aoa guys,
what is the best way to control oneself from committing actions one commits without wanting to and then feels guilty about doing that (asks repentance and makes a promise with Allah that he/she will not commit the action again but it happens again and again).
thanks in advance )
My first guess? Remembrance of Allah.
If a person has to prostrate themselves and recite Qu'ran nonstop for several whole days to keep from committing this act, then that is what they have to do. If it doesn't take that much, then they are fortunate to have superior self-control.
Here are some verses
Recite what is sent of the Book by inspiration to thee and establish Regular Prayer for Prayer restrains from shameful and unjust deeds; and remembrance of Allah is the greatest (thing in life) without doubt. And Allah knows the (deeds) that ye do. 2945
Recite what is sent of the Book by inspiration to thee and establish Regular Prayer for Prayer restrains from shameful and unjust deeds; and remembrance of Allah is the greatest (thing in life) without doubt. And Allah knows the (deeds) that ye do. 2945
Those who fear Allah when a thought of evil from satan assaults them bring Allah to remembrance when lo! they see (aright)! 7201
O ye who believe! when ye meet a force be firm and call Allah in remembrance much (and often); that ye may prosper. 845
I hope this helps in some way!