For me, my sunni friends have been very understanding and one of them wishes me to send him emails to see my point of view and help whichever one of us is right, he is a Saudi, and I have an Algerian and a Palestinian associate who are the same, perhaps a little less vocal about their views.
However, I think my situation is incredibly unique compared to most and has limited the amount of critisisms certain Muslims can hurl at me. Whereas I only dread some of the hardships others of our predicament when they are in less favourable circumstances...