Salaam Bornfree,
Wouldn't you be interested to know where the people you have been living with for years Zenje?
I guess I'm not really qualified to answer that question. But knowing me, the only reason I'd even care to see some people who treated me that bad (which I don't), would be to look at them and do this - roll - and leave. And I think that's not even worth my time. What can I say, I don't even bother looking for my own family, especially now I'm 10,000 miles away from most of them... and they treat me nice! But hey, that's me... lot's of people find that weird.
Peace.