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    Roshan
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    salam jasmin.

    please show some respect for the opinions of the men. to claim the men are not serious is disrespectful to the men.
    you cannot set aside the men's opinion by claiming men are not serious.

    men are required to obey allah, and if allah says something is persmissible for men, a mans right, men will protect
    their rights, even if women try and deprive men of their rights.

    how can a woman display unhappiness with what allah has instituted?

    the ultimate love, is the love of allah, and allah's love for mankind. should we be unhappy that allah loves others as
    well? no that would be wrong.

    allah has a justice in the system he created. a wife, first has an intimate relationship with her husband. then the wife
    has an even more intimate relationship with her children. as a result, a wife has an intimate relationship with more than
    one person, the husband and the children. the husband has an intimate relationship with the wife, and not an intimate
    realtionship with the children. justice and fairness dictate, that if a wife can have more than one intimate relationship
    then a husband must also have the same, more than one intimate relationship. anything else would be unjust.

    i use the term intimate, to describe the fact that a child grows inside a wife's body, and a child does not grow inside
    a husbands body.

    allah is justice.

    Peace

    YOU Allah has instituted polygamy - no proof.

    YOU It is unfair for women to complain about the above (but no proof provided). In fact polygamy (no proof provided) is man's gift because he cannot get pregnant!

    Oh dear.

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      Al_Araf
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      salam roshan. before you post you should check the quran in your hand.

      YOU Allah has instituted polygamy - no proof.

      if you spoke english better, you would know multiple wives is not polygamy. it is polygyny. mistake number one.

      if you had actually read the quran, you would have seen the word "azwaajan" or wives, plural. allah speaks of that which he has established for mankind. allah has spoken of azwajan, allah has not stated azwajan as fawahish, makruh, or haram. allah has stated in the quran that the messengers had azwajan.

      if you do not read the quran you will not see the proof.

      allah is the one who proves.

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        Samia
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        salam samia.
        a moderator told me misleading people is disrespecting the forum rules.

        you posted
        that post misled all the forum members. inshallah you tell the truth and you are not a liar.
        did you ban yourself for violating the forum rules?

        allah separates falsehood from the truth.

        How about a deal?

        • If I fail to provide proof of this root ( ) for the verb I step down as moderator and you have your peace of mind.
        • If I provide the proof, from at least one classical Arabic dictionary, you change your name from Chapter 7 to Chapter 63.
          How about that?
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          belH
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          • If I provide the proof, from at least one classical Arabic dictionary, you change your name from Chapter 7 to Chapter 63.
            How about that?

          I wish you can provide the proof, so He can change his name rotfl

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            unknownuser
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            How about a deal?

            • If I fail to provide proof of this root ( ) for the verb I step down as moderator and you have your peace of mind.
            • If I provide the proof, from at least one classical Arabic dictionary, you change your name from Chapter 7 to Chapter 63.
              How about that?

            rotfl

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              belH
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              if you spoke english better

              How about if you spoke Truth Better you would understand the Quran?

              Quran is the Final Light for Man Kind; it is for Jews to understand That the Christ came, and He was Jesus. and for the Christian to Know that Jesus is not God nor the Son of God; and it shows the Final Laws of God, which are much easier than what was prescribed in Torah, as God shows 7-157. Say the Truth so you can see it.

              Al...what is your problem? you need to stop manipulating the Quran, or otherwise, I will not feel sorry for you if you get kicked out from the forum.

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                belH
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                rotfl

                I do not know why Samia is taking so long to provide the proof? oh...maybe she is waiting for Al to accept her Challenge rotfl
                Come on Al, do not be afraid from a Woman...you the Man yes

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                  belH
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                  How about a deal?

                  • If I fail to provide proof of this root ( ) for the verb I step down as moderator and you have your peace of mind.

                  Samia.... & do not fail & otherwise, Al Araf will Kick all of us out of the Forum, so he can Rest... Samia, should I panic?

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                    Samia
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                    Samia.... & do not fail & otherwise, Al Araf will Kick all of us out of the Forum, so he can Rest... Samia, should I panic?

                    hehehe! I was asleep! It was almost midnight when I posted my "offer"! It's now 633 a.m. Only about 7 hours passed
                    Waiting for Al's acceptance of the offer.

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                      Samia
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                      Nine hours and no reponse? I take it you can't make a decision, and I understand. However, I will not wait indefinitely for your acceptance.
                      Here's my response

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                      From this site of a collection of CA

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                        Roshan
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                        salam roshan. before you post you should check the quran in your hand.

                        if you spoke english better, you would know multiple wives is not polygamy. it is polygyny. mistake number one.

                        if you had actually read the quran, you would have seen the word "azwaajan" or wives, plural. allah speaks of that which he has established for mankind. allah has spoken of azwajan, allah has not stated azwajan as fawahish, makruh, or haram. allah has stated in the quran that the messengers had azwajan.

                        if you do not read the quran you will not see the proof.

                        allah is the one who proves.

                        1. Using God's name in vain does not make your point any more or less incorrect.
                        2. Polygamy is a term used for multiple marriages and hence is a broader term that encompasses polygyny - big deal (I could also correct your grammar, punctuation but that it not the point of the discussion - go figure why you have pointed out this irrelevancy).
                        3. As was mentioned at the beginning of the discussion the taking of more than one wife may be allowed, but only under certain circumstances. This is mentioned in God's revelation ('if you have orphans you feel you cannot deal with etc'.). You seem to have ignored this in God's revelation, yet then go on to write 'allah is the one who proves' (see point 1.).
                        4. It was only after I had posted that I realized some others had also pointed out the fallacies of your 'argument'. It is better for everyone if we all maintain our humility and grow spiritually as we are all seeking to better understand God's message.

                        Roshan

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                          afridi220
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                          Samia.... & do not fail & otherwise, Al Araf will Kick all of us out of the Forum, so he can Rest... Samia, should I panic?

                          ALLAH IS THE LAW GIVER jedi

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                            Jasmin
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                            I do not know why Samia is taking so long to provide the proof? oh...maybe she is waiting for Al to accept her Challenge rotfl
                            Come on Al, do not be afraid from a Woman...you the Man yes

                            Al come on! be a man and accept the challenge muscle

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                              afridi220
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                              Al come on! be a man and accept the challenge muscle

                              Are you inviting him for wrestling? wow

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                                Jasmin
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                                Are you inviting him for wrestling? wow

                                hahahahahah....Princess J does not wrestle ;D

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                                  afridi220
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                                  hahahahahah....Princess J does not wrestle ;D

                                  Ok princess then who is you Allah din? ;D

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                                    Jasmin
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                                    Ok princess then who is you Allah din? ;D

                                    ;D ;D.....??

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                                      afridi220
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                                      ;D ;D.....??

                                      Ok you dont want to tell no prob.. But im sure AL will say it is haram !

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                                        Jasmin
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                                        Ok you dont want to tell no prob.. But im sure AL will say it is haram !

                                        LOL ;D i think your right!....might aswell avoid a lecture.. angel

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                                          liquiddharma
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                                          This thread was inspired by 'Hope'...all due credit goes to her for coming up with such a genius idea! ;D sun

                                          So guys...what do you really think?...

                                          (I forgot to add that mothers/sisters/grandmothers...etc are excluded)

                                          There's also platonic love for female friends whom you do not have sex with.

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