Thank you for asking! You may enjoy reading my posts on this forum, as they can give you a strong understanding of Allah.

It is not known the end result for certain of anything, but what is known is the origin of everything and that is Allah, and the end result will be whatever Allah decides to make anyone experience. These children in my opinion are innocent of any wrongdoing. If Allah makes their experience good or bad is Allah's power and command only. As for us, we should treat them well and help them as much as possible, as I would categorize them along with other people who are mentally deficient. The Qur'an says

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Do not entrust your property to the feeble-minded. God has made it a means of support for you make provision for them from it, clothe them, and address them kindly.

They are not to be left un-cared for or on their own, but must be supported and dealt with kindly.

Thanks for your input brother ! A really good verse to start this topic ! Sometimes, I tend to forgot that answers are in the Book...
But I still ask myself questions about the nafs, which should be automatically present in human beings, as well as the ruh

Be careful, if she knows this then she might take advantage of it later, and you will receive no benefit for the trouble. If its 'hurting a little bit emotionally' that means you can't really be just friends.

Just my input.

Not a friend like any other else, a"special friend", but still a friend.
I'm not ready to "be here for her whenever she needs" like I used to not so long ago. I can confront her right now.
But really thank you for your advice, I get what you mean and I will surely be careful

Salam and thanks to all those who gave me advice about my story
@Little Mannie I wish I could liberate myself from the power she has over me, but I really can't... it's about emotions, which is hard to control, and I happen to fall strongly in love when I meet some one, which is a sure weakness
She is my first crush and I feel that she will always be special to my eyes. She made me change some bad habits etc...
But as time pass, I feel less and less love for her. Last week, she told me that she was not at ease with me talking to her (something she already told me last summer), because she is sick of men, and that I shouldn't be speaking to her after what she did to me. She told me I was a nice guy and that she was a mean girl (something she never said), and for that reason I will find a girl better than her. But I know that if I talk to her in a month, she will probably be enthusiastic. That's the way she is, unpredictable... but I know that I CAN'T accept a return from her. I will always be friend with her, but nothing more, even if it will always hurt a little bit emotionnaly
I don't know if it has been the case for some people around here?

I agree that the universe is wonderful.
Not all things seen are galaxies. There are a few nearby stars too, these are the bright spots that have the "+" and "X" lines emanating from the center.
I don't know what television programs you have watched, but I have seen deep field images from Hubble on TV more than once.
When looking into filters used, I realize that I misrepresented how the XDF image was produced, since apparently it comes from merging numerous exposures taken over a period of several years, using more than one of Hubble's various cameras sensitive to different wavelengths. From what I gather they used five different filters in the visible-light range and four additional filters in the near-infrared spectrum https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2oZ8xaICsg

ok, maybe because I didn't watch enough specialized programs, or I don't have a good eye lol.
Thanks for the info )

@Magnus
Salam. So all the colored things on the photo you published are galaxies? Al hamdulah, that's really wonderful. But how does it come that they never show this when they show images of the universe at television? Did they use a special filter?

Thank you so much Abdul Hadi, experience speak right there! I see that your experience is worst than mine. But I see that it turned up good for you, hamdulilah. It was the first time I dated a girl, and at age 22 it's also highly unusual right there. That's why it affected me so much. I lost my virginity with this girl!
I think she is quite serious too now that she experienced fornication, and all the shame that can come from it. I agree with you when you say that agreement on beliefs is important, but I still think about the "opposite attract" thing..
I don't know why, but I just find girls in hijab gorgeous (depend on their dress style also of course). But I hate their lack of acceptance that mainstream has been distorted (I can't accept stories like punishment of the grave)
I'm a bit active in dating websites, but in France, a few people would agree to give up on sunnism to just be muslims. Sad, very sad..

Thanks Man of faith, God bless you too

@dhb (your pseudo is too long to write lol) he didn't really love you if he ignored you. I remember, with her it was phonemessageover phone message, everytime of the day. It was childish, but it made me feel great.

Salam,

I read both passages, they simply indicate different conversations that Abraham had at different times.

The first conversation (1941-49) you can see that Abraham has made-up his mind about what actions he will take and that he will leave his people - but first he tries to convince his father to revert to submission.

The second conversation (2152-72) seems to have happened afterwards where Abraham goes out and confronts his people (note his father, although present, is quite during this exchange as he already knows Abraham's position - and it is the people who are answering/speaking).

Regards,

Salam. Yes, to me it's quite clear that his confrontation with his father in sura 19 happened before the confrontation with his whole people. So you tell me that in the exchange with his father, he tell him that he's ready to separate from them but didn't do it immediately after. Then his people want to burn him, and then he leave the town and have Isaac and Jacob?

Hi everyone

I saw a video about children raised by animals yesterday. These children have an animal behavior they don't speak, they feed and behave like the animals they have been raised by http//www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-503736/Werewolf-boy--snarls-bites--run-police-escaping-Moscow-clinic.html

I was wondering how Allah swt will judge chldren like him? And doesn't the language come from Him? Do this child have a soul? Questions like this whuch disturb me. Thanks for your advices

Salam wa3laykum.
I been wondering for a while what type of State should a muslim country (or at least a majorly muslim country) should establish? A republic? A democracy? A state without head of governrnent but little self-organized groups of people living according to their own laws? I thought maybe the last one is correct according to my understanding of the Quran, but public services like water, electricity, etc... would be impossible to provide.
Any of your feedbacks would be appreciated ) Salam

Salam everybody!! I'm Bilal, 23, from north of France, still a student. Here is my story.
When I went to university, I visited an atheist french website who exposed many "contradictions" of the Quran. I was depressed, not knowing what to think Does God really exist? Everytime I had a little free time, I checked things on human body, or nature, who could convince me that yes, It exists (I don't put a He, bcz God doesn't have sex). It lasted around 2 years, and all my beliefs were still shaked
Then, I came across some websites translating differently harsh vrses like the infamous 434 (eeeeeeverybody knows it), and then free-minds, where criticism of hadiths, etc... conforted me in my belief in God. It was in summer 2011. Took me a long time to create a profile, but I as more a listener than somebody who talks (it's changing now)

noooow let's talk about my heart problems in may2013, I met a girl (I never dated before), who came to me indirectly. She is a hijabi, but she was funny, dressing in skinny jeans, etc... and above all very beautiful ))
problem is she is a die hard sunni, even though she was not always practicing. And at this time, I considered salat to not being a physical worship, so you could imagine how she reacted when I told her my thoughts. She incited me to listening to conferences by conservative preachers, and when I criticised them, she was angry and didn't want to talk to me. And the big problem is also she had just been rejected by her boyfriend. She told me she thought of suicide after that. And I didn't realise that although she highly appreciated me, I was just a toy for her, to replace her ex (i was soooooo blinded by love). She didn't love me, and my views on religion were unacceptable to her. And even though I started to change in her direction, it was not still enough for us to being compatible. She broke my heart, bcz she and her reconciliated (it didn't last longer than 2 weeks between them though). And now she is in love with a french lebanese (it was her fantasy) and I still have feeling for her bcz it disturb me that she is in love with someone else. We are still friends today.
Do somebody lived the same kind of story? Could you give me advices? I think that religion would have been a huge obstacle, but I'm still in love with her personnality, her recklessness. I know there are wise people right here)
I never told nobody about my story, I don't want to appear weak in front of people i know.
Thanks everybody!!!

First of all HII EVERYBODY!! . I'm new to this forum but it's been around 2 or 3 weeks that I travel it and there are wise people.

I remember this summer visiting an anti-islam website, you probably know it, answering-islam. They are, of course, biased people as I could see through their "analysis". But they pointed out something that I didn't been able to uncloud in my head.

From s19.v41 to s19.v49, it says that Abraham was argumenting with his father, then denying what they worship and separate from them, and finally having Isaac and Jacob when he seperated from them.
And from s21.v52 to s21.v72, it relates the well-known version when Abraham talked to his father and his people, destroy the idols, people wanna burn him, Abraham escaping this supplice, leaving this place and having Jacob ans Isaac.

I don't know if everybody understood my problem but I don't reach to make fit the two versions of Abraham's story.

Hope to meet enlighted people who could resolve my problem, because this kind of issue with the Quran take over my mind for the whole day.
Thanks peace