Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Users
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Free Minds Forum Icon
  1. Home
  2. General Issues / Questions
  3. Questions/Comments on the Quran
  4. Number of wives?

Number of wives?

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Questions/Comments on the Quran
536 Posts 37 Posters 58.3k Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • F Offline
    F Offline
    farida
    wrote on last edited by
    #260

    Salaam,
    I have voted for "as one as one can manage" and remember that managing means, be there for her as her husband in all walks of life, supporting her financially and sexually as well as companionably, strong enough to provide for her needs....any example there? angel
    Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
    peace

    1 Reply Last reply
    0
    • A Offline
      A Offline
      afridi220
      wrote on last edited by
      #261

      Salaam,
      I have voted for "as one as one can manage" and remember that managing means, be there for her as her husband in all walks of life, supporting her financially and sexually as well as companionably, strong enough to provide for her needs....any example there?
      Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
      peace

      ) how you know that laugh

      1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • F Offline
        F Offline
        farida
        wrote on last edited by
        #262

        ) how you know that laugh

        And you don't know about this ? )

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • A Offline
          A Offline
          afridi220
          wrote on last edited by
          #263

          And you don't know about this ? )

          Yes i know cause im living here with them but how you know ;D

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • A Offline
            A Offline
            afridi220
            wrote on last edited by
            #264

            Salaam,
            Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
            peace

            Really I fell down laughing from the chair. It is very true if you go to the court here you will find most of divorce cases are filed by women on the above said allegations.

            laugh laugh

            1 Reply Last reply
            0
            • F Offline
              F Offline
              farida
              wrote on last edited by
              #265

              Yes i know cause im living here with them but how you know ;D

              There are enough of them here going on shopping sprees. '(

              1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • F Offline
                F Offline
                farida
                wrote on last edited by
                #266

                Really I fell down laughing from the chair.
                laugh laugh

                Now you notice what I wrote wow

                It is very true if you go to the court here you will find most of divorce cases are filed by women on the above said allegations.

                I hope they dont end up in front a Judge who gives this verdict likr A-A
                ?If the gentleman had married one woman, went on to marry another woman, then married a third woman, all three without giving any one of them a talaq, this gentleman is well within the hudood, he has a right accorded to him by Allah to have more than one wife. To speak ill of his conduct is gheebat, his conduct is that of a momin.? brickwall

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • A Offline
                  A Offline
                  afridi220
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #267

                  Now you notice what I wrote wow

                  I hope they dont end up in front a Judge who gives this verdict likr A-A
                  ?If the gentleman had married one woman, went on to marry another woman, then married a third woman, all three without giving any one of them a talaq, this gentleman is well within the hudood, he has a right accorded to him by Allah to have more than one wife. To speak ill of his conduct is gheebat, his conduct is that of a momin.? brickwall

                  Please don?t break the wall a fortune of knowledge is buried under it.
                  The women of this country are very bold and strong they know how to get divorce secondly they have very good jobs and don?t care about men superiority at all and the government is very helpful.

                  voodoo

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • S Offline
                    S Offline
                    SwedenMajidah
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #268

                    Salaam,
                    I have voted for "as one as one can manage" and remember that managing means, be there for her as her husband in all walks of life, supporting her financially and sexually as well as companionably, strong enough to provide for her needs....any example there? angel
                    Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
                    peace

                    Peace,

                    Good point sister Farida!!! Men are too greedy, they want too much and cannot manage it ;D

                    Maria

                    1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • A Offline
                      A Offline
                      afridi220
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #269

                      Peace,

                      Good point sister Farida!!! Men are too greedy, they want too much and cannot manage it ;D

                      Maria

                      Maria please you can not blame all men this is not fair of you. >(

                      ;D

                      1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • S Offline
                        S Offline
                        SwedenMajidah
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #270

                        Maria please you can not blame all men this is not fair of you. >(

                        ;D

                        yeah perhaps but men are often not fair with women so hmm we have to be muscle

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        0
                        • A Offline
                          A Offline
                          afridi220
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #271

                          yeah perhaps but men are often not fair with women so hmm we have to be muscle

                          No this is not true you can not beat all men with one stick police

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • S Offline
                            S Offline
                            siki
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #272

                            Dear friends let us just analyse this word from 3359 alone

                            How come one can read it as one word "Azwajaka". Please pay attention to alphabets. Peace and love.

                            Badar

                            Badar!

                            How about you doing some hard work , and analyse this arabic word.

                            siki

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • B Offline
                              B Offline
                              bkanwar2
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #273

                              Siki, are you up for hard work? Let me be the first one to start it and analyse this word linguistically. All on this board and everywhere are insistent that it is "Azwajika". In this verse 3359 and preceeding 3350 it stands for wives of prophet. Hence, grammatically all asume it to be a noun. Does anybody on this forum differ from this conclusion?

                              Badar

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • M Offline
                                M Offline
                                Muslimtruthrevealed
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #274

                                Siki, are you up for hard work? Let me be the first one to start it and analyse this word linguistically. All on this board and everywhere are insistent that it is "Azwajika". In this verse 3359 and preceeding 3350 it stands for wives of prophet. Hence, grammatically all asume it to be a noun. Does anybody on this forum differ from this conclusion?

                                Badar

                                Assalaam Alaikum Brotha Badar

                                Azwaji-ka means YOUR mates or spouses, the 'Ka' is a 2nd person pronoun, denoting now, present tense NOT past tense.

                                This ayah and word was appropriate during the time of the Prophet, but the Prophet is no longer here.

                                Nor is it referring to a plurality of multiple wives.

                                If it was referring to the Prophet it would be Azwaji-ha, which is a 3rd person reference, referring to someone or something who is NOT present or in the past. It would also be preceded by a preposition like 'ida', denoting a past tense reference.

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                0
                                • B Offline
                                  B Offline
                                  bkanwar2
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #275

                                  So in nutshell, you are saying that, this word, if it is a word. It is a combination of a noun and pronoun. That is Azwaji, a noun and Ka a pronun. Am I understanding you correctly? Is this how everybody understands it as well. Peace and love.

                                  Badar

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • A Offline
                                    A Offline
                                    anna
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #276

                                    yeah perhaps but men are often not fair with women so hmm we have to be muscle

                                    have you been doing weights my dear maria

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    0
                                    • A Offline
                                      A Offline
                                      anna
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #277

                                      Maria please you can not blame all men this is not fair of you. >

                                      ;D

                                      why can we not blame all men, we are in a free country afterall, or at least I AM rotfl

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      0
                                      • M Offline
                                        M Offline
                                        Muslimtruthrevealed
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #278

                                        So in nutshell, you are saying that, this word, if it is a word. It is a combination of a noun and pronoun. That is Azwaji, a noun and Ka a pronun. Am I understanding you correctly? Is this how everybody understands it as well. Peace and love.

                                        Badar

                                        Yes, Your understanding is correct in regards to my observations.

                                        How everyone else understands it, is beyond my perceptions.

                                        As Allah states 'If you follow the majority of people on the earth, they will lead you away from the path of Allah'

                                        1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • A Offline
                                          A Offline
                                          afridi220
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #279

                                          why can we not blame all men, we are in a free country afterall, or at least I AM rotfl

                                          wow what do you means by free country ? do you means there is no man in that country hmm

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Don't have an account? Register

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Users