had glass doors. And by trying to copy others my Mom ended up paying 50 Turkish Liras. Which was a lot of money at that point of our life's because we were illegal immigrants running from a Military Conflict in my native country.
          And there are q lot of examples of this phenomenon in my life.

          I only felt an attachment to this world when I started playing Football. And now it looks like as if maybe God/Allah/TheOne is telling me something.

          Oh, you are so blessed my dear brother. You observe the world like a mature person. I was way too immature to get lessons from other people's lives when I was 15. One of my cousins once told us that there are two kinds of sorrows in this world. The first one can be controlled and the second one is uncontrollable. He lost his father that time. So the second kind of sorrow was a reflection of that. Now I know what this means. That said, sometimes some controllable sorrows do overwhelm us. Patience and praying to God for strength are the two cures for it. You didn't spread negativity. Probably, many among us had that suicide thought when we were of your age. Some adults around me still talk about it when the pressure is too much to take. But yeah, teen years are sensitive. This is when we tend to be hurt by what others do or say about us. Perhaps, it has something to do with hormonal change, but, it tends to be challenging. Lol, after hitting 20s and traveling a bit, I learned it is universal. So hang on. There is a high possibility that there is a lesson in what happened. Passion is one step closer to achievement and in sports, brutality seems to rule the day. I loved playing tennis, but my heart was stolen by archery. I decided to not go into any of them simply because I found our coaches hotheaded. One of them kept encouraging me to join his team. I refused out of fear. As per my observation, life in sports is rough. So maybe this is one way Allah is preparing you for what is coming? One needs a lot of strength to face the brutal bullies and ongoing unnecessary criticisms of public.

          Don't worry about frowning upon those who have a need to show off or not wanting anything from anyone. You are just an independent person with the urge to do your own thing in your own way. In short, you lean towards being original, but by keeping your head in check. You won't do well if you try to go with the flow. It will make you just feel like you are losing yourself.

          I understand that I will die one day. However was I someone even before being brought up into this world? Where were we? Why are we here? In a place that is cruel and evil in its core? Scientists say that even the oxygen which we need to survive is playing in a role in our aging process. One of our body's life force is killing us? Is this world some sort of a punishment?

          In the book of Revelations it says that number of beast is the number of man, and that its 666.
          As I know the Hydrogen atom consists of 6 Protons x 6 Electrons x 6 Neutrons. And it is one of the biggest life blocks of this existence we call the world. So the work around us and we ourselves are the Beasts? Are we the Devils ? Are we already in Hell? Because I know that no human being would agree that this place is Heaven. Can we make it a Heaven? Or something close to it? Are we selfish by just waiting and hoping to go to Heaven? Why don't we try to bring heaven on earth?
          Didn't God say that he put Adam as his Representatives?

          Because as I understand when God says that all the things prostates to him, it means that everything around us is working by laws of God. Laws of Physics, Chemistry, Bilogy, Never would a vertically falling rock stop in mid air and say " Oh, I don't really want to Obey the creator today, so let me fly to the left instea". Because as I understand it always obeys the Creator and his laws. As God created everything, Logically we too have laws that we must obey and submit too right? And by doing that doesn't God tells us that He will give the submitters to his law, growth and security? So the world is like a playground for us for us to manifest gods will? All this would make sense if it wasn't for a thing called Death. Because of this phenomenon, I cannot decipher the reality In living in.

          And brothers as I don't know Arabic I tried to read the Quran in different translations but as one can see already there are so many interpretations of this One Same book, that sometimes it sounds like a whole different book to read. And the hell Heaven interpretations I'm getting today just don't make sense to me. I'm sorry. Of course God knows the Best. However he gave me a Mind right? Doesn't an ayat Say that one shouldn't believe something without comprehending it first? I cannot find the exact ayat, Let Allah forgive me if I say something that is not true.

          Let's even say that the official lore is true, what if My mother will end up in Heaven and I will end up in Hell, would my Mother be at peace in Heaven?

          Is there concrete answers? Why are there so many uncertenties/interpretations around One book? Which says that it is written so that it easily understandble?

          Hope you are all well

          I'm eager to know more about the Reality/The Truth

          Adam's ancestors were ferocious. So originally we were like animals. The traits still remain in us like parasites. God tells us to have control over them because they take us back to where we came from (the wild). If you notice all the laws in Quran you will find that they are leaned towards making us civilized and organized. When men forget these laws they turn into beasts as well as preys destroying one another. As for the multiple interpretations, almost all holybooks of the world suffer from this and it is merely part of the test and time.

          However, if you approach the Quran by keeping in the mind that God wants us to move forward instead of backward then you will start to get the laws better. You are already mindful of signs you see in your environment. This is what works as one of the tools to knowing what God tells us to do.

          Welcome to the forum.

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            For example;
            Prophet David (Peace be upon Him) committed adultery and was utterly sorry for what he did,
            then when he immediately repented and returned to AL-LAH,
            our LORD totally erased his sin, and made him wholly clean and innocent,
            and made him stand up again perfectly as a whole new Person (=as one of HIS most honorable Servants and Messenger)
            in such a wonderful manner.
            (=QURAN TESTAMENT, Chapter 25, Verses 68-71)
            (Chapter 38, Verses 24-25) = (TORAH, Samuel 2, Chapter 11-12)

            peace last day

            quran 25/ 68-71 , sorry to say david is not there in the verses... these verses are for every beleiver in advise mode.. david is absent there

            and now come on other reference

            3824 He said "He has wronged you by asking to combine your lamb with his lambs. And many who mix their properties take advantage of one another, except those who believe and do good works, and these are very few." And David guessed that We had tested him, so he sought forgiveness from his Lord, and fell down kneeling, and repented.

            3825 So We forgave him in this matter. And for him with Us is a near position, and a beautiful abode.

            3826 O David, We have made you a successor on the earth. Therefore, you shall judge among the people with the truth, and do not follow desire, lest it diverts you from the path of God. Indeed, those who stray off the path of God will have a severe retribution for forgetting the Day of Reckoning.

            clearly the quran is telling us it was a wrong judgement based on desire of apparent findings.. thats what we usually do in our daily life if someone comes up with his sorrow and tell us things against the family at the first we think its wrong .. but after a while we get to know the fammily is doing right becoz he is druggee , gambler wasted all the money there so no more favors to him becoz they know he will waste..

            my brother be careful about your words ...

            rest of the messengers we will discuss in other threads...

            moses killed a person accidently but it was a mistake not a sin.. there is a difference between mistake and sin..

            at first he should not hit someone becoz God advising us to be humble , he breaks the rule but he was not about to kill that person accidently he get killed and moses suffered a lot due to this ..

            and open a new threads the sins of prophets and we will discuss it there..

            handshake

            as far i know apart from younas , nobody did something which make God angry but again he repented and God forgive him.. even it was not a sin it was disobedience , he was not about to leave the town but he left it wothout the permisiion of God.. and soon he realsied he did something wrong... he did not harm annybody just he wronged himself...

            even the event most of the people describe here address prophet muhammed regarding fawned , its not address to him its address to the person who was in the same gathering and i m opening a new thread you guys have a look into it we will discuss there in detail...

            peace

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              LastDay3
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              LastDay3,

              There is tons of indications to its truthfulness.
              ................
              ................

              Salaam/Peace Man of Faith,

              "indication" is a very weak/subjective/blurry/shaky/deceptive term to me, especially when it is used without presenting any "manifest/tangible/distinct Evidence"
              that would clearly and unmistakably show the Heavenly Origin of an Instruction/Text/Teaching, first of all, dear friend Man of Faith.
              handshake

              So, due to the Fact that exclusively and only QURAN can give me that "manifest/tangible/distinct Evidence"
              I have been searching for in my whole life,

              http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9608585.0

              that is why it is the One and Only Instruction/Text/Teaching, I take it so seriously and I believe in it wholeheartedly.
              I have seen and heard (and continue to see and hear) many other (old or new) Religious Instructions/Texts/Teachings, all of them always claim
              to be full of "indications" to their truthfulness, without presenting any "manifest/tangible/distinct Evidence," first of all.

              In this Age of Science and Technology and "Mathematics" that is clearly and unmistakably witnessed in both
              as a deeply embedded Fundamental Property of our whole Universe & Nature, even from the very beginning,

              NOVA The Great Math Mystery PBS
              https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ocq8OR4OydQ

              and so, (old or new) any Religious Doctrine/Instruction/Teaching that does not even bother itself presenting any such "manifest/tangible/distinct (Scientific/Mathematic) Evidences"
              --(as QURAN unmistakably and clearly presents it above)-- that could absolutely show that they are truly of Heavenly Origin, first of all,
              are absolutely Not worthy of a serious consideration, for me, even in the first place, and not at all.

              will continue later on, inshaAL-LAH.
              handshake

              Remain in peace/salaam.

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                Peace,

                God gave you a taste of the results of your sin, He exposed your shame, now, you are much better to have that shame exposed in this life, and to repent to God and purify yourself from such things, that prehaps you might be saved.

                I would not recomend suicide, and you will certainly go to hell if you intentionaly kill yourself, as that is the ultimate act of ingratitude, and a horrendous sin.

                Peace be upon you, and may God show mercy to you and heal you.

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                  Peace,

                  God gave you a taste of the results of your sin, He exposed your shame, now, you are much better to have that shame exposed in this life,

                  peace brother,

                  two things.. first you need to talk with somebody in appropriate manner.. he is already in a situation so politeness is the key..

                  second thing why are you blaming God for this... the guy who recorded video do you think its the God plan to wrong people..or its God who let people go astray... if it the case prove me a single person who did not do mastarbution... ?

                  and why did not all get recorded ?

                  contradiction vs contradiction...

                  peace

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                    peace brother,

                    two things.. first you need to talk with somebody in appropriate manner.. he is already in a situation so politeness is the key..

                    second thing why are you blaming God for this... the guy who recorded video do you think its the God plan to wrong people..or its God who let people go astray... if it the case prove me a single person who did not do mastarbution... ?

                    and why did not all get recorded ?

                    contradiction vs contradiction...

                    peace

                    Peace,
                    I speak things how they are, im not going to sugarcoat the truth, if someone is put in a situation like that, they feel ashamed..

                    God does not wrong people, it is them who wrong themselves.

                    God is in control of everything, nothing happens except by his permission... etc

                    God tests us all in individual ways, and he lets us taste some of the evil of our deeds so that we may return.

                    I do realy not desire to argue with you in any matter, because in my experience it seems like you just wish to critisise me, and yet i ask you to produce proof, and you cant. all my views are based on the quran alone, and i can produce the evidence to back them up, God willing, to the best of my ability.

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                      imrankhawaja
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                      Peace,
                      I speak things how they are, im not going to sugarcoat the truth, if someone is put in a situation like that, they feel ashamed..

                      God does not wrong people, it is them who wrong themselves.

                      God is in control of everything, nothing happens except by his permission... etc

                      God tests us all in individual ways, and he lets us taste some of the evil of our deeds so that we may return.

                      I do realy not desire to argue with you in any matter, because in my experience it seems like you just wish to critisise me, and yet i ask you to produce proof, and you cant. all my views are based on the quran alone, and i can produce the evidence to back them up, God willing, to the best of my ability.

                      i dnt like talking personal things, and i never did it.... i can understand when people sometimes get answeless they show their inner feelings what you just show... but it dosent matter.. i will not mind it.. coming back to topic

                      what you are saying = contradiction again....

                      in the light of God alone law..

                      now equation is like this contradiction vs contradiction vs contradiction... !

                      i have a question from you can you provide a reference from quran doing masturbution consider as a sin ? if no then its mean multiply contradiction by 4

                      peace and stay happy...

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                        i dnt like talking personal things, and i never did it.... i can understand when people sometimes get answeless they show their inner feelings what you just show... but it dosent matter.. i will not mind it.. coming back to topic

                        what you are saying = contradiction again....

                        in the light of God alone law..

                        now equation is like this contradiction vs contradiction vs contradiction... !

                        i have a question from you can you provide a reference from quran doing masturbution consider as a sin ? if no then its mean multiply contradiction by 4

                        peace and stay happy...

                        peace.

                        if all you see are contradictions prehaps the contradiction is your own.

                        'do not follow the footsteps of satan'
                        'if i were to follow desires after the truth i would be misguided'
                        'you shall serve god alone'

                        realy do you think masturbation in a toilet is following gods path?

                        peace, for you are your deeds and for me are mine, i no longer wish to discuss this, if you are justifying such, then i will not, and god will judge between us on the day of account.

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                          LastDay3
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                          ==================================================
                          Tell MY servants to talk (to each other) in the best possible manner,
                          for the devil will always try to drive a wedge among them.
                          Surely, the devil is man's most ardent enemy.

                          QURAN TESTAMENT 17/53

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                            ==================================================
                            Tell MY servants to talk (to each other) in the best possible manner,
                            for the devil will always try to drive a wedge among them.
                            Surely, the devil is man's most ardent enemy.

                            QURAN TESTAMENT 17/53

                            alhamdullilah, good reminder

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                              imrankhawaja
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                              peace.

                              if all you see are contradictions prehaps the contradiction is your own.

                              'do not follow the footsteps of satan'
                              'if i were to follow desires after the truth i would be misguided'
                              'you shall serve god alone'

                              realy do you think masturbation in a toilet is following gods path?

                              peace, for you are your deeds and for me are mine, i no longer wish to discuss this, if you are justifying such, then i will not, and god will judge between us on the day of account.

                              i will make long story short...

                              who authorised you to say masturbution is a sin?
                              then you said God gave you a taste of the results of your sin, He exposed your shame
                              blaming God instead of that boy who recorded his video...

                              discussion here is about making video of a person privacy... its between God and masturbutor?

                              who gave you a license to claim a personal act as a sin ?
                              who gave you license of spreading lie against God, or blame a god in the act of video maker?

                              now if you revise all this here is a contradiction..
                              and then i told you to provide a proof whether masturbution is sin you failed again?

                              instead of focusing on masturbution subject for pondering is on video making and sharing on social media...

                              and there is a matter of somebody life in it, so you need to be polite thats what i told you but you did not focus on that point. how rude and dangerous is it.. what if he get hurt and take his life who is responsible you , your words, or God, or wrong approach of understanding..

                              anyway..
                              peace

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                                LastDay3
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                                Salaam/Peace,

                                I think it cannot be called a "Sin" because it is not specifically forbidden in QURAN TESTAMENT.
                                But perhaps, it may certainly be called a "Reckless Behavior," because every believer must absolutely take all precautions to protect his/her privacy
                                everywhere and also and especially in all public areas, restrooms, etc. in this Age.

                                But to invade someone's privacy (whether in a home or in anywhere else) in order to humiliate him/her is absolutely a Dire Sin. (=49/11-12)

                                What-To-Do,
                                you should never bother yourself with it, after this, dear Brother, just trust in AL-LAH, with all your heart,
                                wholeheartedly repent and return to HIM,
                                and you are already totally Clean and Innocent, in HIS Eyes, and in the eyes of all HIS believing Servants,
                                always and forever, inshaAL-LAH.

                                May AL-LAH forgive all of our transgressions and sins and mistakes in our past and may admit us into HIS Heaven,
                                as eternal friends, brothers and sisters,
                                in such a Most GRACIOUS & Most BENEVOLENT Manner here

                                (=Quran Testament 25/70-71)

                                always and forever, inshaAL-LAH.

                                Remain in peace/salaam.

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                                  inshAllah

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                                    LastDay,

                                    Many indications together form suspicious points and from whence I have worked. I think you are just working hard to find something to complain about regarding my linguistic use. If you observed I never said that all my work is based on "indications". An indication is something which points in a direction to be true whereas it is not the evidence by itself.

                                    Evidence is usually ambiguous because it is a matter of perspective and language of conveyance. If you look into the examples I gave in the previous post you see I did not write about indication regarding Maleikat for example. It is more that the nature of the root Miim-Lam-Kaf SHOWS how it should be used linguistically and what it means.

                                    Be well
                                    Amenuel

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                                      Peace to everyone,

                                      Please do not think that I masturbated in a public Bathroom.

                                      I live in a The academy's boarding school, where I share a room with 3 boys. We have our own bathroom/shower room our room.

                                      And apparently they had put a camera in the bathroom/shower room. I couldn't do it in the room because I'm not alone in the room all the time. And that's why I've do it there, because I believed it to be the most privet place I can be in. Of course I never want it for anyone to see it, because it's my body.

                                      If we had cameras in our homes bathrooms/shower rooms what would have the our world turned?
                                      Someone still keeps putting the video on different p*rn websites. One of them have already over ca. 9 million views. And the websites servers are located outside of my country's legal authority. So they can't take them off instantly. And everything keeps getting worse and worse.

                                      My family are Kurds. And in our country we have a pretty big Kurdish diaspora. We have things like honor kills in our culture. I know a girl who was killed for having sexual relations with a Christian boy before marriage. She got killed because she dishonored her family and the whole community.

                                      My brother told me that people from our Kurdish diaspora want to kill me. Because I dishonored the whole community. I know that I need to move away. I can't live my normal life anymore. But Where do I go? I'm really scared.What to do ? I want to get over this nightmare. But the people around don't allow me to do it.

                                      I was in masjid yesterday. The Muslim people were looking at very aggressively and judgingly. I don't feel safe. My friends ignore me, except for one friend. When I try to talk to little children, Their moms take away their children from me looking at me with disgust as if I'm some sort of a pervert or a pedophile.

                                      I was sitting in the train with my little brother and there were sitting two boys in front of us. They were smirking all the train ride. And when they were getting off, one of them told my brother that "your bro is a porn star".

                                      My friend is from Lebanon is keep saying a Arabic word that I did not undeestand. And when I asked him, he said that he asks the God to take my soul away, as soon as possible for my own sake.

                                      I'm afraid for my security. There is a big hostility towards me from the people of my country. What to do?
                                      I have no one to ask for an objective opinion.

                                      Peace to everyone

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                                        Salaam,

                                        You have a lot of questions and that is great at your age I was already corrupt by adolescence and worldly things.
                                        I am glad to at least see that you are pondering about The Message and your Creator.

                                        I think the best advice I can give you is to begin studying the Quran earnestly.
                                        I am going to hand you tools to help you study the Quran.
                                        Allah is the Only One upon Whom the Explanation of the Quran is due so seek Him and His Ligtht with your soul, mind and entire being.

                                        Try to use translations that are not by any single interpreter seeking his own fame.
                                        Use word for word translations like

                                        1. corpus.quran.com http//corpus.quran.com/wordbyword.jsp
                                        2. islamawakaned.com http//www.islamawakened.com/index.php/qur-an

                                        Use Root concordances from corpus to better grasp the meaning of certain roots

                                        Don't rely on the translations but double check the meaning of a translated word by checking the roots

                                        1. Project Root List http//www.studyquran.co.uk/PRLonline.htm

                                        What is your native language?

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                                          Salaam/Peace What-To-Do,

                                          the only situation AL-LAH gives permission to HIS Servants to lie is when our life is in danger (=i.e. we are under threat of being murdered, or tortured, etc.) (=16/106)
                                          So I believe, I may lawfully recommend you in your dire situation now, these

                                          1. You may immediately tell those (oppressive people who would otherwise murder or torture you) that the video is fake not real,
                                            and the person recorded in the video is not you.

                                          2. Immediately have a new haircut, have a beard, eyeglasses, etc. that may give you a total new look.

                                          3. Request from your one and only friend in this dire situation to help you in any way he can.
                                            Remind him that those who save one Person's life will be rewarded by AL-LAH as he saved all Humanity. (=5/32)

                                          4. I will wholeheartedly pray for you to our Lord AL-LAH; HE is the One and Only Best Protector & Best Savior.

                                          dear Brother, just trust in AL-LAH, with all your heart,
                                          wholeheartedly repent and return to HIM,
                                          and you are already totally Clean and Innocent, in HIS Eyes, and in the eyes of all HIS believing Servants,
                                          always and forever, inshaAL-LAH.

                                          (=Quran Testament 25/70-71)

                                          Remain in peace/salaam.

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