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Please share your understanding on this...

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    unknownuser
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    They were born married to each other -)

    Everyone was born married to someone then.... ;D

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      amuslim
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      Peace all,

      Is the two witness' Quran? Besides loans.

      Peace

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        nadeem
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        Everyone was born married to someone then.... ;D

        Hehe, yeah, sentenced before birth.

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          Peace ZS

          I think that's assuming you believe the human race began with two individuals.

          Joe

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            unknownuser
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            Peace ZS

            I think that's assuming you believe the human race began with two individuals.

            Joe

            Yeah, let's assume Adam and his partner were the first human being...

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              TheNabi
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              Peace

              I'd say the family had a little too many get togethers.

              Joe

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                unknownuser
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                Peace

                I'd say the family had a little too many get togethers.

                Joe

                Actually, there is simply a lot of things to think about just on "Adam and Eve" itself.

                If it is true that human race started with two of them, and of course according to the "story" I was taught when I was in school... Which said that they had four children, 2 male and 2 female and they get married to each other... (I totally rejected this rubbish, how could they married each other? Isn't that forbidden by god...)

                But, let us get back to the topic, let say it's not Adam and Eve, let say there is a man and a woman who travel in Sahara desert and nobody was around at that moment, and they decided to get married, who will be their witnesses?

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                  Peace ZS

                  Some of these rules are meant for a "society". I'm not sure two people make one, nor would they need to have contracts between them to be enforced by the society.

                  Joe

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                    unknownuser
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                    Peace ZS

                    Some of these rules are meant for a "society". I'm not sure two people make one, nor would they need to have contracts between them to be enforced by the society.

                    Joe

                    Peace TheNabi,

                    thank you for your reply! I hope I will be able to understand this subject better. Anyway, would you mind to elaborate further when you said that some of the rules are meant for society...

                    Sorry for asking too many questions..

                    Thanks!

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                      Peace TheNabi,

                      thank you for your reply! I hope I will be able to understand this subject better. Anyway, would you mind to elaborate further when you said that some of the rules are meant for society...

                      Sorry for asking too many questions..

                      Thanks!

                      yeah to save you from stoning to death and protect the women right so could not dump her after few months ;D

                      peace

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                        Samia
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                        I do not think that all the rules were there from the beginning. They were revealed gradually according to the evolution of people, the degree of complexity of the society and their discoveries/inventions/needs. Noah' message was mainly monothism, and not to kill, but I think marriage rules were the last to be completed, for example prohibition of marrying sisters or setting of conditions and limits for polygamy were "recent" rules in terms of divine revalation.

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                          ILisa
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                          Greetings 'ZS'

                          hmm

                          Have we 'met' before??

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                            Peace all,

                            Greetings 'ZS'

                            hmm

                            Have we met before??

                            You mean in real life or in this virtual world? Ermm...I guess not...But we definitely know each other now (not that well yet though...) )

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                              Nice to 'meet' you.

                              Sorry to be so forward, I just had to ask because your writing style is very similar to someone else....

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                                Peace all,

                                nice to meet you too!

                                Nice to 'meet' you.

                                Sorry to be so forward, I just had to ask because your writing style is very similar to someone else....

                                Well, being on a planet that have roughly about 6.5 billion people, I wouldn't be surprised even if you've met 1000 people with the same writing style as me...

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                                  Al_Araf
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                                  Salam -ZS-. Your question regarding Adam and Eve is based on false premises.

                                  The following are the false premises A nikah is not a contract, there is no ayat of the Quran that says nikah is a contract. There is no ayat in the Quran that there be two witnesses to a nikah. The had haramna of the Torah were given to Musa long after Adam and Eve had died. There is no ayat that says Adam and Eve had a nikah.

                                  Because all the premises in which your question is based are false there is no question. Allah establishes the truth.

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                                    Samia
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                                    The had haramna of the Torah were given to Musa long after Adam and Eve had died.

                                    Is this underlined word Arabic, Hebrew or gibberish?

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                                      Al_Araf
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                                      Salam samia. Study Quran. Inshallah you will not ask this question if Allah shows you the way. I cannot speak for Allah, it is also possible he will not show you the way.

                                      Allah is the teacher.

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                                        Samia
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                                        Salam samia. Study Quran. Inshallah you will not ask this question if Allah shows you the way. I cannot speak for Allah, it is also possible he will not show you the way.

                                        Allah is the teacher.

                                        Listen Al. I asked you this question before and showed you how silly your phrase was, which you claimed to have taken from verse 6146

                                        "wa 3alal-latheena haaduu 7ar-ramnaa kul-la thi thufurin... And unto those who are jews we forbade every animal with undivided hoof...".

                                        YOU go and study qr'aan AND Arabic, and a lot of manners of debate. you do not even know the difference between haaduu and 7ad. Stop lying to the members of this forum that you know Arabic, and stop your behaviour of intimidation. I hope this will be the last time I address you regarding this.

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                                          liquiddharma
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                                          Yeah, let's assume Adam and his partner were the first human being...

                                          It could be they were the first homo sapiens bestowed with human souls. There might have been a pre-existing society around them of creatures one evolutionary step behind the human level, be they neanderthals or naked apes walking upright, or what have you.

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