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Hitting One's Wife.

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    zenje
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    It didn't take too long did it. True colors always come out sooner or later. It took a little longer with some others, but this guy here, I think beat the record. You know who I'm talking about... the guys who come in to the forum, all nice and ready to discuss in a civil manner... it started with;

    Thanks for the welcome.

    Don't worry I am not here to attack anyone's faith.

    I am not against Islam or Muslims - I love them.

    aww... next thing you know (literally, 3 days later!)...

    Sorry, I'm not playing silly games.

    Believe what you want.

    It doesn't change the fact you are a deluded loony fringe.

    I have to admit I had no idea this site was a Qur'an only site.

    While I despise the literalists like the Wahhabis - frankly, they have more integrity than Qur'an only... ers lol

    Dang!... what happened to all the lovey dovey crap we were being fed just a few posts ago? rotfl

    I was a Muslim for 48 years.

    I only finally decided to reject Islam a few months ago.

    Actually he had a better chance of 'becoming a muslim' a few months ago, than all of his "48 years" combined.

    Ah well... next!

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      cosmicdancer
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      I'm sorry.

      I spoke unkindly. I'm not normally like that. Please forgive me.

      I wish you all the best - truly.

      Peace.

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        unknownuser
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        Aww come on, spit it out )

        A lot of people harbour inner hatred and deep resentment for muslims and islam and this is shown not while amongst muslims, but amongst their own newly adopted community of people (ahem). I believe the Quran speaks on a similar example. This is also true for christianity. So it's all "Please, thank you, Peace" amongst the muslims and "I can't stand those goat****ers" back at home, in the new comfort zone. May I remind everyone that the Quran does contain detailed examples of everybody's psyche and their honesty in matters, and particularly how they associate and treat others. Also please note the appeal to majority/tradition fallacy is exactly that, a fallacy. If 1200 years of Islamic scholarship is correct, please explain how 3000+ years of Jewish scholarship and 1800 years of Christian scholarship is incorrect. When one takes this path, fallacious logic becomes the norm, not the exception.

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          zenje
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          I'm sorry.

          I spoke unkindly. I'm not normally like that. Please forgive me.

          I wish you all the best - truly.

          Peace.

          PEACE.

          peace

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            unknownuser
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            A lot of people harbour inner hatred and deep resentment for muslims and islam and this is shown not while amongst muslims, but amongst their own newly adopted community of people (ahem). I believe the Quran speaks on a similar example. This is also true for christianity. So it's all "Please, thank you, Peace" amongst the muslims and "I can't stand those goat****ers" back at home, in the new comfort zone.
            That is because Muslims display wide openly their intolerances against others and as well as among themselves all in the name of a "fake" god and unyielding to rationality by Quranic technicalities even when "reformed".

            May I remind everyone that the Quran does contain detailed examples of everybody's psyche and their honesty in matters, and particularly how they associate and treat others.
            Is there anything new that the world today and prior to Islam's resurrection, does not know/never knew about fundamental principles and essential living standards that only Quran professed?

            Also please note the appeal to majority/tradition fallacy is exactly that, a fallacy.
            Right! Majority of around 7 billion people today believe in an inconceivable, fathomless invisible fallacious being.

            If 1200 years of Islamic scholarship is correct, please explain how 3000+ years of Jewish scholarship and 1800 years of Christian scholarship is incorrect. When one takes this path, fallacious logic becomes the norm, not the exception.
            Religious doctrines sets its standards by deception and denial and Islam tops it all by rigorous enforcements.

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              unknownuser
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              That is because Muslims display wide openly their intolerances against others and as well as among themselves all in the name of a "fake" god and unyielding to rationality by Quranic technicalities even when "reformed".

              Is there anything new that the world today and prior to Islam's resurrection, does not know/never knew about fundamental principles and essential living standards that only Quran professed?

              Right! Majority of around 7 billion people today believe in an inconceivable, fathomless invisible fallacious being.

              Religious doctrines sets its standards by deception and denial and Islam tops it all by rigorous enforcements.

              That is because Muslims display wide openly their intolerances against others and as well as among themselves all in the name of a "fake" god and unyielding to rationality by Quranic technicalities even when "reformed".

              Please show me this "majority hate" and especially where it is manifested outside of the Danish cartoons episodes and Iran and others.

              Is there anything new that the world today and prior to Islam's resurrection, does not know/never knew about fundamental principles and essential living standards that only Quran professed?

              In other words, "I agree, because I cannot refute this".

              Right! Majority of around 7 billion people today believe in an inconceivable, fathomless invisible fallacious being.

              Please differentiate between the act of appealing to the majority and the majority themselves.

              Religious doctrines sets its standards by deception and denial and Islam tops it all by rigorous enforcements.

              Judging by your perception of Islam, which none but a mentally delusional/high person can have after supposedly being open to all ideas for such a long period of time, it is not surprising you also retain this belief.

              Surah 109 is fitting.

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                AaRoN
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                i never got an answer to why it's ridiculous... aww (

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                  afridi220
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                  i never got an answer to why it's ridiculous... aww (

                  Aaron

                  If yoy wana beat your wife i have posted a short clip in the short clip thread just follow that. rotfl

                  peace rotfl

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                    Jack
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                    I'm sorry.

                    I spoke unkindly. I'm not normally like that. Please forgive me.

                    I wish you all the best - truly.

                    Peace.

                    Peace be with you, I hope I wasn't overly harsh, for that I apologize. I was guilt-ridden afterwards.

                    May God Guide

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                      CavemanDoctor
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                      I'm sorry.

                      I spoke unkindly. I'm not normally like that. Please forgive me.

                      I wish you all the best - truly.

                      Peace.

                      Peace to you.

                      Hopefully, you can stick around and we can all learn from each other, with open minds.

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                        AaRoN
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                        If yoy wana beat your wife i have posted a short clip in the short clip thread just follow that.

                        um... i was referring to cosmicdancer's claim that any other interpretation other than "beat" is ridiculous

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                          Elena
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                          Thank you, Samia.

                          In Lisanul 3arab, volume 1
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                          Translation The camel (daraba) the she camel had intercourse with it (naka7a).

                          Sibawaih says Daraba (the she camel) dirab (participle) is anological to nika7 (linguistic patterns).

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                            AaRoN
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                            "if she don't wanna be reasonable then eff her"

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                              Leoxyz
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                              "if she don't wanna be reasonable then eff her"

                              Yes from Quranist's interpretation
                              First stage = good advice
                              Seconding stage = leaving in the bedrooms
                              Third stage = intercourse
                              How does it help in rectifying the problem.Only a Quranist can tell.

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                                AaRoN
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                                leoxyz this is where the language barrier between yourself and english will get you in trouble, since you don't understand the various meanings of a single english word that starts with the letter F. to say "eff her" is not solely related to sexual intercourse... we often use this term in english as an act of dismissal... technically speaking it would have the same meaning as the phrases "seperate" or "split from her" or something similar.

                                you've really just embarrassed yourself not only by totally misinterpreting, but by being so vocal with your misinterpretation as to once again throw around veiled accusations of tampering )

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                                  unknownuser
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                                  How does it help in rectifying the problem.Only a Quranist can tell.

                                  Hadithist interpretation

                                  First stage = Bad advice; leave if you are not happy
                                  Seconding stage = deserts bedroom for other wives and/or right hand possessions
                                  Third stage = Beat her until she leaves

                                  Repeat steps until she is forced to leave (i.e. thrown to the curb).

                                  How does it help in rectifying the problem? Only a hadithist can tell.

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                                    hlatif
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                                    I actually put what hadithists say about this Aya in my post. It is very different from the above false statement.

                                    Take care all.

                                    Hussein

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                                      cosmicdancer
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                                      Peace be with you, I hope I wasn't overly harsh, for that I apologize. I was guilt-ridden afterwards.

                                      May God Guide

                                      It's OK DArgento - no problem - It was my fault I was being rude.

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                                        unknownuser
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                                        Yes from Quranist's interpretation
                                        First stage = good advice
                                        Seconding stage = leaving in the bedrooms
                                        Third stage = intercourse
                                        How does it help in rectifying the problem.Only a Quranist can tell.

                                        Please underline these "stages" from "Quranist" claims and please show where in the book of the "Quranist" these stages are defined. Thanks. More questions to follow.

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                                          cosmicdancer
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                                          Peace to you.

                                          Hopefully, you can stick around and we can all learn from each other, with open minds.

                                          Thank you - yes I will do what I should have done all along - read and take time before posting again.

                                          Thanks - Peace.

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