Peace.
How does one grieve for a family member who dies?
Is there a correct way to do it?
How can anybody tell us HOW to grieve? Its a personal feeling u get when someone around u dies. Its something u have to work through. And "a correct way", I mean I guess there is a correct way for u and perhaps another correct way for me, but how to work through a lost and that sad feeling is so individuall. It cannot be told how to deal with.
I wish there was an easy answer to this question since I lost my father last week. But there isnt.
I also belive that grieving is kind of an egoistic feeling. I mean, I feel sad because I wont be able to see him again, and because I didnt get to say all the things I wanted to. But for him, dying must have been a relief. Thats what Im trying to focus on.