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Number of wives?

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    siki
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    Sis Maria, indeed sincerity of heart and mind is the prime prerequisite for understanding the book.
    One thing should be clear that the exalted prophet could not and did not marry anybody after been bestowed with prophethood, as this would have been clear violation of the very message he was going to preach. I will try to explore from Alkitab if we can answer how many wifes he had?

    Badar

    It is better to explore first, because otherwise you are Most likely to mislead the innocent minds around. He was told at a certain stage, that NO MORE, but not stopped after prophet hood.

    33-50 O Prophet! surely We have made lawful to you your wives whom you have given their dowries, and those whom your right hand possesses out of those whom Allah has given to you as prisoners of war, and the daughters of your paternal uncles and the daughters of your paternal aunts, and the daughters of your maternal uncles and the daughters of your maternal aunts who fled with you; and a believing woman if she gave herself to the Prophet, if the Prophet desired to marry her -- specially for you, not for the (rest of) believers; We know what We have ordained for them concerning their wives and those whom their right hands possess in order that no blame may attach to you; and Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

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      Muslimtruthrevealed
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      Kindly, at least bother to read the BOOK, before you type in such sweeping statements. Here is where God thought it be appropriate to adress prophet's wives.

      33-59 O Prophet! say to your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers that they let down upon them their over-garments; this will be more proper, that they may be known, and thus they will not be given trouble; and Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

      siki

      33.59...... Ya ayyuha alnnabiyyu qul li azwajika wa banatika /

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      ya ayyuha annabiyyu does NOT mean 'O Prophet, You O' Prophet'

      Ya Nominative Case

      ?Ya? used to express feelings or affection towards someone or something when followed by a verbal noun or Nominative Case. ; Language of the Holy Quran, page 400

      azwajika / YOUR mate or spouse

      banatika / YOUR daughter

      'ka' is 2nd person pronoun meaning 'You', present tense

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        It is better to explore first, because otherwise you are Most likely to mislead the innocent minds around. He was told at a certain stage, that NO MORE, but not stopped after prophet hood.

        33-50 O Prophet! surely We have made lawful to you your wives whom you have given their dowries, and those whom your right hand possesses out of those whom Allah has given to you as prisoners of war, and the daughters of your paternal uncles and the daughters of your paternal aunts, and the daughters of your maternal uncles and the daughters of your maternal aunts who fled with you; and a believing woman if she gave herself to the Prophet, if the Prophet desired to marry her -- specially for you, not for the (rest of) believers; We know what We have ordained for them concerning their wives and those whom their right hands possess in order that no blame may attach to you; and Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.

        33.50.... Ya ayyuha alnnabiyyu inna ahlalna laka azwajaka /

        Again....

        ya ayyuha annabiyyu does NOT mean 'O Prophet, You O' Prophet'

        Ya Nominative Case

        ?Ya? used to express feelings or affection towards someone or something when followed by a verbal noun or Nominative Case. ; Language of the Holy Quran, page 400

        azwajika / YOUR mate or spouse

        'ka' is 2nd person pronoun meaning 'You', present tense

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          siki
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          You are welcome, Siki.

          Indeed it was very intelligent of you to capitalize on such a subtle hint.

          siki

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            siki
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            siki, i just reported your above comment as sexist

            I agree, guess i need to be careful.

            siki

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              bkanwar2
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              Dear friends let us just analyse this word from 3359 alone

              How come one can read it as one word "Azwajaka". Please pay attention to alphabets. Peace and love.

              Badar

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                farida
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                Salaam,
                I have voted for "as one as one can manage" and remember that managing means, be there for her as her husband in all walks of life, supporting her financially and sexually as well as companionably, strong enough to provide for her needs....any example there? angel
                Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
                peace

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                  Salaam,
                  I have voted for "as one as one can manage" and remember that managing means, be there for her as her husband in all walks of life, supporting her financially and sexually as well as companionably, strong enough to provide for her needs....any example there?
                  Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
                  peace

                  ) how you know that laugh

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                    farida
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                    ) how you know that laugh

                    And you don't know about this ? )

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                      afridi220
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                      And you don't know about this ? )

                      Yes i know cause im living here with them but how you know ;D

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                        Salaam,
                        Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
                        peace

                        Really I fell down laughing from the chair. It is very true if you go to the court here you will find most of divorce cases are filed by women on the above said allegations.

                        laugh laugh

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                          farida
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                          Yes i know cause im living here with them but how you know ;D

                          There are enough of them here going on shopping sprees. '(

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                            farida
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                            Really I fell down laughing from the chair.
                            laugh laugh

                            Now you notice what I wrote wow

                            It is very true if you go to the court here you will find most of divorce cases are filed by women on the above said allegations.

                            I hope they dont end up in front a Judge who gives this verdict likr A-A
                            ?If the gentleman had married one woman, went on to marry another woman, then married a third woman, all three without giving any one of them a talaq, this gentleman is well within the hudood, he has a right accorded to him by Allah to have more than one wife. To speak ill of his conduct is gheebat, his conduct is that of a momin.? brickwall

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                              afridi220
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                              Now you notice what I wrote wow

                              I hope they dont end up in front a Judge who gives this verdict likr A-A
                              ?If the gentleman had married one woman, went on to marry another woman, then married a third woman, all three without giving any one of them a talaq, this gentleman is well within the hudood, he has a right accorded to him by Allah to have more than one wife. To speak ill of his conduct is gheebat, his conduct is that of a momin.? brickwall

                              Please don?t break the wall a fortune of knowledge is buried under it.
                              The women of this country are very bold and strong they know how to get divorce secondly they have very good jobs and don?t care about men superiority at all and the government is very helpful.

                              voodoo

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                                SwedenMajidah
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                                Salaam,
                                I have voted for "as one as one can manage" and remember that managing means, be there for her as her husband in all walks of life, supporting her financially and sexually as well as companionably, strong enough to provide for her needs....any example there? angel
                                Not like wealthy Arabs who can only give their wives enough money to shop and are unable to satisfy them, thus leaving many sexually frustrated.
                                peace

                                Peace,

                                Good point sister Farida!!! Men are too greedy, they want too much and cannot manage it ;D

                                Maria

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                                  afridi220
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                                  Peace,

                                  Good point sister Farida!!! Men are too greedy, they want too much and cannot manage it ;D

                                  Maria

                                  Maria please you can not blame all men this is not fair of you. >(

                                  ;D

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                                    SwedenMajidah
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                                    Maria please you can not blame all men this is not fair of you. >(

                                    ;D

                                    yeah perhaps but men are often not fair with women so hmm we have to be muscle

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                                      yeah perhaps but men are often not fair with women so hmm we have to be muscle

                                      No this is not true you can not beat all men with one stick police

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                                        siki
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                                        Dear friends let us just analyse this word from 3359 alone

                                        How come one can read it as one word "Azwajaka". Please pay attention to alphabets. Peace and love.

                                        Badar

                                        Badar!

                                        How about you doing some hard work , and analyse this arabic word.

                                        siki

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                                          bkanwar2
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                                          Siki, are you up for hard work? Let me be the first one to start it and analyse this word linguistically. All on this board and everywhere are insistent that it is "Azwajika". In this verse 3359 and preceeding 3350 it stands for wives of prophet. Hence, grammatically all asume it to be a noun. Does anybody on this forum differ from this conclusion?

                                          Badar

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