Okay, Finally Need Marital Advice
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Salam,
A king read three letters from the same man, but did not answer.
The subject wrote a complaint, saying, ?Three times now I have petitioned your majesty. Let your majesty at least say whether my petition has been accepted or rejected.?
The king wrote on the back of the letter,?Do you not know that refusing an answer is an answer itself, and that the answer to a fool is silence??
--Rumi
Salam,
Arnab -
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rotfl now that's comedy
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you know what you all people who do not say amen to what Alaraf says. You are all going to hell, you are al backbiters and infidels and... wht was it again? ... Never mind, just ask Alaraf for the hell's plat du jour and you will be served to your full satisfaction.
And, Keeley, just take it easy, take some distance. You sound like an adolescent full anxiety as if her whole life and happinness was being decided, on that minute, that date, that afternoon, that smile, that lack of smile. TAKE-IT-EASY. Life is short, but not that short. One's fate is not decided that fast, that quick, and rearely is irreversible. Do what some other friend has already posted, have positive things to say. It is better to encourage with good thoughts of the many things are are good and beuatiful and well with you and with him, that remind constantly of the things that are not just as you like. Better spend time being thankful and counting what you might not have and you do, than linger on all you miss.
Salaam, and how is that hell doing today, Alaraf?