Thanks everyone for the advices. Actually id discussed with parents before. And he was sending message to my dad also to talk to him plus he is staying close to our family. But unfortunately it doesnt work because my parents want me to focus on my study first (am in 4rd year medical degree) n its also for my benefits. But for now how can i talk to him again that theres no hope. Plus he need to make plan for his future n might need to return to his country because of his parents. Or are there still hope. Honestly am trying to be far from him because am hopeless and dont wnna keep the hope. Because i feel i have to move on. But sometimes its difficult so i dont know whats the best way as he still want to be in relationship. Another issue is even we both r practicing muslims. Somehow shaitan is there n i feel we r doing sins even in long distance relationship. So am afraid because of those sins that i did .itll effect my process of gaining knowldge n am afraid allah will get angry on me n make me fail in my 4rd year (

Salaam alaykum . Ive been looking fr such forum since so long. Am a 24 y.o muslim girl. Ive been in serious relationship with a male friend for more than 2 year and we are putting efforts towards marriage. As am still struggling in medical school n hv few years left am not allowwd by my parents to think of marriage. Plus my bf is far living in my country while am abroad.another problem which i feel made my parents dont agree is because he is Pakistani and maybe my parents had seen many not good pakistani + very different cultures etc so they dont want me to suffer after marriage. I understand my parents well they are well educatee n they are afraid am not be able to manage my medical studies+marriage.regarding of him being pakistani i feel its not fair for my family to judge him as he is a good guy. at the same time am loving him a lot. I had given up on him many times due to a lot of barriers + allah knows am trying my best to keep my limits as a muslim girl because i dont want us to fall on sins again n again. N sometimes i feel to move on and leave him but he is still being so loyal with me and putting efforts. So i feel not fair for me to misbehaved with him. What shud i do